BadBadNotGood 11,616 Posted March 20, 2018 Share Posted March 20, 2018 It's not just the Suho situation but in other situations when idols fuck up, fans know they fuck up, but they put on blinders and twist it in every single way possible just to protect them. Honestly it's the craziest thing. These idols don't know you, they don't care about you. You're not gonna get a pat on the back for defending someone who fucked up. I'm not saying you have to hate them but why is it so hard for fans to admit when their idol did wrong? I stan idols who have fucked up but you're not gonna see me trying to invalidate the feelings of others or dumb myself down just to make me feel better for liking them. The only thing I can do is acknowledge it and move on. Like I am so over putting celebrities on pedestals because I finally learned that they're human, too and many of them don't deserve to be thought of so highly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BIade 737 Posted March 20, 2018 Share Posted March 20, 2018 Stans "oppar/unnir didn't mean it" mentality Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UNNIE 15,249 Posted March 20, 2018 Share Posted March 20, 2018 What word did he say? Retarded, Insane, or Psychopath? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
honeybbh 2,957 Posted March 20, 2018 Share Posted March 20, 2018 Thank you! IDK what they possibly think they will gain from it either. All this effort being put into constantly protecting your faves and for what? at the end of the day that is a complete stranger. People need to learn that you can stan someone and still call them out on their mistakes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
�halley� 1,438 Posted March 20, 2018 Share Posted March 20, 2018 Fans need to learn to say he/she is a human so they can make mistakes i hope they can be more sensitive in the future but it’s not that deep either Case closed Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wanderess 3,209 Posted March 20, 2018 Share Posted March 20, 2018 Like I am so over putting celebrities on pedestals because I finally learned that they're human, too and many of them don't deserve to be thought of so highly. THIS. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pururin 14,348 Posted March 20, 2018 Share Posted March 20, 2018 ikr it's so weird Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abra 40,910 Posted March 20, 2018 Share Posted March 20, 2018 What word did he say? Retarded, Insane, or Psychopath? "I will look like a mentally ill person" or something along those lines Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Silverscream 503 Posted March 20, 2018 Share Posted March 20, 2018 Plus they know they can get away with it because the first source to break anything wanky is usually allkpop and everyone hates that site. I've definitely learned over the past few months that you should definitely be wary about trusting I-fans who knows absolutely no Korean when it comes to scandals. Way too many will blatantly lie to protect their faves even if it ends up pretty innocuous drama at the end of things. tho otoh, there's also the problem of people jumping to blindly hate on someone based on half-truths and incomplete information who'll never admit to being wrong who're just as bad imo. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BadBadNotGood 11,616 Posted March 20, 2018 Author Share Posted March 20, 2018 What word did he say? Retarded, Insane, or Psychopath? Click here to view the Tweet This is the best post about it and how fans really should react tbh Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kaitoh 1,457 Posted March 20, 2018 Share Posted March 20, 2018 THIS. Except my bias, she's perfect Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mangoo 4,203 Posted March 20, 2018 Share Posted March 20, 2018 Because if don't you constantly defend your bias even though they did something that was obviously wrong will label you as a fake fan Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gore 8,169 Posted March 20, 2018 Share Posted March 20, 2018 In before yeriana grande comes in with “but korean speakers are saying he didn’t say anything derogatory!†even tho the first time I saw this issue being brought up was from.. korean speakers on my tline.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chou 830 Posted March 20, 2018 Share Posted March 20, 2018 what happened with suho? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kalii 1,874 Posted March 20, 2018 Share Posted March 20, 2018 Yeah I agree Not everyone is offended by the same things, but I just really hate when people try to tell others how they're supposed to feel. If someone is legitimately hurt by something, then they have the right to feel hurt. It's not anyone elses' place to tell them how to feel Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sotired 5,376 Posted March 20, 2018 Share Posted March 20, 2018 I do think we shouldn't defend someone if they did something wrong, but tbh 'wrong' can be subjective in some cases. What one deems wrong isn't wrong for everyone. But in the general sense I agree with your point. Another thing that I really hate is when you see people pretending they care about an issue but they really don and only get involved bc they hate an idol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lil Ayy Big Gay 8,172 Posted March 20, 2018 Share Posted March 20, 2018 Its honestly lowkey gross people are like 'its korean culture', making koreans look like insensitive assholes Like shit Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BadBadNotGood 11,616 Posted March 20, 2018 Author Share Posted March 20, 2018 In before yeriana grande comes in with “but korean speakers are saying he didn’t say anything derogatory!†even tho the first time I saw this issue being brought up was from.. korean speakers on my tline.. We only see what we want to see Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kami 9,209 Posted March 20, 2018 Share Posted March 20, 2018 · Hidden by polygon, March 20, 2018 - No reason given Hidden by polygon, March 20, 2018 - No reason given Can't believe that Suho thread was deleted Link to comment
90's Baby 5,035 Posted March 20, 2018 Share Posted March 20, 2018 In before yeriana grande comes in with “but korean speakers are saying he didn’t say anything derogatory!†even tho the first time I saw this issue being brought up was from.. korean speakers on my tline.. Nb4 she makes this about fanwars... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
parkyeols 754 Posted March 20, 2018 Share Posted March 20, 2018 · Hidden by polygon, March 20, 2018 - No reason given Hidden by polygon, March 20, 2018 - No reason given Can't believe that Suho thread was deleted can't believe you aren't banned Link to comment
Yerim. 609 Posted March 20, 2018 Share Posted March 20, 2018 The problem starts with the definition of the word IDOL and it only gets messier from there tbh Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anki_tao 11,208 Posted March 20, 2018 Share Posted March 20, 2018 I agree with you tbh but... Some situations are iffy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chae Is Bae 1,113 Posted March 20, 2018 Share Posted March 20, 2018 People need to learn that you can stan someone and still call them out on their mistakes. Basically this Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YuMing 4,176 Posted March 20, 2018 Share Posted March 20, 2018 Like I am so over putting celebrities on pedestals because I finally learned that they're human, too and many of them don't deserve to be thought of so highly. dlkfjgldfkgf ok idk if you're aware of this or not but I quote: "It's hard to explain.. "jeong-sin byeong-ja" is somewhere in between "i would look like crazy/insane person" but it:s not derogatory in its traditional meaning. There's no exact english term nor meaning for it. Korean use them endlessly." so you're saying stop putting celebrities on pedestals because they're human yet bash them for saying something literally the entirety of korea is also saying and also yeah it seems to me this is something like the difference between "crazy/insane" and "mentally ill" in english, a non-english speaker would be confused what the difference is but english speakers all know there's a huge difference ofc if what he said was actually derogatory then I think he should stop, but to ask him to publicly apologize for something everyone else is doing and witch hunting him is kind of over the top but ye I agree with you, when idols mess up fans should let them know, and they should apologize if necessary and ofc this goes both ways, when idols mess up, ppl shouldn't blow up the situation either edit: came off as hostile, sorry dlkfgjldfg I didn't mean to focus on you I meant other ppl overall bashing suho just because of this Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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