Yoonability 4,159 Posted April 15, 2018 Share Posted April 15, 2018 I'm so busy with my studies I can't relax even when I /actually/ have time to relax. For example, today I finished what I wanted to do and I don't have a deadline right now. I could go and watch something but I'm always so stressed out in the back of my mind by the things I'll have to do tomorrow/the day after, all the readings I still have to do, how I have to study for upcoming tests and have to catch up on lectures I haven't seen etc that I literally NEVER relax lol. I used to love watching dramas/variety shows but now I can't even enjoy those things because my stress makes it so that I can't concentrate for that long a time. I end up just playing around on my phone, watching the first half of Youtube stuff until I drop those as well and I just asdfghjkl. Being like this is awful honestly, I'm so tired and strung out. Does anybody recognize this? I would really like to fix this, I just don't know how. Whenever I try and sit down to watch something I get so antsy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pinkpanda_spirit 14,647 Posted April 15, 2018 Share Posted April 15, 2018 I'm also like this. I wait for the summer every year to relax, because that's the only time when I can really enjoy my free time . I know it's sad. and depressing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yoonability 4,159 Posted April 15, 2018 Author Share Posted April 15, 2018 I'm also like this. I wait for the summer every year to relax, because that's the only time when I can really enjoy my free time . I know it's sad. and depressing. Sis me too. Summer is the only time I can relax. My parents always tell me to work but I know if I do that, the stress of work will span the entire summer lmao I need to do an internship though, so it's inevitable. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
byeol 8,270 Posted April 15, 2018 Share Posted April 15, 2018 no, i'm like this too. Even rn i'm stressing the f out, it really sucks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Myr 837 Posted April 15, 2018 Share Posted April 15, 2018 I'm a little similar. But the more i have to do i procrastinate and when i have nothing to do i cant enjoy my free time Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yoonability 4,159 Posted April 15, 2018 Author Share Posted April 15, 2018 no, i'm like this too. Even rn i'm stressing the f out, it really sucks. Hugs for you <3 I know the feel. Sometimes I listen to music soundtracks, that calms down the constant anxiety. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chanychanchan 3,203 Posted April 15, 2018 Share Posted April 15, 2018 same op i cant relax at all no matter what i stress about deadlines and then when all of that's over i stress over the impending stress i'm already dreading for the future idk how you are sleeping but i did found that once i started sleeping better things are a bit better ^^''? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
byeol 8,270 Posted April 15, 2018 Share Posted April 15, 2018 Hugs for you <3 I know the feel. Sometimes I listen to music soundtracks, that calms down the constant anxiety. you're so nice, thank you <3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yoonability 4,159 Posted April 15, 2018 Author Share Posted April 15, 2018 same op i cant relax at all no matter what i stress about deadlines and then when all of that's over i stress over the impending stress i'm already dreading for the future idk how you are sleeping but i did found that once i started sleeping better things are a bit better ^^''? I never sleep bad, actually! I'm the kind of person who puts their head on the pillow and falls asleep lol, always have been. It's one thing I guess. Thank you though <3 we're all in the same boat here OTL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kalii 1,874 Posted April 15, 2018 Share Posted April 15, 2018 That was literally me like a year ago But now I just write down everything I need to do and make a mini plan for when and how I'm going to get everything done. And that just makes me feel so much better. I can stop thinking about all my work because it's already written down and planned for. It's weird how just writing stuff down helps so much, but i'm happy I started doing it I really hope you find something that works for you though <3 not being able to relax is like one of the worst feelings ever Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pinkpanda_spirit 14,647 Posted April 15, 2018 Share Posted April 15, 2018 Sis me too. Summer is the only time I can relax. My parents always tell me to work but I know if I do that, the stress of work will span the entire summer lmao I need to do an internship though, so it's inevitable. Aaah I feel you! My mother also wants me to work this summer but I want to enjoy the summer stress-free/doing nothing otherwise I will have to live with that stress for 2 consecutive years without a break. I wish you the best though! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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