how can i explain to my overprotective strict parents that i am grown up woman not a kid anymore

[MzKittyKath]

I HAVE MY OWN DECISIONS

OWN LIFE

OWN HAPPINESS

 

BUT MY PARENTS AND US SIBLINGS STILL LOOK AS THEIR BABIES THEY WONT ACCEPT IM GROWN WOMAN IM CHOCK FROM THEM I WANT FREEDOM FOR A WHILE I LOVE THEM BUT MUST UNDERSTAND THAT IM GROWN UP HUHUHU IT DEPRESS ME TBH

 

MY SIBLINGS TOO ...

MOM AND DAD TRY TO UNDERSTAND IM TURNING 28 THIS YEAR DONT TREAT ME AS A BABY 

 

 

do you relate?

 

advice me

 

urgh

 typical asian parents(typical philippnes parents)

[wiaraewiwiarae]

I don't see how they can influence your life at 28 at all?

[xxxcherie]

uh me too I'm 21 and I must go home at 6 pm and they always call me everytime I go out

 

I'm Asian too, but many parents of my friends are not like this

[TWLND]

get your own place + nice job

[MzKittyKath]

I don't see how they can influence your life at 28 at all?

they see im 28 and i do everything when they in taiwan whole house chores

[wiaraewiwiarae]

they see im 28 and i do everything when they in taiwan whole house chores

 

Do you live with them?

[MzKittyKath]

Do you live with them?

yes me and my siblings got a talk this is a problem we are chocking for being over protective strict parents

[wiaraewiwiarae]

yes me and my siblings got a talk this is a problem we are chocking for being over protective strict parents

 

Well of course your parents will treat you like babies then. 

Move out.

[WenSuelRene]

IDK, cuz I still haven't gotten there yet either

[benseac]

Get your own house and show them that you're more than capable of doing the adult thing properly.

[-masayume-]

Move out, sis. Sooner the better.

[jhem]

You'll still be their baby even if you are already 80 years old.   

Im not sure, but show them that they can trust you.

That you can do and achieve things on your own. 

And never forget to reach out to them in the difficult situations like asking their advises if the your approach to your problem is correct.

Be patient and give them more respect.

[cake mf]

I don't see how they can influence your life at 28 at all?

same

 

my parents can barely tell me what to do at 13

[Pleasure]

get your own place + nice job