enchante 4,542 Posted March 9, 2018 Share Posted March 9, 2018 I've always considered myself bi but recently i've been reflecting and I just, don't know anymore. So I was thinking some of your experiences might help me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OhGosh! 1,855 Posted March 9, 2018 Share Posted March 9, 2018 When I had sex with a girl. But then I had sex with a guy so boy was I jumping to conclusions. Don't try to label yourself. It's messy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ice_ 1,328 Posted March 9, 2018 Share Posted March 9, 2018 Don't try to label yourself. It's messy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DemonicPotato 2,197 Posted March 9, 2018 Share Posted March 9, 2018 Being attracted to girls and not boys (or vice versa) is usually a good tell Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anxiety 5,043 Posted March 9, 2018 Share Posted March 9, 2018 Don't try to label yourself. It's messy. This just love and fuck whoever you want Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SJJD 1,975 Posted March 9, 2018 Share Posted March 9, 2018 parts of it were kind of hard actually, especially with compulsory heterosexuality. but i think of my reactions about dating men and women. when i thought i was straight i was always making excuses to get out of dating men and flirting was such a chore, but i enjoy dating women and all that jazz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sa1zo 3,534 Posted March 9, 2018 Share Posted March 9, 2018 When you have a gay sex and forget to say "No Homo" afterwards or when you have straight sex and think "this is so gay" You know you are gay. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phes 1,395 Posted March 9, 2018 Share Posted March 9, 2018 Don't try to label yourself. It's messy. This is the best for every aspect of your life Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OhGosh! 1,855 Posted March 9, 2018 Share Posted March 9, 2018 Seriously, if you want to learn from my experiences in dating/sex: Exclusive with girls from 13-17. (during this time I thought some guys were hot, but I wasn't interested in sex with them) Some boys, mostly girls from 17-22 All boys from 22-24 More often attracted to girls, but I've always had relationships with them end bad, so I switched to guys. The relationships don't end as badly, but they're not as good overall? I finally got fed up with that and made an advice thread where everyone told me to quit being a baby, stop limiting myself, stop labeling things and just do whatever makes me happy. And that's my advice to you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i'm not your anti 929 Posted March 9, 2018 Share Posted March 9, 2018 Still haven't, but I sort of began to realise I may not be completely straight when I began to feel only things for girls and developed massive crushes on them, in addition to paying relatively no attention to men. I say you may be able to get a better grasp if you begin to notice and pay attention to how you interact with people you find attractive, and see how it differs from gender. Don't try to label yourself. It's messy. Regardless, I highly agree with this statement. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
T A I G A 2,251 Posted March 9, 2018 Share Posted March 9, 2018 Edit: lol you were looking for advices. Sorry I just answered without reading. Well, it's not bad not really knowing who you're into? In my case I just find someone attractive whatever their gender is. Sex might help to understand yourself better, but in case you don't particularly enjoy it, just think about two persons of different genders you've really found attractive and chose who you'd rather get intimate with? Is what I could say but it's not that simple either... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
renxin 4 Posted March 9, 2018 Share Posted March 9, 2018 i knew i was bi when i started reading a lot of bl, but that's just my experience. love who you want, love yourself~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Haze 10,915 Posted March 9, 2018 Share Posted March 9, 2018 I realized I was really into Yuri.. as in Yuri from SNSD. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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