shefangirls 268 Posted March 5, 2018 Share Posted March 5, 2018 There is this guy in my class who I really want to be friends with. We finally got the chance to talk this weekend and he asked for my number and we started messaging each other. He asked me to meet up with him again this week for some smoothies and that's exactly what we are doing. I don't like making assumptions, but one of my friends suggested that he may be interested in something more. I am really inexperienced with guy-girl friendships lol so I am wondering if this is how they normally start or if my friend could be right...? I just want to be really good friends with this guy, and as of the moment, that's what I am assuming he also wants, but my friend got me thinking. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cake mf 1,737 Posted March 5, 2018 Share Posted March 5, 2018 It happens naturally lol. He could just want to be your friend, I used to hang out with a group of guys and only like one of them tried to get in my pants. The only way you’ll see what he wants is if you become better friends with him, if there’s smth there it will be obvious just from the way he acts towards you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SJJD 1,975 Posted March 5, 2018 Share Posted March 5, 2018 he definitely might be interested in more, if i were you i'd mention something about being glad we're friends or something so he knows you just wanna be friends Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Feary 2,115 Posted March 5, 2018 Share Posted March 5, 2018 Honestly would need more details to give you my thoughts, but if you're really worried you can do what most girls do and casually drop a "friend-zone" bomb when you go on your not-a-date. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kythestar 350 Posted March 5, 2018 Share Posted March 5, 2018 bring others along and see how he'll act. usually if they want something more they're be a little more affectionate and attentive. also offering to do more with just the two of you in a casual manner but an underlying of a date. some times it varies. but llike others mention, drop the whole just being friends on him and see how he'll react to that. good luck! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
katsu curry chips 7,808 Posted March 5, 2018 Share Posted March 5, 2018 it's usually obvious when someone just wants to be friends. you just know. you can't imagine being with them like that, but more than that, you can't imagine them being into you either. but be observant, and the moment you get signals you might've misjudged the situation, be cool and don't string him along. too many people think they can just *ignore away* the other person's attraction to you but it's not how things work Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
halow31 1,137 Posted March 5, 2018 Share Posted March 5, 2018 Maybe it's cultural differences but for me if a guy invite you to hang out with him just the two of you he must be interested in something more Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suzy Quatro 1,441 Posted March 6, 2018 Share Posted March 6, 2018 Yeah, if it develops like that I'd say he might want to be more than friends. At least that's how things usually go with a girl I would want to date, you advance fast and direct in order to make your intentions clear and not be mistaken as a "friend". If I'm not looking to date or a serious relationship I tend to be less pro-active and more relaxed and would avoid invinting her to go out with me, just the two of us, unless I already know her well and it has already been established we're just friends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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