Frenchkiss 1,888 Posted February 9, 2018 Share Posted February 9, 2018 when you'r in a relationship do you like to flirt ? the 90% of my friends are males, they flirt all the time, even when they are in a relationship, some of them flirt to get something but the majority do it just because... and when the thing is reaching a point, they step back today one of my friend's gf ( ex gf now) found a veeeery sexy convo in my friend's phone. she was furious, called the girl and cursed her and her relatives and then broke his phone. he explained her he was just playing along and flirting for fun, that he would never cheat on her ( and its truth, he has never cheat on any gf and never will because her cousin killed herlsef after her husband cheated and left ) but anyway she said she couldnt trust in him anymore and they broke up would you do the same or just request him to never speak to the girl again ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vanille 1,800 Posted February 9, 2018 Share Posted February 9, 2018 Veeery sexy convos is also cheating Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rosinante 588 Posted February 9, 2018 Share Posted February 9, 2018 I think that was a messed up thing to do, of course she cant trust him anymore. If youre in a monogamous relationship with a person than you shouldnt go around making sexual advances with other people, doesnt really matter if you dont have the intent of having sex with them. Its disrespectful to your partner. Why would you do something that you know would hurt your significant other behind their back? It just doesnt sit right with me I wouldnt go to the extreme that girl went, but id be pissed and it would take a lot to regain my trust. If i ever found out they did it again then i'd break up with them Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
adina kim 484 Posted February 9, 2018 Share Posted February 9, 2018 i think this can be call micro cheating??? i know right,kid this day ....i think this is what they call with that type of situation... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Arietta 789 Posted February 9, 2018 Share Posted February 9, 2018 What I've noticed is people usually flirt with others to get back at their significant other or it makes them feel more attractive and boosts their self-esteem It's not cheating imo, but it still ain't right and if you can't keep your whole attention to one girl/guy, you probably shouldn't be in a monogamous relationship... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amorria 25 Posted February 11, 2018 Share Posted February 11, 2018 In my opinion, if you're in relationship with someone and you really love that person, you shouldn't even think about flirting with other people. If I catched my partner doing this (whenever it's in real life or via texting), it would probably be the end of us. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lee jaeyeol 385 Posted February 11, 2018 Share Posted February 11, 2018 hell no if my man does it the door is right tbere Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kazed 425 Posted February 11, 2018 Share Posted February 11, 2018 Rather than he has never cheated on any girlfriend, I'd go with he has not cheated on any girlfriend YET. It's one thing to be flirting face to face occasionally because some people are just like that, but NEVER bring your flirting to personal messages. Don't walk on the dark side, people. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abra 40,910 Posted February 11, 2018 Share Posted February 11, 2018 depends on how far they go Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suzy Quatro 1,441 Posted February 11, 2018 Share Posted February 11, 2018 Cheating might not be the right term but it is a legit reason to be pissed about as it is disrespectful to your boyfriend/girlfriend. Some people might be very insecure and thus it helps their confidence to know they're desired or some shit like that. Overall if you like to flirt I wouldn't advice committing to a serious relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
babyemma 1 Posted February 13, 2018 Share Posted February 13, 2018 all the attention that is not directed to a girl is cheating... if you are flirting with someone it means that your current one doesn't satisfy you in some points Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dovegirl 3 Posted February 13, 2018 Share Posted February 13, 2018 if someone with me, I'd give all of myself to him, all my time, all my love, everything, but in return, I require the same attitude. Relationship is not only one-side trying, it's a hard work of both. So if he is flirting with someone, that means that he doesn't value your love and doesn't care whether it will hurt you or not. For me it's same as cheating Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Oli London 1,762 Posted February 14, 2018 Share Posted February 14, 2018 I think that was a messed up thing to do, of course she cant trust him anymore. If youre in a monogamous relationship with a person than you shouldnt go around making sexual advances with other people, doesnt really matter if you dont have the intent of having sex with them. Its disrespectful to your partner. Why would you do something that you know would hurt your significant other behind their back? It just doesnt sit right with me I wouldnt go to the extreme that girl went, but id be pissed and it would take a lot to regain my trust. If i ever found out they did it again then i'd break up with them Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nissy 1,573 Posted February 15, 2018 Share Posted February 15, 2018 hell no, i dont even play around innocently with other dudes when im in a relationship with a guy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MasterOfCider 692 Posted February 16, 2018 Share Posted February 16, 2018 What you described sounds like cheating to me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tohogirl5 895 Posted February 18, 2018 Share Posted February 18, 2018 You see, I wouldnt do something that I wouldnt like it to be done to me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nowhere Boy 2,431 Posted February 23, 2018 Share Posted February 23, 2018 Casually flirting isn’t cheating but that’s just way too far Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cheap thriâ„“â„“s 2,846 Posted March 19, 2018 Share Posted March 19, 2018 why do you need to flirt with someone else if you're in a relationship? you can get things done by just being nice, you don't need to flirt to get something Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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