What would you do if you ask your to hang out with you and they turn it down and say "I'm busy"?

[luxuriouss86]

I never get invited to hang out my friends. They just so busy working and studying at school. They never make any time to hang out with me. I know they're not that busy, they just don't want to hang out with me.

 

 

What would you do if you ask your to hang out with you and if they keep turning it down and say "I'm busy"?

 

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[starsocks]

Find better friends.

[Guest]

Find better friends.

 

finding friends can be super hard

 

i was like you op, last year.

[JihyoStoleMyHeartAYAYAY]

Walk away. Adopt a cat or dog. Life's good. 

[Cobalt]

Don't put time in them and do fun stuff on your own.

[iori]

get to know other people

[Bom]

Meet other people. You can still be friends with the friends you have but see them when they're not busy, but have people you can hang out with at other times as well.

 

Being an adult, a lot of my friends are busy a lot of the time but I have other friends who are more available more of the time. 

[Repeat]

Um if they never hang out with you, how exactly are they your friends? you should try and meet more people, ones who appreciate you.

[mrs.otter]

They are not ur friends obviously

[pinkpanda_spirit]

maybe they really are busy? do they turn your offers down even when they're on summer break?

because I'm like your friends, I always tell my friends I'm busy when they ask me to hang out (not always but like 80% of the time). but they're still my friends and still ask me if I'm free whenever they wanna hang out and I'm really grateful to them. so don't be mean and don't ditch them like other users here are advicing you to do.

[cheeschashi]

there's this one friend of mine who's always busy when I ask she always have other plans, meaning I'm not that high in her priority list~

but oh well. it's not like we never go out together it's just that it's become rarer occasions and that happens when you live separate lives. just treasure the times you can.

 

if you think they aren't busy and you really think you're friends, ask that friend out directly. If they answered you truthfully by saying what are they busy with, then they really are just busy. If they still avoid the topic and just plainly said they're busy, then that friend just really don't want anything to do with you. if that's so, get other friends to hang out with. maybe someone who's in the same work place / school as you so you have more time communicating with them.

 

or like me, I can always have a third option, go out with my sister lol

[Soogi]

i turn down my friends a lot, too. i love going out with them but i've got a lot of personal stuff going on that i'd rather not share so saying i'm busy is the easiest excuse. don't jump the gun and ditch them. talk to them first. then you can decide whether they're worth your time or not.

[_Lucy_]

it's better to be alone than having this kind of friends