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Why do people feel the need to change so much just to please others? Me accepting her as she is isn't enough? This just makes me realize maybe how I think of her doesn't even matter to her, so I'm really depressed right now...

 

Everytime we meet up, she darts farther and farther away from the woman I fell in love with...And yet, because of nostalgy I can't seem to let go. 

 

Actually I don't even know if I'm just staying because I'm hoping to see in her the girl I'm in love with again at this point...Help lol

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Talk to her about this. Explain how you feel to her, she might not even realise. 

 

I tried...I told her there was no need to change so much things about her but she just hums everytime and it falls on deaf ears. It's not like she's just trying out new things. If that was the case I'd support her of course, as long as it makes her happy. But I know her, and it makes her miserable. She told me she can't go back because she'll feel as if she's putting on a mask just for me. Doesn't this mean she just isn't the girl I knew anymore?

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Hun...I’d say confront her. She’s probably just insecure or smth.

 

She is. And I understand, I really do. But if she tells me stopping all this (her changing I mean) would be like acting, then what can I possibly do? But yeah, maybe I should try harder...

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She is. And I understand, I really do. But if she tells me stopping all this (her changing I mean) would be like acting, then what can I possibly do? But yeah, maybe I should try harder...

Ok, honestly?

 

Tell her you need to take a break. She has some self image issues she needs to work out, and you have to let her do that on her own. Pretending to be someone else for your s/o of all ppl is not the hallmark of a stable person.

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Ok, honestly?

 

Tell her you need to take a break. She has some self image issues she needs to work out, and you have to let her do that on her own. Pretending to be someone else for your s/o of all ppl is not the hallmark of a stable person.

 

I guessed so...I hesitated but deep down I know you're right. A break, huh.

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I guessed so...I hesitated but deep down I know you're right. A break, huh.

A break or breaking up depends on how ready you are for another relationship. If you’re ready to just start over with someone knew I say break up and save both of your feelings. But if you still love her...maybe just a break? But set a time that it will be over.

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