Shun 28 Posted June 17, 2018 Share Posted June 17, 2018 She dead ass got mad bc she heard me texting someone else while we was on the phone 💀 this ain't the first time either she caught an attitude yesterday bc I went ta lunch w out ha😠Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kaitoh 1,457 Posted June 17, 2018 Share Posted June 17, 2018 Maybe she actually has romantic feelings for you ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shun 28 Posted June 17, 2018 Author Share Posted June 17, 2018 Maybe she actually has romantic feelings for you ? She lesbian and she know I like dick so ! 😩 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grape Soda 12,004 Posted June 17, 2018 Share Posted June 17, 2018 Tell her she's too clingy. You have other people to talk to it's not like you were ignoring her talking to someone else in the room. Are you her only friend? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WinnerWinnerChickenDinner 1,348 Posted June 17, 2018 Share Posted June 17, 2018 I have the same problem What I do is making sure she KNOWS I don't give her the importance she thinks I give her. She thinks she has the control over who I'm with? I tell her about the things I did with my other friends. She thinks she's the only one I should give attention to when we're out with a group? I talk to others as much as I talk to her. Basically, I just do what I want without trying not to make her angry. I let her be angry so that she can realise her place without me needing to spell it out for her. At first she got very frustrated but now, she herself told me that she's trying to accept that not everyone is going to give her the same value as she gives them. She realises that not everyone will treat her the way she thinks she should be treated. If she gets worse, I'm planning on dropping her toxic ass and I think you should do that too if not tiptoeing around her to make sure she's not mad plan doesn't work out lol Good luck! You can pm me anytime, I'm willing to listen Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pinkpanda_spirit 14,647 Posted June 17, 2018 Share Posted June 17, 2018 tell her 'you ain't my only friend you know' Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Llamaber 3,052 Posted June 17, 2018 Share Posted June 17, 2018 Just slowly start telling her about your other friends bit by bit. Hint that you did something and slowly introduce that someone else was with you, and why they needed to be there. Make sure to use examples of times when you really couldn't hang out with your bff, because of something that you and your bff can't do/enjoy together (or just because she wasn't available). Like, maybe liking k-pop with one of your other friends (if she likes k-pop, then maybe she doesn't stan the same groups bla bla), or a friend asking for your urgent advice, you having an issue at work/school and asking someone for advice on [class] work stuff. I'm sure you'll find other examples. Good luck OP. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shun 28 Posted June 17, 2018 Author Share Posted June 17, 2018 Tell her she's too clingy. You have other people to talk to it's not like you were ignoring her talking to someone else in the room. Are you her only friend? No but according to ha she has trust issues so I'm the only friend she really trusts but she get paranoid and worried way too damn easily 😠Like I'm asleep and she call me obviously I'm not gone pick up and when I call back she go on some "Im really finna drop you you never wan pick up the damn phone" shit like gorl 💀 tell ha I was asleep she be like "whatever" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Krystal Oppa 121 Posted June 17, 2018 Share Posted June 17, 2018 No but according to ha she has trust issues so I'm the only friend she really trusts but she get paranoid and worried way too damn easily 😠Like I'm asleep and she call me obviously I'm not gone pick up and when I call back she go on some "Im really finna drop you you never wan pick up the damn phone" shit like gorl 💀 tell ha I was asleep she be like "whatever" Dude, she's guilt tripping you. Don't let her get away with it. Treat her like how you treat your other friends unless you really think she needs special attention go ahead and give it. But it's not healthy if it happens every day. You can't always be together. Tell her you're getting stressed and is not enjoying this kinds of friendship. Also, try to confront her about her feelings to you. She sound like romantically in love. I used to do this to a friend I liked until I realize I'm making them feel sorry when they shouldn't be so I stayed away and controlled myself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kaitoh 1,457 Posted June 17, 2018 Share Posted June 17, 2018 She lesbian and she know I like dick so ! Maybe she wants you to be lesbian as well Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shun 28 Posted June 17, 2018 Author Share Posted June 17, 2018 Maybe she wants you to be lesbian as well Im a guy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kaitoh 1,457 Posted June 17, 2018 Share Posted June 17, 2018 Im a guy Ohhh that changes everything, i guess she's just scared of losing you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OutroTear 1,189 Posted June 23, 2018 Share Posted June 23, 2018 I would just tell her to chill and let her know you have other friends. Hope everything work out! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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