Vanille 1,800 Posted April 24, 2018 Share Posted April 24, 2018 She disappeared from earth and claimed she still loved me, makes it 10 times worse since getting over someone is easier if you can set yourself to dislike that person... "focus on their flaws" sure but her flaws made her so cute TT It's only been 2 days tho... It may get easier... But this empty void in my chest just scares me... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SJJD 1,975 Posted April 24, 2018 Share Posted April 24, 2018 it sucks :( distract yourself to fill the void and someday you won't miss her as much Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pleasure 2,956 Posted April 24, 2018 Share Posted April 24, 2018 try to get busy doing things that you enjoy, be active to get your mind off it although its hard especially at night. it will take some time though especially if you loved them. that sinking feeling sucks, i send u pm nat Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sublime 2,137 Posted April 24, 2018 Share Posted April 24, 2018 Give it time and focus on other things. You're not going to be able to force yourself to stop forgetting in a flash, you're going to end up thinking about it more if you're trying. Make yourself busy with other stuff. Try out new things and pick up new hobbies. If you're procrastinating on something then it's time to focus and do it. Naturally the feeling comes and go but trust time to help you. It really will. Good luck! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
in good taste 213 Posted April 24, 2018 Share Posted April 24, 2018 it took me almost 2 years to "move on" from a relationship. what really helped was keeping myself preoccupied with other things (I busied myself with work) and spending time with friends. I also traveled here and there. sometimes I miss him/look back, and it still stings a bit, but coping with it has gotten better with time. you can also try meeting new people. I don't mean people to date, but people you can get to know better and befriend. It can help remind you that the world is a big, big place. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Deea 6,754 Posted April 24, 2018 Share Posted April 24, 2018 it took me almost 2 years to "move on" from a relationship. what really helped was keeping myself preoccupied with other things (I busied myself with work) and spending time with friends. I also traveled here and there. sometimes I miss him/look back, and it still stings a bit, but coping with it has gotten better with time. you can also try meeting new people. I don't mean people to date, but people you can get to know better and befriend. It can help remind you that the world is a big, big place. 2 years to get over someone :/ damn it must've hurt like shit Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sofs 13,968 Posted April 25, 2018 Share Posted April 25, 2018 I'm still trying to know how to do it. Tooke me 5 years to stop missing my ex boyfriend LOL and I still miss A LOT my first best friend. Its been 11 years since last time we talked :// if you ever find out how, tell me pls Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Clownny 179 Posted April 25, 2018 Share Posted April 25, 2018 If she does not text you in 2 weeks or so,take it as you are not wanted and needed anymore and that her words of love were a lie.Which makes it easier to stop missing someone,why would you want and need someone who doesn't want not need you?It is harsh,but if you think that way it will be easier to let go. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cake mf 1,737 Posted April 26, 2018 Share Posted April 26, 2018 Honestly I just focus on everything I hate about them. Soon it turns into anger. And then I just hate them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vanille 1,800 Posted April 26, 2018 Author Share Posted April 26, 2018 If she does not text you in 2 weeks or so,take it as you are not wanted and needed anymore and that her words of love were a lie.Which makes it easier to stop missing someone,why would you want and need someone who doesn't want not need you?It is harsh,but if you think that way it will be easier to let go. I said this to my friend I will focus on moving on and if she contacts me before my birthday (is next month) I'm willing to take her back but she better comes with a proper excuse. If it takes longer, I can no longer trust her. I can't trust someone who claims to love me and promises me the world and then randomly dumps me and disappears... Some are also like "oh I'm sure she'll be back" but what if she doesn't... False hope will get me nowhere really. It takes me a while to truly get over someone anyway even after I accepted it... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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