nononong 129 Posted May 1, 2018 Share Posted May 1, 2018 so i messaged an old gal i used to know in high school. we’re not super close but i considered her my friend. anyways i hit her up and asked how r u, whatcha up to, and somehow i ended up asking her to refer me to her job(cos it seemed like it payed well) days later she makes this post how ppl should just stop talking to her if it’s just the benefit of the other party. so i’m just kinda like um...is this abt me? i don’t really know how to react lol. what should i do? i would like to know what ohers would do in this type of situation pls give me ur opinions. LoL xoxo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
benseac 359 Posted May 1, 2018 Share Posted May 1, 2018 It sounds like your friend thinks you talked to her only because you thought she could get you a job. Maybe a lot of people do that and it's frustrating her. You might want to consider talking to her and saying that you truly did want to reconnect and asking about a job was not why you contacted her, if that's indeed the case. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CECIâ„¢ 3,974 Posted May 1, 2018 Share Posted May 1, 2018 What I would do: talk to her and ask her directly if she was refering to me... if the answer is yes I would tell her she is paranoid and its not my fault if she believes everyone is using her after that I would completely ignore her existence, she is too dramatic and cant even help me get a job Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nononong 129 Posted May 1, 2018 Author Share Posted May 1, 2018 It sounds like your friend thinks you talked to her only because you thought she could get you a job. Maybe a lot of people do that and it's frustrating her. You might want to consider talking to her and saying that you truly did want to reconnect and asking about a job was not why you contacted her, if that's indeed the case.my intention really was to ask how she was, but there will be different perspective in one situation. anyways i’m not really good with confrontation but i will try my best to talk to her about it! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nononong 129 Posted May 1, 2018 Author Share Posted May 1, 2018 What I would do: talk to her and ask her directly if she was refering to me... if the answer is yes I would tell her she is paranoid and its not my fault if she believes everyone is using her after that I would completely ignore her existence, she is too dramatic and cant even help me get a job i wish i was that upfront Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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