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Are you emotionally attached to your bias?


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~~Emotionally attached~~ depends on how you see it but for me it's some like this

 

 

"X means the world to me. X saved my life and I will love him forever. He is my everything and a gift from God"

 

"X is the reason why I'm still alive. I'm broken without X."

 

"X's happiness is my happiness."

 

 

I'm like that but not as extreme. I respect my faves as artists and love them for their personalities (or at least the personality I see on media)

 

IDK much about them when it comes to their personal life so........ But I would feel sad if they're like sick or sad or depressed :/

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I feel a 'connection' with my bias (at least with the part I see of them) but I would never ever say they "saved my life" even if their music helped me going through depression or anything else. I just don't feel comfortable saying this, especially online. I have nothing against those who express that kind of things though, everyone is different and free to say what they're feeling. However I've seen people using this excuse to pretend they love their bias more than anyone else. That's kinda petty imo but :/

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Very. To be absolutely honest there have been times when I feel I've lacked purpose and Block B have stepped in as my purpose and kept me going. They're a safety net, life has its ups and downs and I know I can always look to Block B and my fellow bees for happiness and a place of belonging~

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Yes

BTS saved my life... like literally

I was seriously considering suicide around the time I found them

Their music and the videos like bangtan bombs conforted me a lot to the point where I felt like they were my friends (This is kinda stupid, I know)

I wish they actually were my friends... But that will never happen so yeah

They also helped me change to become a better person.

If something happened to them I would be so fucking hurt... (I remember when Suga got an ear injury back at the end of 2016 and there were rumors that he had to go under surgery... Y'all don't know how much I cried because of that, that day)

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yes i am emotionally attached, but i don't think they've saved my life because they haven't, i still havent been on a situation where they stepped into & gave me "strength" yet. not only to my bias but to my all the groups i stan and its members. i feel like if they get hurt physically, emotionally or psychologically i'd be sad & want to do something about (but of course i cant smh) but that's me because i am a person that gets attached easily to anything i like, to everything in my life. if anything ever happened to them i'd be sad/mad depending on the situation but also depending on the seriousness of the situation i might just get over it really quick (EX: them disbanding, one member leaving)

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yes i suppose i am a little. but i know i don't have a real personal connection to them so i'd never actually interfere with their lives or decisions

 

but on gloomy days, these two really do light up my life

 

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