when a relationship ends, do you tend to be the dumper or the dumpee?

[love]

are you the person who breaks up with your s/o?  or does the other person usually break up with you?

[Guest]

the dumpee

[columbarium]

the one who got treated like garbage

 

[Ego ista]

50/50 tbh

[Hopkinz]

Dumpee

[Chr21]

50/50... 

[cake mf]

I’ve never had a real relationship but as a rule of thumb when me and I guy stop talking, I’m the dumper lol.

[Mayumi]

the dumper

[TrueColors]

Dumper

[-masayume-]

the one who got treated like garbage

 

[edelgard]

i haven't been in many relationships but prob the dumpee

[iJungwha]

Dumpee

[Vanille]

I get thrown away like garbage while still having feelings :')

[nctandmonstaxtrash]

dumper because I don't wanna risk being the one that gets hurt 

[sly fox]

Dumper. I know this is bad but I lose interest easily which is why I don’t really date in the first place

[layixings]

i'm definitely the dumpee

[chishic]

Dumper 

[Wonderwall]

Dumper. You'd think that it'd be better but it still feels shitty either way

[bellendciaga]

I've only had one serious relationship and it ended amicably and mutually 

when it comes to casual dating though, I'm usually the dumper. I lose interest pretty quickly 

[SJJD]

i've only been in one relationship but i was the dumper and am usually the one who says i don't want a second date... why do i keep closing myself off from love.. 

[Missguided]

it really depends. I have been the dumper more than the dumpee usually, but my last relationship I was the dumpee and it was my first love and the relationship that meant the most to me, so it hurt the most. I'm fine now though, and I'll probably be the dumper in my next relationship bc having my heart broken after this last breakup scares the shit out of me...

[LMAOjain]

guess I'm the more a dumpee 

[Shrekie]

the Dumpee :/

[muffin39]

always want to be a dumper but...

[BABYGIRL.]

Dumpee....