luxuriouss86 185 Posted April 3, 2018 Share Posted April 3, 2018 Hey guys i read an article from adultsocialskills.com and i read Show similar interests, values, and lifestyle People feel most comfortable around those who they perceive to hold similar values, interests, and beliefs. They also tend to choose these individuals as their friends. If you want people to like and befriend you, it is to your benefit to listen very carefully to what people tell you about their interests, values, and lifestyles and then go out of your way to present yourself similarly. It is commonly suggested that you should avoid talking about religion or politics because people will form a dislike for you if you're values/views are inconsistent with theirs. This is absolutely true, but understand that it also applies to more trivial things as well (such as an interest in sports, arts, culture, food, etc.). With more trivial topics, it's not that other's will dislike you for having different interests, but the problem is they won't necessarily want to hang around with you either. Loners often make the mistake of presenting themselves too honestly in everyday social interactions. They needlessly point out differences of opinion and interests. Not only should you never point out or admit to differences, you should proactively promote yourself as being similar. Do you share same hobby with your friend? Sent from my REVVLPLUS C3701A using OneHallyu mobile app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UMJI MOODS 11,518 Posted April 3, 2018 Share Posted April 3, 2018 Some yes, some no. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pleasure 2,956 Posted April 3, 2018 Share Posted April 3, 2018 o....k Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tosageni 1 Posted April 3, 2018 Share Posted April 3, 2018 kinda Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TimeToShine 2,886 Posted April 3, 2018 Share Posted April 3, 2018 Loners often make the mistake of presenting themselves too honestly in everyday social interactions. They necessarily point out differences of opinion and interests. Not only should you always point out or admit to differences, you should never promote yourself as being similar. I truly believe that being different from your friends and family is better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miekos 24,408 Posted April 3, 2018 Share Posted April 3, 2018 I do share the same hobby with my friends: drawing, that's also how we met. And one of them also likes kpop, and anime/manga. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joyvelvet. 1,008 Posted April 4, 2018 Share Posted April 4, 2018 Some yes, some no. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soogi 1,222 Posted April 4, 2018 Share Posted April 4, 2018 we share the same opinions on most things yeah. our hobbies and interests used to be the same but not anymore. Loners often make the mistake of presenting themselves too honestly in everyday social interactions. They needlessly point out differences of opinion and interests. Not only should you never point out or admit to differences, you should proactively promote yourself as being similar. what? no. that has got to be some of the worst advice i've ever heard Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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