OfficialQueenOfOH 113 Posted April 27, 2018 Share Posted April 27, 2018 Imagine if you are an extremely shy and sesitive girl,you are having the first crush ever in ur life. (Online) After months of hiding and telling yourself you will never confess,you will barely get your courage up. You tell them confessing is both against ur shy personality and ur culture (i doubt many can relate to this btw) Not even an hour after,he takes it to his best friend's DMs,who is also ur friend...and tells him this girl has just confessed to me... i feel like my privacy been shared,am i feeling wrong? Will u think so too? . . . . . . . The worst thing abt it is that my mom is now blaming me...saying you are a girl and shouldnt have confessed. I feel done and i regret. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KUMA-MON 12,792 Posted April 27, 2018 Share Posted April 27, 2018 How do u know his friend know if it was thru dm? Like they spread it around? The friend talk to u? Maybe he wanted to talk about with someone... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sofs 13,968 Posted April 27, 2018 Share Posted April 27, 2018 I would be mad if he was making fun of me. Otherwise, I wouldn't be mad. Why is your mom blaming you tho? There is noting wrong confessing your feelings. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OfficialQueenOfOH 113 Posted April 27, 2018 Author Share Posted April 27, 2018 How do u know his friend know if it was thru dm? Like they spread it around? The friend talk to u? Maybe he wanted to talk about with someone... Basically,a bit later after the conv ended i told them not to tell anyone. He said he wont,and if he did he maybe would have done it to x person. The day tomorrow i pmed him and told him to be honest abt it,and that i feel that he shared it. He said that he did,and he is sorry. And i asked for screenshots too. I feel like my confession has been used for bragging to his friend now :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OfficialQueenOfOH 113 Posted April 27, 2018 Author Share Posted April 27, 2018 I would be mad if he was making fun of me. Otherwise, I wouldn't be mad. Why is your mom blaming you tho? There is noting wrong confessing your feelings. She has her beliefs,maybe since she is from older generation. I dont think the same way but what she is doing instead of encouraging me is annoying. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sofs 13,968 Posted April 27, 2018 Share Posted April 27, 2018 She has her beliefs,maybe since she is from older generation. I dont think the same way but what she is doing instead of encouraging me is annoying. Just tell her it’s not wrong to confess your feelings or ignore her. You didn’t do anything wrong. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Llamaber 3,052 Posted April 27, 2018 Share Posted April 27, 2018 I think the main thing is to not blame yourself in this situation, imo a girl confessing instead of a guy is such a small thing compared to the bigger issues in life... If you're talking about it in a sense that he told your mutual friend about you confessing, just to brag and not actually do anything about, then I think it's wrong of him... especially if your mutual friend didn't know about your feelings for this guy. However, he may not necessarily be thinking about how you may take him talking about your confession to someone. Think about it in his perspective, maybe he needed advice from a friend that also knows you? He may not know what to do with the situation as this may be the first time someone has confessed to him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KUMA-MON 12,792 Posted April 27, 2018 Share Posted April 27, 2018 Basically,a bit later after the conv ended i told them not to tell anyone. He said he wont,and if he did he maybe would have done it to x person. The day tomorrow i pmed him and told him to be honest abt it,and that i feel that he shared it. He said that he did,and he is sorry. And i asked for screenshots too. I feel like my confession has been used for bragging to his friend now :( Its probably smth u need to talk about bc u could feel its smth but his intentions could be different Just how u seek advice he might be in the same position but u might see it as other thing Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cake mf 1,737 Posted April 27, 2018 Share Posted April 27, 2018 jw...are you muslim? bc I grew up in a muslim family and that sounds familiar. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OfficialQueenOfOH 113 Posted April 27, 2018 Author Share Posted April 27, 2018 jw...are you muslim? bc I grew up in a muslim family and that sounds familiar.Im from a muslim country but not muslim. Ig the thoughts have just spreaded and everyone among elders think that way i actually have the same ethnic as u do...persian? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cake mf 1,737 Posted April 27, 2018 Share Posted April 27, 2018 Im from a muslim country but not muslim. Ig the thoughts have just spreaded and everyone among elders think that way i actually have the same ethnic as u do...persian? Yeah same and I used to be the same way when I was younger. Weird cuz my parents are pretty liberal about these stuff. Probably picked it up from my grandparents or smth. Yeah same here! What country are you in? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pyo Hyemi 6,831 Posted April 27, 2018 Share Posted April 27, 2018 I think he just informed his friend about it, there is nothing bad about it I send screenshots of conversations to my bestfriends too Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OfficialQueenOfOH 113 Posted April 27, 2018 Author Share Posted April 27, 2018 Yeah same and I used to be the same way when I was younger. Weird cuz my parents are pretty liberal about these stuff. Probably picked it up from my grandparents or smth. Yeah same here! What country are you in? iran actually Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cake mf 1,737 Posted April 27, 2018 Share Posted April 27, 2018 iran actually Ooh that’s really cool! I’m a diaspora so I’m in the US. Do you use VPN? Or is OH available in Iran? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OfficialQueenOfOH 113 Posted April 27, 2018 Author Share Posted April 27, 2018 Ooh that’s really cool! I’m a diaspora so I’m in the US. Do you use VPN? Or is OH available in Iran? Lol yea im using vpn and its actually p late here Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cake mf 1,737 Posted April 27, 2018 Share Posted April 27, 2018 Lol yea im using vpn and its actually p late here Ooh cool. You should go to sleep lol. What is it, 1 am? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OfficialQueenOfOH 113 Posted April 27, 2018 Author Share Posted April 27, 2018 Ooh cool. You should go to sleep lol. What is it, 1 am? Yea exactly haha. And tomorrow is the first day of the week so i should have slept sooner lol ~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cake mf 1,737 Posted April 27, 2018 Share Posted April 27, 2018 Yea exactly haha. And tomorrow is the first day of the week so i should have slept sooner lol ~ Oh yeah I forgot everything is closed on Friday in Iran lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ernie8 28 Posted April 28, 2018 Share Posted April 28, 2018 im a muslim also but for me theres no fault for confessing... just see the positive side that ur release ur burden. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JiMiJu 1,858 Posted April 28, 2018 Share Posted April 28, 2018 Boys like to brag, unfortunately. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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