YeoChin Fairies 1,989 Posted June 27, 2018 Share Posted June 27, 2018 It's been almost a year...I tried fucking everything. From struggling a lot to confess to him to distant,force myself to focus on studies blah blah blah. I didn't improve a little. I know I could get over slowly if I dated someone. But I'm limited to date irl and i don't like online dating. I feel like I'm being manipulated by my own feelings and I don't like this. I've changed from a strong minded girl to a fragile one TT WTF do I do? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grape Soda 12,004 Posted June 27, 2018 Share Posted June 27, 2018 Have you already confessed? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YeoChin Fairies 1,989 Posted June 27, 2018 Author Share Posted June 27, 2018 Have you already confessed? Yea ig. But even if he liked me back I would not date online and it's a blind crush i can feel it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fracherin 695 Posted June 27, 2018 Share Posted June 27, 2018 IDK maybe you should confess, being rejected (if you get rejected ofc) might let you let go edit: idk then Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
juanlag 492 Posted June 27, 2018 Share Posted June 27, 2018 You just need time, love is complicated, if you really like someone it's not like if it's easy to suddenly forget about him/her. Maybe you'll find other person, maybe just with time you'll end getting over him/her or maybe you're lucky and you end together! What i'd recomend you it to don't focus too much in it, it can be important of course, but don't make it the center of your life, and just wait for the best. Good luck ^^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UMJI MOODS 11,518 Posted June 27, 2018 Share Posted June 27, 2018 Your crush must have some bad points that you don't like. Think of those and multiply that by the time you would have spent together. Something annoying is good. Nobody is perfect. Like aversion therapy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
emma 2,313 Posted June 27, 2018 Share Posted June 27, 2018 been there. cut all contact and eventually you'll get over him Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darkyoda47 10 Posted June 27, 2018 Share Posted June 27, 2018 Sometimes, it's okay to be fragile, so don't worry. You just need time. I'm sure you'll get over this crush eventually. Stay strong ^^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
<Taesthetic> 92 Posted June 27, 2018 Share Posted June 27, 2018 Maybe you should stop checking his instagram Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GodYezi 102 Posted June 27, 2018 Share Posted June 27, 2018 You have to study. Focus on that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Missguided 1 Posted June 27, 2018 Share Posted June 27, 2018 Cut off ALL contact, delete Insta, snap, facebook + messenger, number, etc. don't just delete, BLOCK ur crush too. No more talking to him/her/them/whatever. that's how I got over my ex who broke things off a few weeks ago saying she just "had no more feelings" like she woke up one day and just didn't like me anymore. she was my first love so it hurt like hell and I got drunk and texted her and did all this shit....the ONLY thing that actually helped: completely cutting her off, no "lets just be friends" bullshit, at least not until you get over it. So cut ur crush off 200% entirely, avoid them irl and online, and then be BUSY. Work, study, volunteer hang with friends. just don't be idle. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LMAOjain 4 Posted June 28, 2018 Share Posted June 28, 2018 time.. only time can heal everything Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pleasure 2,956 Posted June 29, 2018 Share Posted June 29, 2018 make yourself busy meet other people try new things go on some dates don't visit their social media play video games Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
midnightdreams 810 Posted June 29, 2018 Share Posted June 29, 2018 Cut off ALL contact, delete Insta, snap, facebook + messenger, number, etc. don't just delete, BLOCK ur crush too. No more talking to him/her/them/whatever. that's how I got over my ex who broke things off a few weeks ago saying she just "had no more feelings" like she woke up one day and just didn't like me anymore. she was my first love so it hurt like hell and I got drunk and texted her and did all this shit....the ONLY thing that actually helped: completely cutting her off, no "lets just be friends" bullshit, at least not until you get over it. So cut ur crush off 200% entirely, avoid them irl and online, and then be BUSY. Work, study, volunteer hang with friends. just don't be idle. this. Was in a similar boat with a crush for over a year. It's gonna suck for a bit but once it's done, you're a free single person ready to mingle. Honestly just think of all the time you invested in this person. That's what got to me. We were friends but I felt like I was doing 80% of the friendship and that's what made me mad and cut that boy off. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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