Oliver 22,442 Posted May 6, 2014 Share Posted May 6, 2014 This thread is for the users that need objective points of views on things that could have been misunderstood and advice on ways to better approach such misunderstandings before things get out of hand! Feel free to post the situation and ask for opinions of other users to see how it should be approached Please refrain from insulting each other ^^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elle Eaux Elle 2,298 Posted May 6, 2014 Share Posted May 6, 2014 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tjyUKhhoMqc please reflect well~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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ImJustASlyFox 8,349 Posted May 6, 2014 Share Posted May 6, 2014 Look at me You may think you see Who I really am But you'll never know me Every day It's as if I play a part Now I see If I wear a mask I can fool the world But I cannot fool my heart Who is that girl I see Staring straight back at me? When will my reflection show Who I am inside? I am now In a world where I Have to hide my heart And what I believe in But somehow I will show the world What's inside my heart And be loved for who I am Who is that girl I see Staring straight back at me? Why is my reflection Someone I don't know? Must I pretend that I'm Someone else for all time? When will my reflection show Who I am inside? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Oliver 22,442 Posted May 7, 2014 Author Share Posted May 7, 2014 I figured I should be the first to post something.. SO! I made this thread today that compared EXO-K & EXO-M members individually.. (Rappers, Vocalists, etc..) and yet everyone freaked out! The reason why I made this post is because I wanted to see who they preferred within those categories! and yet everyone freaked out and kept being assholes! I think they just read the title and went right ahead to comment rather than actually reading the post! http://onehallyu.com/index.php?/topic/67151-exo-k-vs-exo-m/ ^ heres the thread! Tell me is what I did wrong/stupid?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aripod 2,721 Posted May 7, 2014 Share Posted May 7, 2014 recently i was involved in a situation where i got defensive because i felt as though i was being attacked. i let that person know i'd be keeping my guard up around them and they decided it was for the better to go the alternate route i suggested and not be friends. how do you think i should have responded to an attack that was executed in the bitchiest way possible? should i have been more passive about it? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Oliver 22,442 Posted May 7, 2014 Author Share Posted May 7, 2014 recently i was involved in a situation where i got defensive because i felt as though i was being attacked. i let that person know i'd be keeping my guard up around them and they decided it was for the better to go the alternate route i suggested and not be friends. how do you think i should have responded to an attack that was executed in the bitchiest way possible? should i have been more passive about it? Sometimes its not what you say its how you say it.. I think if you're really unhappy with the way things turned out.. Try to talk to that person and find a way to make each other understand where each one of you is coming from and why you said what you said.. and If not then to hell with that person I guess ~~ lol Its all a matter of what you want the outcome to be out of all this.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
duhleenuh 485 Posted May 7, 2014 Share Posted May 7, 2014 I figured I should be the first to post something.. SO! I made this thread today that compared EXO-K & EXO-M members individually.. (Rappers, Vocalists, etc..) and yet everyone freaked out! The reason why I made this post is because I wanted to see who they preferred within those categories! and yet everyone freaked out and kept being assholes! I think they just read the title and went right ahead to comment rather than actually reading the post! http://onehallyu.com/index.php?/topic/67151-exo-k-vs-exo-m/ ^ heres the thread! Tell me is what I did wrong/stupid?? 1) It's a thread that people frequently make. 2) People think that it's a topic that creates a lot of unnecessary drama. 3) People on OneHallyu seem to think it's okay to berate and undermine people who make supposedly "controversial" topics. Nothing officially wrong with what you did, other than making a thread that gets made somewhat often. The other things are just according to the general OH mentality. You can either play by their "rules" or suffer the consequences, basically. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aripod 2,721 Posted May 7, 2014 Share Posted May 7, 2014 Sometimes its not what you say its how you say it.. I think if you're really unhappy with the way things turned out.. Try to talk to that person and find a way to make each other understand where each one of you is coming from and why you said what you said.. and If not then to hell with that person I guess ~~ lol Its all a matter of what you want the outcome to be out of all this.. i guess you're right. to hell with people like that. it just sort of gives me a feeling of doubt in the relationship altogether, though and that's disheartening. i mean, after all this one petty thing ruins it all and makes you wonder if the friendship was really built on a strong foundation or not. i'm going to say it wasn't. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Oliver 22,442 Posted May 7, 2014 Author Share Posted May 7, 2014 1) It's a thread that people frequently make. 2) People think that it's a topic that creates a lot of unnecessary drama. 3) People on OneHallyu seem to think it's okay to berate and undermine people who make supposedly "controversial" topics. Nothing officially wrong with what you did, other than making a thread that gets made somewhat often. The other things are just according to the general OH mentality. You can either play by their "rules" or suffer the consequences, basically. I swear sometimes I feel like people here just act like assholes just for the upvotes.. i guess you're right. to hell with people like that. it just sort of gives me a feeling of doubt in the relationship altogether, though and that's disheartening. i mean, after all this one petty thing ruins it all and makes you wonder if the friendship was really built on a strong foundation or not. i'm going to say it wasn't. My opinion is to be the bigger person.. you wont lose anything if you approach them and explain your point of view.. if that person rejects you then its on them and you relieve yourself from that doubt Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
duhleenuh 485 Posted May 7, 2014 Share Posted May 7, 2014 I swear sometimes I feel like people here just act like assholes just for the upvotes.. But you have to be the right kind of asshole. So long as your intolerance seems to be bred from some sort of collectively self-righteous, peace-loving place, it's okay. That, and popular opinions. It's strange; it seems like over time, users conceal their hostilities a lot less, even when the person they're dealing with just seems innocently ignorant. Anyways, bottom line is don't feel too bad if you get ganged up on, especially in a place like this. (And check to see if a thread on a certain topic has already been made before making one ) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Uprising 584 Posted May 7, 2014 Share Posted May 7, 2014 I figured I should be the first to post something.. SO! I made this thread today that compared EXO-K & EXO-M members individually.. (Rappers, Vocalists, etc..) and yet everyone freaked out! The reason why I made this post is because I wanted to see who they preferred within those categories! and yet everyone freaked out and kept being assholes! I think they just read the title and went right ahead to comment rather than actually reading the post! http://onehallyu.com/index.php?/topic/67151-exo-k-vs-exo-m/ ^ heres the thread! Tell me is what I did wrong/stupid?? maybe they're just tired with such comparison thread. really though, if they don't want to make it a big deal they can just state which members they like because that's what you ask instead of making long post saying 'A is the best but i like B more bla bla bla'. You don't even ask about who is better lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Oliver 22,442 Posted May 7, 2014 Author Share Posted May 7, 2014 But you have to be the right kind of asshole. So long as your intolerance seems to be bred from some sort of collectively self-righteous, peace-loving place, it's okay. That, and popular opinions. It's strange; it seems like over time, users conceal their hostilities a lot less, even when the person they're dealing with just seems innocently ignorant. Anyways, bottom line is don't feel too bad if you get ganged up on, especially in a place like this. (And check to see if a thread on a certain topic has already been made before making one ) You have a point .. I knew there were a lot of threads on exo k vs exo m but I've never really seen one that spoke about the members themselves rather than the group collectively Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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