YeoChin Fairies 1,989 Posted June 22, 2018 Share Posted June 22, 2018 I may be stupid or whatever but i hate everything about my ethnic. Not only may some people have a bad impression of it but i think my ethnic look is very ugly. Everyday i wish i was a pretty white girl with blue eyes and blonde hair that all guys love. Or maybe an Asian girl as cute as yerin. Maybe a hot black girl. Idk...i just hate myself and my country. Not going to mention my ethnic bcz it may sound offensive to people from the same one tho. But i wish i could stop hating myself. Ain't gonna happen until i become pretty tho. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
· Moonrise · 956 Posted June 22, 2018 Share Posted June 22, 2018 I’m ok with how I am ~ and you should be, too ~ ~ always remember that you are not defined by how you look ~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted June 22, 2018 Share Posted June 22, 2018 I like my ethnic look Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
U R Messy AF 7,087 Posted June 22, 2018 Share Posted June 22, 2018 Ain't gonna happen until i become pretty tho. You already are. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Llamaber 3,052 Posted June 22, 2018 Share Posted June 22, 2018 I don't hate it, I actually like it because it makes me look different than most people. But I understand where you're coming from, sometimes I don't want to be associated with my ethnicity because of certain views and mentality, especially all the gossiping within the community. More than anything, I try to let my own self show and not be bothered by other people, whether that's people of my ethnicity or not. If people are mature enough, then they'll judge me as me and not by my ethnicity or other associations. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YeoChin Fairies 1,989 Posted June 22, 2018 Author Share Posted June 22, 2018 You already are. How can u tell? I mean its not easy for me to think that way and not care for what other people say... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PinkCake 1,161 Posted June 22, 2018 Share Posted June 22, 2018 Sometimes it happens, especially when we're young, I hope you get through this OP What really helped me was to know that the best look you can have is probably your ethnicity I remember when I didn't like my lips bc how it wasn't as small as the jenner sisters, how tables have turned lmaoo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Midnight Circus 3,341 Posted June 22, 2018 Share Posted June 22, 2018 I like my ethnic look, but i understand where you come from. Sometimes people mock our skin tone, and it ain't fun. Ot, but why u use my dp Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YeoChin Fairies 1,989 Posted June 22, 2018 Author Share Posted June 22, 2018 I like my ethnic look, but i understand where you come from. Sometimes people mock our skin tone, and it ain't fun. Ot, but why u use my dp I set it as my dp as soon as one buddy posted on gf main thread hahahaI noticed we had the same dp earlier but i thought u wont see me around since im recently very inactive xD Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grape Soda 12,004 Posted June 22, 2018 Share Posted June 22, 2018 No, I've never wanted to be a different race. Just wanted to be treated like I wasn't lesser, but I've never been ashamed of it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Saint Rose 9,391 Posted June 22, 2018 Share Posted June 22, 2018 Who told you that you’re ethnic look ugly???? You clearly didn’t grow up thinking that- if I knew your ethnicity I could guarantee post 100 fine ass people, do not let a single person define what is beautiful or not. There’s good and ugly people everywhere so no ethnicity is better looking than another. + there’s plenty of positive impression of any damn race and ethnicity I can’t think of a single ethnicity that have nothing but negatives impressions There’s people are all ethnicities wishing they could swap for another- what does that tell you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
U R Messy AF 7,087 Posted June 22, 2018 Share Posted June 22, 2018 How can u tell? I mean its not easy for me to think that way and not care for what other people say... I can't tell, I don't actually know what you look like. But what I do know for certain is that beauty is subjective. Just as you hate your appearance, someone in the world could easily think you're the most beautiful thing. I know that It's not easy to just look past your insecurities - I don't think I'm the hottest thing on the planet either, and it's not as if I don't understand what it's like to be made to feel like I'm far from conventional standards of beauty because of my ethnicity; but as long as I keep reminding myself that beauty is this abstract thing and that I fit some standard that exists, it makes it easier to look at my reflection and not want to see someone else. Ultimately, it's up to you what you consider beautiful. I'm sorry if I made it seem like I was trying to tell you how to feel about your appearance, I simply said that you're pretty based on my personal belief that you're beautiful in your own way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Midnight Circus 3,341 Posted June 22, 2018 Share Posted June 22, 2018 I set it as my dp as soon as one buddy posted on gf main thread hahaha I noticed we had the same dp earlier but i thought u wont see me around since im recently very inactive xD It's fun cause it feels like i have a twin, imma call you twin now :D Yeah, i was wondering where you at these days, because you're very active during Love Whisper era. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hormones 1,612 Posted June 22, 2018 Share Posted June 22, 2018 I'm black/middle eastern. I honestly don't care about my ethnicity. I am who I am. What else matters ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_✖✖_ 2,949 Posted June 22, 2018 Share Posted June 22, 2018 my ethnic doesn't have a specific look Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rozysebelas 173 Posted June 22, 2018 Share Posted June 22, 2018 i just hate mustache, that shit never look's good on me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
harumaki 4,354 Posted June 22, 2018 Share Posted June 22, 2018 I think every person is beautiful just by being themselves, I don't think the problem is your ethnicity... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TENTASTIC 465 Posted June 22, 2018 Share Posted June 22, 2018 i dont hate my ethnic look. i sometimes like it but most of the time i don't think about it that much Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tiarabot 552 Posted June 23, 2018 Share Posted June 23, 2018 do you live overseas/away from the country of your ethnicity? I was like that once but after spending several years in my home country (i grew up abroad) i came to love how we look Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wonsungies 115 Posted June 23, 2018 Share Posted June 23, 2018 I felt this way when I was 12-14 years old. I absolutely hated being a part of my race as well as hating the way I looked. Not only did I have to worry about "racism" but also "colorism" within my own race and let me tell you the colorism had a way worse impact. Imagine your parents telling you to not trust _______ people because they are racist only to be verbally harrassed about your skin color and how you act different from other people in your community. It really made me resent my race. When I was in my mid teens around 16-18, I became really indifferent about my ethinicity, I still wasn't proud to be who I was and I did my best to try not to recognize myself as x person, but just as me. This is when I really started paying more attention to fashion and subculture and I became comfortable there.Dressing a certain way (way back then I was really into jrock/visual kei style) made me felt like I belonged somewhere that wasn't based on my skin and really helped me relax and learn more about myself. As I got to college, I had long drifted away from being apart of a subculture and I dressed more normal but I still put a lot of effort into being apart of a community that made me feel comfortable and worried less about the world around me. I am 24 now and I am proud of my skin color and the way I look but its because I took all that time to learn about myself and to love myself. If I am honest I do not really associate myself with people of my race unless we have the same interests, so I don't say "well x have to stick together so I should make more x friends" Taking that burden of way of having to "belong" to my race really helped to like how I look. Also utilizing more things within my control: how I do my hair, how I dress, what perfumes I wear, what friends I made are more valuable to me than how I think my face looks. Learn to appreciate and change the things that you CAN control and focus less on the things outside of your control and I think you may start to feel better after some time. Its a mindset. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cake mf 1,737 Posted June 23, 2018 Share Posted June 23, 2018 Bitch I’m flawless Whenever someone says girls of my race can’t be pretty I laugh to myself bc fuck that, we hot ass bitches. OP what race are you? Pm me so I can spam you with pics of pretty ass girls from your country to open your eyes! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dongminfan 127 Posted June 23, 2018 Share Posted June 23, 2018 I may be stupid or whatever but i hate everything about my ethnic. Not only may some people have a bad impression of it but i think my ethnic look is very ugly. Everyday i wish i was a pretty white girl with blue eyes and blonde hair that all guys love. Or maybe an Asian girl as cute as yerin. Maybe a hot black girl. Idk...i just hate myself and my country. Not going to mention my ethnic bcz it may sound offensive to people from the same one tho. But i wish i could stop hating myself. Ain't gonna happen until i become pretty tho. not all guys. I personally know men that are not attracted to white blonde girls. Anyway, if you find a rolemodel of your etnicity, it could change your perspective. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YeoChin Fairies 1,989 Posted June 23, 2018 Author Share Posted June 23, 2018 do you live overseas/away from the country of your ethnicity? I was like that once but after spending several years in my home country (i grew up abroad) i came to love how we look Yes overseas Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YeoChin Fairies 1,989 Posted June 23, 2018 Author Share Posted June 23, 2018 Bitch I’m flawless Whenever someone says girls of my race can’t be pretty I laugh to myself bc fuck that, we hot ass bitches. OP what race are you? Pm me so I can spam you with pics of pretty ass girls from your country to open your eyes! Okay i would Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fourever 3,231 Posted June 23, 2018 Share Posted June 23, 2018 there's attractive people in every race/ethnicity. Tbh as long as you shower and take care of your basic apperance then you're not ugly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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