Asukii8 250 Posted March 11, 2018 Share Posted March 11, 2018 I'm 18 and I've recently (2 months ago) found my first girlfriend. We literally see each other every day and we have slept together many times (at least once each week). I even stayed in her house for a week once. We are both really affectionate with each other and kiss like once every few minutes. I've told her so many personal things and we really trust each other with everything, I would be comfortable to tell her anything. She also really takes care of me and even booked a hotel for me when I got stranded in the city (and stayed there with me). We are both really happy at the moment and there's no problems in the relationship, but I just love her so much that the thought of her breaking up with me scares me so much. I would be DEVASTATED if that happened. I would be completely miserable for a very very long time and I would probably never want to get into another relationship again (at least not for many years). I even had a stupid little online "relationship" a couple of years ago (with a girl I never ended up meeting in person) that lasted for like a week, and when that ended I was pretty fucked up about it for like a month (and yeah, I'm ashamed to admit that it happened lol). Does anyone else experience thoughts like this too? What advice could you guys give me? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jcey 7,752 Posted March 11, 2018 Share Posted March 11, 2018 Just know Life goes on. Like you said you were fucked up for a month after your first breakup sort of..but you are here now. In the same way life will go on. Enjoy this experience. Whatever will happen will happen. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kimvfilms 3,308 Posted March 11, 2018 Share Posted March 11, 2018 I understand you and although it may not be healthy to have such feelings/fears, I believe it's normal when we've gone through certain experiences before. Something like this happened to me and although I must admit I had the worst time of my life post break up (since other things happened in my life at the same time), and it still hurts somehow when thinking about it, I can see that everything else is alright, and I didn't have reasons to be so scared of the break up (this person was truly important for me). I mean, believe it or not, you will get over it again if she ever breaks up with you. People come and goes from our lives all the time, and everytime someone leaves, another person will eventually come. It's all good mate. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sarc 257 Posted March 11, 2018 Share Posted March 11, 2018 Like someone above said, what is meant to happen will happen so don't get too worked over it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Primarina 1,465 Posted March 11, 2018 Share Posted March 11, 2018 Try to avoid those feelings and toughts, they're not healthy at all. From what you're saying everything seems to be okay with your girlfriend, so there's nothing to be afraid of Just keep being yourself and if there is ever a problem, communication and respect will be the way to solve it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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