C♦�smic 103 Posted April 20, 2018 Share Posted April 20, 2018 During my 2 year period of hard crushing on this bihh, I never had a dream about him. That's weird because he is always on my mind. I am confusion! and i need someone 2 explain but there was few dreams but he was just a passerby, my dream self wasn't interested and he wasn't interested either. aigoo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jstarfully 798 Posted April 20, 2018 Share Posted April 20, 2018 I've never dreamt about crushes, because I've never had any - but I have dreamt about kpop idols. Mostly bts, probably because my brain could recreate them from memory best. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doc Noir 1,220 Posted April 20, 2018 Share Posted April 20, 2018 I've never dreamt about crushes, because I've never had any - but I have dreamt about kpop idols. Mostly bts, probably because my brain could recreate them from memory best. relatable, i only have infatuations on every 5 years or so Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GalaxunnieSuperOppa 5,997 Posted April 20, 2018 Share Posted April 20, 2018 I used to dream about my crushes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Serenee 3,730 Posted April 20, 2018 Share Posted April 20, 2018 I dreamt about crushes. But there was nothing very sexy going on. I dreamt about kissing dudes, but never my actual crushes. I used to dream about one of them a lot tho. We were just together standing on chairs (could it be in a movie theater or a conference room, I don't know) and he was having his arm around me. And we weren't doing or saying anything, but I was feeling so much love... And the other one crush, we were fightinG and I confessed angrily. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GalaxunnieSuperOppa 5,997 Posted April 20, 2018 Share Posted April 20, 2018 I used to dream about my crushes....there was this one where we were ballroom dancing and talking. It felt real! I liked it. Of course I hate him now though so!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soogi 1,222 Posted April 20, 2018 Share Posted April 20, 2018 you probably did but just don't remember. we dream every single night multiple times even but forget most of them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jstarfully 798 Posted April 20, 2018 Share Posted April 20, 2018 relatable, i only have infatuations on every 5 years or so I've like, thought people were attractive before. I've even been in a couple of non-serious relationships, one at 14 with a guy who probably came closest to 'crush' status since I kinda had a thing for him the entire intermediate school (like the two first years of American middle school) then another one at 17 that honestly I never had any feelings for the guy. And then there was a friend that I thought would be cool to date, even asked him when he broke up with his long time gf, but I mostly asked just to be sure that the answer was no so I wasn't fussed. Yeah no crushes. Attractions, sure. There was even a guy I semi-idolised my last year of HS because he was like, perfect. National team in rowing, scholarship level (honestly prodigal) in piano, in all the top classes in school, good looking, stable gf etc etc like damn I want to have a bf like that. It's like I'll think people are attractive and cool but this 'crush' thing people talk about??? I don't think I've had one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doc Noir 1,220 Posted April 20, 2018 Share Posted April 20, 2018 I've like, thought people were attractive before. I've even been in a couple of non-serious relationships, one at 14 with a guy who probably came closest to 'crush' status since I kinda had a thing for him the entire intermediate school (like the two first years of American middle school) then another one at 17 that honestly I never had any feelings for the guy. And then there was a friend that I thought would be cool to date, even asked him when he broke up with his long time gf, but I mostly asked just to be sure that the answer was no so I wasn't fussed. Yeah no crushes. Attractions, sure. There was even a guy I semi-idolised my last year of HS because he was like, perfect. National team in rowing, scholarship level (honestly prodigal) in piano, in all the top classes in school, good looking, stable gf etc etc like damn I want to have a bf like that. It's like I'll think people are attractive and cool but this 'crush' thing people talk about??? I don't think I've had one. lmaoo i'm just like that i surely find people attractive, i love aesthetic pleasing people and sometimes i'm sexually frustrated as fuck if they have a nice personality that goes to my tastes then cool last year i had an infatuation with this girl in school (she was a year older than me), but then i found out she had a boyfriend, felt kinda bad for 2 days and then went on with my life; i have a something resembling a crush on this guy i see once on every 2 months, i love his attention and spending time with him but that's it almost all of my close friends fall in love with people they barely know and i'm like how the fuck you do that lmao, sometimes i feel left out of the "i'm whipped as fuck" circle; it's a running joke how i'm "a heart-less motherfucker with super high standards" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jstarfully 798 Posted April 21, 2018 Share Posted April 21, 2018 lmaoo i'm just like that i surely find people attractive, i love aesthetic pleasing people and sometimes i'm sexually frustrated as fuck if they have a nice personality that goes to my tastes then cool last year i had an infatuation with this girl in school (she was a year older than me), but then i found out she had a boyfriend, felt kinda bad for 2 days and then went on with my life; i have a something resembling a crush on this guy i see once on every 2 months, i love his attention and spending time with him but that's it almost all of my close friends fall in love with people they barely know and i'm like how the fuck you do that lmao, sometimes i feel left out of the "i'm whipped as fuck" circle; it's a running joke how i'm "a heart-less motherfucker with super high standards" BRO ME TOO I always get confused when people make stupid decisions because they like someone or w/e and my bff who knows me well just goes 'yes but feelings, we know you calculate the most logical thing to do like a computer but most add feelings in there' Honestly it takes me actually knowing someone for a fair while to feel anything romantic for them, which is annoying because by that point the other person has moved on bc they think you're not interested. Idk I kinda wish I could fall for people easier?? But at the same time I'm wiser due to the fact I don't, and my life is probably more stable too because of it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doc Noir 1,220 Posted April 21, 2018 Share Posted April 21, 2018 BRO ME TOO I always get confused when people make stupid decisions because they like someone or w/e and my bff who knows me well just goes 'yes but feelings, we know you calculate the most logical thing to do like a computer but most add feelings in there' Honestly it takes me actually knowing someone for a fair while to feel anything romantic for them, which is annoying because by that point the other person has moved on bc they think you're not interested. Idk I kinda wish I could fall for people easier?? But at the same time I'm wiser due to the fact I don't, and my life is probably more stable too because of it. it's really nice to hear that someone is like me lol it might sound shallow to some people, but i always base romantic connection (which i haven't fully experienced in the natural sense tbh) on a sexual one aka if i think they're hot/pretty/beautiful/handsome/whatever, and from then on i have to have known the person for some time before investing myself, which is why i've had only 2 relationships that lasted two months tops. and then when people like me i turn them down cause i either aren't sexually attracted to them, haven't known them for some time, or just dislike their personality; so it's not like i don't have options my friends want to be like me and sometimes i want to be like them but ultimately, we always want we don't have. i really get the stable thing, cause most of the time i act as a psychologist and relationship adviser; basically the voice of reason. but as i said beforehand, we want things we don't have so i would like to experience what they do. yet of course, it would suck getting paranoid over something insignificant as why the person i like didn't write me back in the time frame of 2 hours cause i'm whipped and can't think straight Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lee jaeyeol 385 Posted April 24, 2018 Share Posted April 24, 2018 me neither but then again I never remember my dreams Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
love 8,778 Posted April 24, 2018 Share Posted April 24, 2018 i dream about my crushes or romantic interests quite a bit...it can be troublesome though, especially when you wake up haha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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