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If your friends see you getting bullied but don't do anything/don't protect you are they really your friends?


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#1 Manko

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Posted 26 June 2018 - 12:16 PM

Was thinking about this
Discuss


#2 pinkpanda_spirit

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Posted 26 June 2018 - 12:18 PM

no... the drama LIFE taught me this




#3 dochan

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Posted 26 June 2018 - 12:18 PM

No, if they don't want to get directly involved they can at least try to help some other way




#4 CakeyMESS

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Posted 26 June 2018 - 12:25 PM

No, real friends will cuss out that bitch for u.


#5 l3m0n g4rd3n

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Posted 26 June 2018 - 12:25 PM

No




#6 chrystal

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Posted 26 June 2018 - 12:27 PM

Sure they can still be a friend, not everyone is perfect.

 

But on the topic of bullying more people should speak up in general, period.




#7 smrookies girls

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Posted 26 June 2018 - 12:32 PM

It depends of their reasons. If they don't do anything because they are scared of being bullied too then I guess it's okay. If it's just that they don't care then no




#8 Grape Soda

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Posted 26 June 2018 - 12:32 PM

No.


#9 Pleasure

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Posted 26 June 2018 - 12:35 PM

No.




#10 dprian

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Posted 26 June 2018 - 12:39 PM

nope




#11 Panwink Trash

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Posted 26 June 2018 - 12:41 PM

the question is

 

are they capable of protecting me?

 

if they can't do shit then I'd prefer then not to involve in it at the first place

some of my friends doesn't even have the minimum amount of confidence to be themselves even with me when I'm supposed to be their best friend, how can they have the courage to protect me? I wouldn't say this is all connected




#12 OutroTear

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Posted 26 June 2018 - 12:43 PM

No.




#13 SugaJam

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Posted 26 June 2018 - 12:49 PM

Depends

 

Not everyone is able to be confrontational 

 

I have a friend who can't be confrontational to save her life but she drove 2 hours (in traffic) to pick me up at the airport last minutes




#14 Kaitoh

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Posted 26 June 2018 - 12:50 PM

No




#15 karma_99

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Posted 26 June 2018 - 12:57 PM

no




#16 Arthur Morgan

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Posted 26 June 2018 - 01:16 PM

No

 

unless the people messing with you were highly dangerous but you were never gonna see them again anyways or smth




#17 Felix_The_Cat

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Posted 26 June 2018 - 01:26 PM

It depends of their reasons. If they don't do anything because they are scared of being bullied too then I guess it's okay. If it's just that they don't care then no

 

 

Depends

 

Not everyone is able to be confrontational 

 

I have a friend who can't be confrontational to save her life but she drove 2 hours (in traffic) to pick me up at the airport last minutes

This.




#18 Frachérin

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Posted 26 June 2018 - 01:31 PM

It depends of their reasons. If they don't do anything because they are scared of being bullied too then I guess it's okay. If it's just that they don't care then no

This.




#19 jeonsbegin

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Posted 26 June 2018 - 01:47 PM

Depends

 

Not everyone is able to be confrontational 

 

I have a friend who can't be confrontational to save her life but she drove 2 hours (in traffic) to pick me up at the airport last minutes




#20 LMAOjain

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Posted 29 June 2018 - 03:11 AM

how can a friend just ignoring while you are being bullied by someone? they are definitely not friends to you







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