In your opinion, how long would you date someone before you move in with them ?

[Caridee]

Is it a good idea if you’re both college students and been dating for 7 months? Let’s say the girl isn’t ready yet cuz she doesn’t even know if she likes him that much to begin with. .-.

[UMJI MOODS]

If she has doubts, I say don't do it. Doesn't matter if you've been dating 7 months or 7 years, if you have doubts you shouldn't do it.

[jessinwonderland]

Well, I'd wait until we've dated over a year. And if someone isn't sure if they like said person they shouldn't be leading them on by keeping this relationship going.

[90's Baby]

minimum of 2 years for me. 

[YNRA]

it really depends....

 

if i feel a very strong connection with them and we already spend most hours of the week together, probably a few months. 

 

 

 

 

if the girl isnt sure, then no way. do not do it!!!

first of all, it will be extremely difficult if you break up with them. you could end up homeless or legally obliged even if you move out and find a new place as your name may be on the rent/lease. 

[Caridee]

Well, I'd wait until we've dated over a year. And if someone isn't sure if they like said person they shouldn't be leading them on by keeping this relationship going.

I know but he’s a really nice guy and if I date him enough I think I’ll get to like him. I always date guys that like me more than I like them .-.

[Winter Bear]

Is it a good idea if you’re both college students and been dating for 7 months? Let’s say the girl isn’t ready yet cuz she doesn’t even know if she likes him that much to begin with. .-.

Horrible idea imo, especially as 7 months as college students is barely any time. I think a proper year of dating should be had before anyone moves in.

[jessinwonderland]

I know but he’s a really nice guy and if I date him enough I think I’ll get to like him. I always date guys that like me more than I like them .-.

Not to be rude but you need reevaluate yourself. You wont start liking him if you "date him enough" thats not how it works

[Caridee]

Not to be rude but you need reevaluate yourself. You wont start liking him if you "date him enough" thats not how it works

I’ve broken up with him twice already. But we always end up together over and over again. Idk it’s weird lol. I’ve tried and I even told him how I feel that’s why he insists on living together.

[jessinwonderland]

I’ve broken up with him twice already. But we always end up together over and over again. Idk it’s weird lol. I’ve tried and I even told him how I feel that’s why he insists on living together.

He sounds controlling and may end up being abusive in the future. I'd cut all ties with him if i were you. Also if you're still a teen you should be living with your boyfriend

[Winter Bear]

I’ve broken up with him twice already. But we always end up together over and over again. Idk it’s weird lol. I’ve tried and I even told him how I feel that’s why he insists on living together.

This is sad and could go horribly wrong, cut it off properly.

[Caridee]

This is sad and could go horribly wrong, cut it off properly.

Y’all are scaring me .-.

[Sully]

If either person doesn't want to and isn't ready, then they shouldn't actually do it. Even more so if one of the people doesn't even care for the other that much. Should really just break up tbh

Me personally, I would not move in with a guy I was with unless we were married. Unless that has happened, I prefer to live in my own place. 

[love]

Well, I'd wait until we've dated over a year. And if someone isn't sure if they like said person they shouldn't be leading them on by keeping this relationship going.

agree 100%

[GirlBye]

personally, i don't see myself living with someone unless we're married

 

but i am more conservative

 

trust your feelings and instincts, there's no right time...we're all different

 

living with someone is a big step and it shouldn't be rushed

[iJungwha]

3 years

[deobizone]

I dont think there's really a set time I consider. 

 

There was a time I p much lived with my (now ex) gf but i didnt really, it was just more convenient to stay with her most the time cuz we were coworkers and work same days/hours. so we'd go together. On days off, and just some days in general, I'd still be going back to my home. Thatstarted happening within a few months, and I wouldnt have been opposed to living with her all the time.

 

Tho if unsure if you like him, I wouldnt really recommend living together

[Oli London]

I wouldn't move in with someone unless we plan to marry.

[cake mf]

Smth about this situation is off...

 

I say don’t move in with him.

[edelgard]

prob a year to a few years bc i'm useless af without my family

[Serenee]

I wouldn't do it before I become a capable adult with her own job.

 

It's maybe cause I don't have anyone to be head over heels for but I don't think I'd like to share so much of my time and space with someone I date. It's suffocating a little. I'd like to live my life without much resonsability now that I am still young and in college. At this point in time I prefer normal dating.

 

 

OP, moving with someone means a lot of responsability. It will be frustrating as hell, especially if he is a mama's boy who never took care of himself and has expectations of you to do stuff. You two will have a lot of work to do in understanding each other and understanding what responsabilities you have. You will be spending a lot of time together and potentially have a lot of conflictual feelings/habits/opinions and if you aren't that sure if you love him then it will be hard to get over the differences.

 

So think about it properly, it's a big step in your life.

[Charan]

Idk, 9 months or so

[ChungJoJo]

Few years, general rule of thumb, but when It honestly comes down to the person you're with, who they are, and how they are.

[PeachyKeys!]

Years.

[Nowhere Boy]

Long ass time.