kookiestealer 92 Posted April 17, 2018 Share Posted April 17, 2018 I have a friend that loves attention, to get this she pretends to cry or be mad – and the game is that the other person doesn’t know if its for real or just fake. We are both in our early 20’s and I find this behavior immature and childish. I have never experienced her doing this on me - until today - when she did it on me and a guy friend. She has done this to him many times and puts him in a stressed situation. I just went like WTF and tried to apologize but she just sat there with a half-smile, ignoring me while saying in a patronizing voice “That’s what happens when you guys are mean to meâ€. Before I was afraid to be cross with her because I felt she was my entry to a social group. But I have found out that I truly just appreciate the one guy and now I have no trouble contacting him myself, so I was comfortable to joke around with her (she does it to me all the time) and the guy kind of just went along with the joke and she got "mad?" - started walking away, ignoring us?? I tried to apologize to her, but she sat there kind of smirking – so I got irritated and went and sat with this other girl – not giving her attention.??? I guess if you don’t want to lose her approval this is her way of manipulation people? Idk. I just don’t want to put up with such childish behavior. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cake mf 1,737 Posted April 17, 2018 Share Posted April 17, 2018 ok so like imma sound really weird here buttttt in general that's a sign of childhood trauma right? The mainpulation, infantilization...smth is NOT right with her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
knick knack 9,413 Posted April 17, 2018 Share Posted April 17, 2018 Embarrassing, drop her Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GalaxunnieSuperOppa 5,997 Posted April 17, 2018 Share Posted April 17, 2018 That friend sounds very manipulative. You...need to get away from her. Talk to the guy about it and let him know. Cut her off like a split end. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deobizone 7,779 Posted April 17, 2018 Share Posted April 17, 2018 drop ha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
noodlenoodle 931 Posted April 17, 2018 Share Posted April 17, 2018 Let her know that she's being transparent and nobody appreciates it. If it comes to it, drop her. But don't let her go without letting her know what she's doing wrong. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
felidae 2,742 Posted April 17, 2018 Share Posted April 17, 2018 If I were you I'd drop her instantly I get my aim Idk if I'd tell her this, but from my experience she'd deny and call me names AND tell people things I didn't do. She's manipulative. You should tell people her real skin if the situation is serious, later in the future. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KPOP303 630 Posted April 18, 2018 Share Posted April 18, 2018 slowy disappear from her life Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kookiestealer 92 Posted April 18, 2018 Author Share Posted April 18, 2018 ok so like imma sound really weird here buttttt in general that's a sign of childhood trauma right? The mainpulation, infantilization...smth is NOT right with her. You got a point there. That's how children act when they want to get attention... omg Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cake mf 1,737 Posted April 18, 2018 Share Posted April 18, 2018 You got a point there. That's how children act when they want to get attention... omg Yeah the reason I thought of that is bc I read it in a tv show theory once lmao. But srsly I do think it's probable. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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