setmefree 9 Posted April 26, 2014 Share Posted April 26, 2014 I'm keeping things vague just in case someone who knows me reads this. Lol. I have this crush on this guy, but I keep getting mixed feelings about him. Sometimes I have feelings for him, then the next I don't. I want to talk to him, then the next I don't feel like talking to him. I was interested in him since the beginning of this school year. He's really shy around me, but I found out that he's actually an outgoing person from people. I kept getting mixed signals from him before and later on I found out that he liked this other girl, but she doesn't like him. So I felt like his second choice and stopped having feelings for him. But then there was this one incident that happened, which was obvious that he was trying to show his feelings for me. So I started to get these feelings back. But I still have mixed feelings for him. I'm not sure why. I guess its because I don't really know much about him since its kind of hard to get to know him when he's shy. (I'm really shy myself, but since he's shy, I'm able to loosen up more. But I'm still pretty shy around him.) I have a kind of low self-esteem problem and I have a little family problem, so sometimes I feel like I'm not ready for a relationship. I want to get to know him more, but we never really have time to have a proper conversation. I tried to talked to him on Facebook before, but he kept giving short responses and I had no idea what to do. (There were a lot of things he did that showed he has feelings for me, so the short responses don't mean that he doesn't like me.) I think he's starting to get tried of my mixed signals, which I really don't mean to do. If I were to make myself stop getting involve with him, then I would want to be with him. But then again, I still get mixed feelings for him. Any advice? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
초췌 270 Posted April 27, 2014 Share Posted April 27, 2014 grab him by the face and ask him clearly, "do you like me or not, you son of a bitch" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Puremystic 3,078 Posted April 27, 2014 Share Posted April 27, 2014 He seems fickle... and so do you.... I'd advise against it ..... but that's just me.. (also by the way you and him are going about this "situation" you sound like 14 year olds or something? ) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
setmefree 9 Posted April 27, 2014 Author Share Posted April 27, 2014 He seems fickle... and so do you.... I'd advise against it ..... but that's just me.. (also by the way you and him are going about this "situation" you sound like 14 year olds or something? ) We're juniors. I think I'm the only fickle one. Right now, he just seems shy. I don't get mixed signals from him anymore, but just today it seems like he's getting tired of it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloupsidou 2,047 Posted April 27, 2014 Share Posted April 27, 2014 grab him by the face and ask him clearly, "do you like me or not, you son of a bitch" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
l�l�� 2,504 Posted April 27, 2014 Share Posted April 27, 2014 We're juniors. I think I'm the only fickle one. Right now, he just seems shy. I don't get mixed signals from him anymore, but just today it seems like he's getting tired of it. why he is getting tired of it though? ..this doesnt looks as if he is even trying to reach you i would like know that made ​​you think he has feelings for you...idk sometimes we like someone so much..that makes us think that we are seeing signs or something like that. i think you like him a lot...you're trying to fool yourself when you think you stopped having feelings for him (possibly because you are not sure if he really likes you) nobody can change her "love" feelings easily from one day(week) to another Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Davidholic8 103 Posted April 27, 2014 Share Posted April 27, 2014 If you really want him, you would get him. If you are having mixed feelings and aren't sure it's worth it, it's a good chance you aren't really ready for him/the relationship. But, hey, it might work out, so why not give it a shot? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
justanothermudblood 428 Posted April 28, 2014 Share Posted April 28, 2014 Better take the reigns on this one if you want to get answers. His feelings seem pretty vague. If he really wanted to talk to you on Facebook, he wouldn't have given short answers and would've at least made an effort to keep the conversation going. I guess it's better to ask him outright if he likes you. Be prepared for the worst tho. Good luck! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
denalichen 403 Posted April 29, 2014 Share Posted April 29, 2014 Seems like you're always trying to figure out what he's thinking and trying to interpret his actions. Maybe you should just be direct and invite him to prom. I did that with a guy I had a crush on but was unsure about. He said yes and we started dating. I'm not saying it would work out, but sometimes you just have to gather your balls so to speak and just ask. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suzy Quatro 1,441 Posted April 30, 2014 Share Posted April 30, 2014 grab him by the face and ask him clearly, "do you like me or not, you son of a bitch" Best advice so far Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chickenfan 1,144 Posted April 30, 2014 Share Posted April 30, 2014 I'm keeping things vague just in case someone who knows me reads this. Lol. I have this crush on this guy, but I keep getting mixed feelings about him. Sometimes I have feelings for him, then the next I don't. I want to talk to him, then the next I don't feel like talking to him. I was interested in him since the beginning of this school year. He's really shy around me, but I found out that he's actually an outgoing person from people. I kept getting mixed signals from him before and later on I found out that he liked this other girl, but she doesn't like him. So I felt like his second choice and stopped having feelings for him. But then there was this one incident that happened, which was obvious that he was trying to show his feelings for me. So I started to get these feelings back. But I still have mixed feelings for him. I'm not sure why. I guess its because I don't really know much about him since its kind of hard to get to know him when he's shy. (I'm really shy myself, but since he's shy, I'm able to loosen up more. But I'm still pretty shy around him.) I have a kind of low self-esteem problem and I have a little family problem, so sometimes I feel like I'm not ready for a relationship. I want to get to know him more, but we never really have time to have a proper conversation. I tried to talked to him on Facebook before, but he kept giving short responses and I had no idea what to do. (There were a lot of things he did that showed he has feelings for me, so the short responses don't mean that he doesn't like me.) I think he's starting to get tried of my mixed signals, which I really don't mean to do. If I were to make myself stop getting involve with him, then I would want to be with him. But then again, I still get mixed feelings for him. Any advice? I'm sorry but it doesn't sound like he's interested in you romantically. You said there are other things he did that shows he has feelings for you. If he likes you but hasn't made a move and doesn't really respond to your messages. He's not interested. I don't think you have mixed feelings for him, it sounds pretty obvious that you do like him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ruby Faith 5,082 Posted May 4, 2014 Share Posted May 4, 2014 I'm in the exact same situation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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