luxuriouss86 185 Posted April 12, 2018 Share Posted April 12, 2018 Every time I contact someone on kakao, or other social media, they block me or ignore me. I figured that we are not that close and one Asian girl cussed out me out all because I tried to contact her after I haven't talked to her on social media in a long time. Maybe I should just talk to them in person and not message them on social media until I get closer to them like spending time with them in person. They think I'm a creep after I haven't talked to them in a long time My other acquaintance I met at church got mad at me for acting like I'm close to him after I've talking to him on Facebook for a long time and told me that he doesnt want to associate with me. I got this book from Amazon called "Stop Being Lonely: Three Simple Steps to Develop Close Friendships and Deep Relationships" Nobody in my dad's family never told me this. I think spending with someone in person all the time will get me close to them. I think social media doesn't form a close friendship Do your friends you haven't talked to in a long time do that to you? Sent from my Moto E (4) using OneHallyu mobile app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chiirbii 4,760 Posted April 12, 2018 Share Posted April 12, 2018 If people are consistently refusing to interact with you, it's always good to take a step back and reevaluate how you're approaching them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
geminimoon 274 Posted April 12, 2018 Share Posted April 12, 2018 If people are consistently refusing to interact with you, it's always good to take a step back and reevaluate how you're approaching them.I agree with this. OP, maybe it’s good to take some time to reflect on yourself and your actions and WHY this could be happening. Maybe you have a habit of disappearing a lot and then showing back up, and people may feel offended by that. Try to keep up with the contact or give them a genuine apology and explanation. I know sometimes people just need space, because I often lose contact with my friends for some time and then return. I also suffer from depression or anxiety, so it’s definirley the reason why I disappear so often. Maybe if that’s the case with you, you could just explain it.. but even if it’s not the case, you should still reflect on it and try to communicate with them. Communication never hurts! (Or rarely, because some people are just assholes) I should also add that I hope it doesn’t give you any negative feelings towards your self because of how your friends react, and don’t approach this reflection I mentioned in a negative way. I often felt really bad and like I just couldn’t make and keep friends, but as I’ve gone through changing my attitude and etc, ive been trying to remember that I am not one way or another way. I’m simply me and I can turn everything around! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ego ista 1,344 Posted April 12, 2018 Share Posted April 12, 2018 If people are consistently refusing to interact with you, it's always good to take a step back and reevaluate how you're approaching them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yeoleeda 406 Posted April 12, 2018 Share Posted April 12, 2018 i think when i try it,people will still ignore idk Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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