JNT-LEGGO 6,380 Posted March 8, 2018 Share Posted March 8, 2018 Say they've done the crime and done the time. Does it depend on the crime? Does it depend on how long ago? Say it has NO baring on your lives now (for example, it doesn't affect their job) would you even want to know? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SJJD 1,975 Posted March 8, 2018 Share Posted March 8, 2018 it depends on what it was... if it was a violent or sex crime then i probably wouldn't date them, if it was drug related then i wouldn't care as much Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cake mf 1,737 Posted March 8, 2018 Share Posted March 8, 2018 it depends on what it was... if it was a violent or sex crime then i probably wouldn't date them, if it was drug related then i wouldn't care as much tbh. unless they did the drugs. once an addict always an addict. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ZikyungDerp 3,644 Posted March 8, 2018 Share Posted March 8, 2018 I mean like I wouldn't date like a serial killer but if it's like traffic violations I think I'd let that slide Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SJJD 1,975 Posted March 8, 2018 Share Posted March 8, 2018 tbh. unless they did the drugs. once an addict always an addict. i don't think that's true, i know some people who have managed to turn their lives around Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gore 8,169 Posted March 8, 2018 Share Posted March 8, 2018 depends on the severity of the crime and when they did it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cake mf 1,737 Posted March 8, 2018 Share Posted March 8, 2018 i don't think that's true, i know some people who have managed to turn their lives around True, but it's def something that you can relapse with if the factors are right. It'll always be an addiction no matter how sober you stay. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grape Soda 12,004 Posted March 8, 2018 Share Posted March 8, 2018 it depends on what it was... if it was a violent or sex crime then i probably wouldn't date them, if it was drug related then i wouldn't care as much Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
krystalized 1,843 Posted March 8, 2018 Share Posted March 8, 2018 I would never consider dating someone with a criminal past. I mean there's plenty of clean guys. But then again I wouldnt date anyone as of now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Oli London 1,762 Posted March 8, 2018 Share Posted March 8, 2018 dating a criminal seems like a better option for me right now. i thought i couldn't date a criminal but idk. my standards are getting shittier by the day. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
denizen mars 5,911 Posted March 8, 2018 Share Posted March 8, 2018 honestly, unless it was for a political protest, self defense or a wrongful conviction, it'd give me pause. I have compassion for those who were caught with drugs and then managed to turn their life around, or those with a harmless marijuana habit, but as someone who's never once been tempted to try drugs of any sort, I can't really relate to those that did/do. Also, no matter what the person went to prison for, if they did serious time I might find it difficult to relate to that person. Prison changes a person in ways I think an outsider with a safe life like me could never fully understand. It's trauma. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Downvotesforeveryone 1,601 Posted March 8, 2018 Share Posted March 8, 2018 I had an ex I dated who at the time I STUPIDLY didn’t know he was doing hard drugs and helping deal too. He ended up robbing our house and stealing all of my mother’s jewelry. He ended up OD’ing and dying. Feel bad for his family but he was an awful person and, well, had it coming. I will never date someone with a criminal or drug past again. Shit almost ruined my life Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EXOKingJongdae 573 Posted March 8, 2018 Share Posted March 8, 2018 It depends on what they've done if it's just small misdemeanors then I'd be okay if it's like violent or sex crimes or something like that then def no. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Meiqi's Maid 488 Posted March 8, 2018 Share Posted March 8, 2018 it depends on what it was... if it was a violent or sex crime then i probably wouldn't date them, if it was drug related then i wouldn't care as much Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chanwoo's-nananas 2 Posted March 8, 2018 Share Posted March 8, 2018 Everyone can be evil, just find someone who you know that could somewhat change~ or not. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sdm 13,010 Posted March 8, 2018 Share Posted March 8, 2018 If it's something very minor and stupid then I'd consider it. But most cases I'm passing Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Arietta 789 Posted March 8, 2018 Share Posted March 8, 2018 Only if it was a very minor crime that didn't involve hurting others Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kaitoh 1,457 Posted March 8, 2018 Share Posted March 8, 2018 Really depends on the crime Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bluebells and Snowdrops 3,570 Posted March 8, 2018 Share Posted March 8, 2018 If it was 10 years ago, and they’ve turned their life around and gotten their punishment, I won’t judge them for it. I would want to know about it, though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
halow31 1,137 Posted March 8, 2018 Share Posted March 8, 2018 No i hate criminals Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Geeminy 2,103 Posted March 8, 2018 Share Posted March 8, 2018 depends on the crime Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-masayume- 3,749 Posted March 8, 2018 Share Posted March 8, 2018 The last guy I was seeing had been involved in transferring drugs and guns in his high school years. He turned his life upside-down when his parents caught him, has 4 diplomas from 4 different colleges, has two stable jobs and has been nothing but kind to me and the others and if things turned out better than they had, yes - I'd consider dating him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kisumai 797 Posted March 8, 2018 Share Posted March 8, 2018 it depends on the crime Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MasterOfCider 692 Posted March 9, 2018 Share Posted March 9, 2018 It depends on what they did. If it was drugs and theft (like shoplifting) then okay. Though if it's violent or sexual absolutely not. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
love 8,778 Posted March 9, 2018 Share Posted March 9, 2018 If it's something very minor and stupid then I'd consider it. But most cases I'm passing Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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