HRH Ayyu 4,199 Posted April 17, 2018 Share Posted April 17, 2018 i told my friends and co workers im asexual. they still believe it. so im in my 20s,( ive been in the kpop game for a long time) ive never had a boyfriend, There had been opportunities where i could of gotten one but i sent them very clear signals i wasent interested (told mutual friends). I just have a very high self esteem, Im not going to date a guy just cause he ask, i must like you alot and you must respect me. One of the guy only asked me out after he complained to me about being single for a year and how much he missed sex . I use to have a massive crush on him but forget that, bye, ayyu is no ones plan B hunny, but it has always freaked my friends and co workers out that i have never openly tried to get with someone and never dated so they ask me if im a lesbian since i was like 16. . If i was, i wouldnt hide it, its 2018. despite coming from a religious family Im not religious or follow the rules. im straight. It leads to so many questions i now just tell them im asexual so they shut up. but im not (i dont match the definition) whats the biggest lie you have ever told your friends/ family? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Peony 387 Posted April 17, 2018 Share Posted April 17, 2018 definitely not pretending to be a working 13 year old lmao Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Singsdoto 1,132 Posted April 17, 2018 Share Posted April 17, 2018 earth is flat Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i'm not your anti 929 Posted April 17, 2018 Share Posted April 17, 2018 That I'm not gay or that I'm happy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bronx. 2,763 Posted April 17, 2018 Share Posted April 17, 2018 that i attend all my classes and that i study everyday sorry Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TickleMePink 17,072 Posted April 17, 2018 Share Posted April 17, 2018 I hid the fact I was in an abusive relationship for a long time and that my depression was caused by something else instead of that Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bellendciaga 7,198 Posted April 17, 2018 Share Posted April 17, 2018 I don't really lie to my family, they'd probably clock me sooner or later rip as for my friends, they always used to ask me why I'd never want to bring a girl home when we used to go out and I used to say it's because of religion and me wanting to stay a virgin until I get married the real reason was because I didn't really know how to pull back then and I had low confidence so I'd always fuck up somehow when I'd approach girls lmaooo. in comparison to your lie OP it doesn't seem that big but they used to go on about allllll the time for like a year or so. those days are gone thankfully Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cake mf 1,737 Posted April 17, 2018 Share Posted April 17, 2018 definitely not pretending to be a working 13 year old lmao dafuq is up with ya hoe. IM LITERALLY 13 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HRH Ayyu 4,199 Posted April 17, 2018 Author Share Posted April 17, 2018 That I'm not gay or that I'm happy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UMJI MOODS 11,520 Posted April 17, 2018 Share Posted April 17, 2018 The two halves of my family are fighting. I have to tell each half I'm on their side otherwise neither will visit my grandma. In reality I think both halves are being stupid. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
krystalized 1,843 Posted April 17, 2018 Share Posted April 17, 2018 Too many to remember... probably that my depression was triggered because i was raped is the one i remember the most... as in i hided this fact and gave another reason.... (although honestly i think i was pretty fucked up since i was a child) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cake mf 1,737 Posted April 17, 2018 Share Posted April 17, 2018 Too many to remember... probably that my depression was triggered because i was raped Too many to remember... probably that my depression was triggered because i was raped gurl tf But yeah I'm a terrible liar so... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RiseLikeACrowTit 862 Posted April 17, 2018 Share Posted April 17, 2018 That I enjoy conversation in a family reunion; basicly in a clan meeting i'm working on my act 110% of the time, that i'm interested in what some of them say, and creating topics out of thin air, it drains me; I do enjoy the precence of my inner circle, but far away relatives will eat a show Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
krystalized 1,843 Posted April 17, 2018 Share Posted April 17, 2018 gurl tf But yeah I'm a terrible liar so... even till this day i havent told them i was raped, not even my friends... just some very few close people... and my therapists... if i say it here its cuz im behind a computer. It's not easy to just say it aloud. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bronx. 2,763 Posted April 17, 2018 Share Posted April 17, 2018 Too many to remember... probably that my depression was triggered because i was raped is the one i remember the most... as in i hided this fact and gave another reason.... (although honestly i think i was pretty fucked up since i was a child) gosh im so sad to hear this i hope you're doing better now. :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HRH Ayyu 4,199 Posted April 17, 2018 Author Share Posted April 17, 2018 even till this day i havent told them i was raped, not even my friends... just some very few close people... and my therapists... if i say it here its cuz im behind a computer. It's not easy to just say it aloud. well im glad you have been able to atleast start dealing with it by telling a few close people and therapists, there are sadly many people who take that deeep pain to the grave. you are brave for having been able to tell anyone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cake mf 1,737 Posted April 17, 2018 Share Posted April 17, 2018 even till this day i havent told them i was raped, not even my friends... just some very few close people... and my therapists... if i say it here its cuz im behind a computer. It's not easy to just say it aloud. That's so scary . Whoever did that to you deserves to burn for all eternity, sick twisted fucker. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
krystalized 1,843 Posted April 17, 2018 Share Posted April 17, 2018 gosh im so sad to hear this i hope you're doing better now. :( well actually yes... like this happened in 2010 and after so many years feeling at my lowest, 2017 was a pretty good year for me overall since i finally got a group of supporting friends (at language school) and got away from the toxic environment that was college (people there bullied me and slutshamed me). So even when i still feel a pang of pain i managed to finally return to the place where this people badmouthed me and the raped happened, end dental school, get my degree, got a 2 months scolarship to London to practice my english (as reward for gettting and A in CAE). I also rocked the exam you take to start working in dentistry (got the highest score)... I mean it might sound like me being a stuffed shirt but these little things are the ones that tell me that probably everything is turning out for the better now, hopefully. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
krystalized 1,843 Posted April 17, 2018 Share Posted April 17, 2018 well im glad you have been able to atleast start dealing with it by telling a few close people and therapists, there are sadly many people who take that deeep pain to the grave. you are brave for having been able to tell anyone. That's so scary . Whoever did that to you deserves to burn for all eternity, sick twisted fucker. thanks for the support. i dont hold any grudge anymore tho... it lets me live happier Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
puellarum generatio 3,628 Posted April 17, 2018 Share Posted April 17, 2018 Whenever someone asks me how I am I always answer "I'm fine". It's a small lie but on the long term it becomes a big lie as people don't know how I feel or what I think. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KNED 2,763 Posted April 17, 2018 Share Posted April 17, 2018 I tell them I have a plan for my life. But ... I HAVE NO PLAN! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bronx. 2,763 Posted April 17, 2018 Share Posted April 17, 2018 well actually yes... like this happened in 2010 and after so many years feeling at my lowest, 2017 was a pretty good year for me overall since i finally got a group of supporting friends (at language school) and got away from the toxic environment that was college (people there bullied me and slutshamed me). So even when i still feel a pang of pain i managed to finally return to the place where this people badmouthed me and the raped happened, end dental school, get my degree, got a 2 months scolarship to London to practice my english (as reward for gettting and A in CAE). I also rocked the exam you take to start working in dentistry (got the highest score)... I mean it might sound like me being a stuffed shirt but these little things are the ones that tell me that probably everything is turning out for the better now, hopefully. horrible thing happened to you and in that case i understand you being sad and struggle for a very long time, but still, you can't live like that forever right.. im so glad you're doing much better now and that you're away from all that toxic environment. congrats on those things you achieved. and they're not little at all. im pretty sure a lot of us aren't even close to that. keep working on yourself, your self-esteem and mental strength and this will help you a lot in life later, bc bad stuff are always happening, but you stay focused on good ones, please. just be focused on yourself mostly and don't let bad situations affect you a lot. and i hope for you to do even more better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
krystalized 1,843 Posted April 17, 2018 Share Posted April 17, 2018 horrible thing happened to you and in that case i understand you being sad and struggle for a very long time, but still, you can't live like that forever right.. im so glad you're doing much better now and that you're away from all that toxic environment. congrats on those things you achieved. and they're not little at all. im pretty sure a lot of us aren't even close to that. keep working on yourself, your self-esteem and mental strength and this will help you a lot in life later, bc bad stuff are always happening, but you stay focused on good ones, please. just be focused on yourself mostly and don't let bad situations affect you a lot. and i hope for you to do even more better. im really thankfull 4 your words. and yes. its easy to focus on the good stuff IRL as i dont tend to open and let my emotions flow when im talking face to face... i just get sad when i tell someone in this way... anyway... yeah i do have... and want to focus on the good things. we all have our fair share of problems, different ones, and i believe that the positive little things are the ones that will allow us to move forward i believe that and im cool Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bronx. 2,763 Posted April 17, 2018 Share Posted April 17, 2018 im really thankfull 4 your words. and yes. its easy to focus on the good stuff IRL as i dont tend to open and let my emotions flow when im talking face to face... i just get sad when i tell someone in this way... anyway... yeah i do have... and want to focus on the good things. we all have our fair share of problems, different ones, and i believe that the positive little things are the ones that will allow us to move forward i believe that and im cool im glad. i mean, just like sometimes there will be bad things, there will be also good things in life. we can't change that, but it's up to us to accept and overcome that. just keep working on yourself, it's your life and live it the best you can. and yes, you're inspirational and very cool unnie. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TrueColors 582 Posted April 17, 2018 Share Posted April 17, 2018 That I believe in God. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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