if a friend is in love whats the first thing you want to know about the person she\he's in love with?

[Balancetonquoi]

usually people ask a picture to see what that girl/guy looks like. and then you juge him/her based on their looks. you would be like '' mhhh he/she's kinda ugly'' or ''omg so attractive ''

but when you think about it its kind of superficial  and shallow. imagine that the ugly one will be the one who will make your friend the happiest in the world and the beautiful one would make your friend sad ? you will influence your friend to drop someone worth it?

 

I think the first thing we should ask is ''how he/she is like as a person'' and ''what kind of things you like to do together'' ''things you got in common '' thats what a real friend should try to know imo

 

if a friend is in love whats the first thing you want to know about the person she\he's in love with? the first thing you ask?

[ncting]

who is it?

[OhGosh!]

I'd hope I've already met the person by the time they're in love tbh

[i'm not your anti]

Where they met them.

[Zhou JieQUEEN-ong]

i'll always ask straight forward "who is it?"

[Solarbeam]

what they look like

[Guest]

i'll always ask straight forward "who is it?"

[purpletea]

I'll ask who they are and what they look like. Tbh it's not really my business to ask questions and I also don't really care lol. I'll just hope that when I eventually meet them that they're nice to me and I'll hope that they treat my friend well.

[Cobalt]

I find myself asking their age more often than not. 

[V I V I]

Do you think he/she might like you too?