YeoChin Fairies 1,989 Posted April 27, 2018 Share Posted April 27, 2018 so there is this teacher that i went to his house,he is really famous in this town and has a lot of students coming to his house. I have been noticing he overall is a bit weird...the way he talks/teaches/walks... But the worst part is that he started hitting my head with his finger and say u used ur brain well when i answered a question right. Then moved to grabbing my arm to get my attention to what he was teaching and later...he pulled my cheek... *facepalm* I didnt know how to react specially that he is famous and is same age as my non existence grandfather. I just laughed and moved on but he did same things on the second session...how should i react to this? Is it a serious case? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cake mf 1,737 Posted April 27, 2018 Share Posted April 27, 2018 Idk if it’s sexual harassment necessarily, but it’s still creepy. Why is a teacher having students over at their house anyways? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KNED 2,763 Posted April 27, 2018 Share Posted April 27, 2018 if it makes you uncomfortable then I'd stay away from that situation Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
love 8,778 Posted April 27, 2018 Share Posted April 27, 2018 sex·u·al ha·rass·ment /ˈsɛkʃ(əw)əl həˈræsmənt/ noun 1.harassment (typically of a woman) in a workplace, or other professional or social situation, involving the making of unwanted sexual advances or obscene remarks. idk if you'd consider these sexual advances but if they're making you feel uncomfortable, you should speak to somebody..no teacher has the right to touch you if you don't want them to i also think the (typically of a woman) is kind of unnecessary since anyone can get harassed, but still Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YeoChin Fairies 1,989 Posted April 27, 2018 Author Share Posted April 27, 2018 Idk if it’s sexual harassment necessarily, but it’s still creepy. Why is a teacher having students over at their house anyways? Its a teacher that teaches in private classes,more like some type of extra activity once ur class in school/uni is over Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cake mf 1,737 Posted April 27, 2018 Share Posted April 27, 2018 Its a teacher that teaches in private classes,more like some type of extra activity once ur class in school/uni is over Oooh. Now that I think about it, my mom used to teach those classes lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GodYezi 102 Posted April 27, 2018 Share Posted April 27, 2018 Idk if it’s sexual harassment necessarily, but it’s still creepy. Why is a teacher having students over at their house anyways? ummm to teach them? duh When I was in 6th grade my math teacher used to bring me to her house to teach me extracurricular shit. And it didn't feel creepy. ot: if that bothers you, notice your parents. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jawline 4,624 Posted April 27, 2018 Share Posted April 27, 2018 Some people are a bit too touchy, so I don't want to right him off right way. But keep your distance, prevention is better than cure. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jessinwonderland 1,844 Posted April 27, 2018 Share Posted April 27, 2018 It's weird. Also, students should not be going into their teachers house. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cake mf 1,737 Posted April 27, 2018 Share Posted April 27, 2018 ummm to teach them? duh When I was in 6th grade my math teacher used to bring me to her house to teach me extracurricular shit. And it didn't feel creepy. ot: if that bothers you, notice your parents. No I mean like school teachers. My mom used to do classes like that but just for neighborhood kids. Here school teachers aren’t even allowed to give their social media to students. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
InvaderPig 239 Posted April 27, 2018 Share Posted April 27, 2018 I will not call it sexual harassment but tell the teacher it make you uncomfortable because they might not realize that or tell your parents about it if you still a minor. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abra 40,910 Posted April 27, 2018 Share Posted April 27, 2018 No Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RiseLikeACrowTit 862 Posted April 27, 2018 Share Posted April 27, 2018 so there is this teacher that i went to his house,he is really famous in this town and has a lot of students coming to his house. I have been noticing he overall is a bit weird...the way he talks/teaches/walks... But the worst part is that he started hitting my head with his finger and say u used ur brain well when i answered a question right. Then moved to grabbing my arm to get my attention to what he was teaching and later...he pulled my cheek... *facepalm* I didnt know how to react specially that he is famous and is same age as my non existence grandfather. I just laughed and moved on but he did same things on the second session...how should i react to this? Is it a serious case? Maybe; if you feel uncorfable you tell him to stop doing that, and you have 100% right to demand him to stop, but as an adult myself ugh.... i swear i see anyone under 25 as kids, and sometimes (my fault) i treat them foolishly as kids; talk to your parents about this Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Õ�weet 2,847 Posted April 27, 2018 Share Posted April 27, 2018 Is not sexual harassment many ppl touching without knowing it makes ppl uncomfortable you should just tell him Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kaitoh 1,457 Posted April 27, 2018 Share Posted April 27, 2018 No it's not Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
al qaeda 5,837 Posted April 27, 2018 Share Posted April 27, 2018 since when were students even allowed in their teachers houses...? i'm pretty sure that that isn't even allowed (but then again it depends on where you live). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nicophos 1,660 Posted April 27, 2018 Share Posted April 27, 2018 ... thats not harassment. like far. i dunno where did you get that assumption hes either just weird or touchy type of person. either you tell him youre not comfortable (privately, not in public with people watching- they could get the wrong idea) or stay away Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UMJI MOODS 11,518 Posted April 27, 2018 Share Posted April 27, 2018 You should tell your parents If you don't like it. They can tell him to refrain from touching you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kami the II. 1,723 Posted April 27, 2018 Share Posted April 27, 2018 so there is this teacher that i went to his house,he is really famous in this town and has a lot of students coming to his house. I have been noticing he overall is a bit weird...the way he talks/teaches/walks... But the worst part is that he started hitting my head with his finger and say u used ur brain well when i answered a question right. Then moved to grabbing my arm to get my attention to what he was teaching and later...he pulled my cheek... *facepalm* I didnt know how to react specially that he is famous and is same age as my non existence grandfather. I just laughed and moved on but he did same things on the second session...how should i react to this? Is it a serious case? Quite relatable for me... Last year my Biology teacher kept saying I was so cute and used to punch my cheeks often. Then once he asked me if I had been feeling sensual for that cuz my eyes were getting teary when he was around me. It was such an embarrassing moment in front of my classmates that the only reason my eyes' teariness was that he was smoking a lot & the smell was making my eyes uncomfortable. You'd better inform your parents about that... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MonGalaxy 480 Posted April 27, 2018 Share Posted April 27, 2018 I think the reason why that is happening is that you are not paying attention or you did a good job specially you said it, he hits you grab your arm and pulled your cheek its like the way they are giving some remarks and etc.. Its a bad practice for teachers since its phyisically abusive (basically to get your attention to listen to him and actually be serious studying). but if it feels a bit more creepy in your next sessions and if you don't like the touchiness then be vocal to your parents since you are the one that is in the situaton. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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