KaniPi 2,626 Posted July 10, 2018 Share Posted July 10, 2018 I don’t know if I’m being paranoid, but ever since I started making a few of my posts public on Facebook mainly my art work, the person who I really loved (who basically chose to stay with his girlfriend and not be with me, even when he had feelings also) suddenly started making a lot of his posts with his friends and girlfriend public. This went on for a few days he would take off a few photos then add more again. Until today where he has completely made his profile private. No public posts whatsoever. Even more weird is that his girlfriend has done the exact same thing as well. I haven’t ever clicked on their profiles at all, it just shows when you search their name so they couldn’t have known. Also I don’t look everyday but I guess I just noticed it more because of the suddenness. Is something seriously wrong? I’m worried because I don’t want him to feel like I am a weirdo. I haven’t contacted him for more than a year now. Does this mean he is looking at my profile as well? I’m trying very hard to move on but it’s hard. If he doesn’t care then why do this? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Le kwan 461 Posted July 10, 2018 Share Posted July 10, 2018 Just a few questions: Is he in your friends list on FB? Was his FB always private before ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Repeat 1,397 Posted July 10, 2018 Share Posted July 10, 2018 I think you are reading too much into this. It's unlikely to be related to you at all. Stop checking their profiles....it's time to move on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KaniPi 2,626 Posted July 10, 2018 Author Share Posted July 10, 2018 Just a few questions: Is he in your friends list on FB? Was his FB always private before ? No he’s not added as my friend. No it’s never really been. There’s always been at least some pictures he has made public. But today literally every single one has been private. I have never clicked into his profile. It just appears when you search his name but not anymore. I think you are reading too much into this. It's unlikely to be related to you at all. Stop checking their profiles....it's time to move on. Probably not. I just found it strange. I know that’s why I deactivated my Facebook but I can’t right now because I have friends on there who I stay in contact. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Le kwan 461 Posted July 10, 2018 Share Posted July 10, 2018 No he’s not added as my friend. No it’s never really been. There’s always been at least some pictures he has made public. But today literally every single one has been private. I have never clicked into his profile. It just appears when you search his name but not anymore. Probably not. I just found it strange. I know that’s why I deactivated my Facebook but I can’t right now because I have friends on there who I stay in contact. Well in that case I think either way he checks on your profile and thinks you do the same giving your "history" together and once you made your posts public, he may took it as a sign and started to make his pictures with friends and GF public as a way to show you that he's living his best life and then stopped for whatever reason, a lot of people do this it's petty but it's common. Or you're just overthinking the whole situation, you do you darling, whether he thinks you're a weirdo or a stalker doesn't matter, he's a stranger now so that's his problem. If you want to talk more about it you can just PM me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jurin � Onew 207 Posted September 2, 2018 Share Posted September 2, 2018 Nah. just be yourself. Who cares what he does or what he thinks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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