TrueColors 582 Posted February 7, 2018 Share Posted February 7, 2018 So this weekend this guy that I met on tinder a coming to see me at school (I live about 3 hours away). I met him on tinder when I was home winter break and I went on 3 dates with him right before I left to go back to school. My friends think that he's a f**kboy, but I really don't. He has only been a gentlemen to me, but my friends say he looks like a f**kboy. He also introduced me to his friends and when he wasn't around me friends told me about his past (he has messed without a lot of girls), but he doesn't treat me poorly. He is also all about consent. He asked to hold my hand when we watched a movie together at the cinema and he always asks me if something is okay before he touches me. It took three dates for us to have our first kiss, which was in his bathroom, because we were smoking a joint together lol. A couple of days later he apologized for our first kiss being in the bathroom and he asked for another chance cause it wasn't romantic. He also talks a lot about future plans for us to do together. I really like him and I want to sleep with him when he comes up, but I'm afraid that I might get pumped and dumped. What do you guys think? Do you think he might be serious about me? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shugwi 12,550 Posted February 7, 2018 Share Posted February 7, 2018 I thought you were into girls Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TrueColors 582 Posted February 7, 2018 Author Share Posted February 7, 2018 I thought you were into girls I'm into both lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shugwi 12,550 Posted February 7, 2018 Share Posted February 7, 2018 I'm into both lol I remember your stories with girls lol btw what happened with the girl you were flirting with? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TrueColors 582 Posted February 7, 2018 Author Share Posted February 7, 2018 I remember your stories with girls lol btw what happened with the girl you were flirting with? She didn't break up with her boyfriend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
B612 22,399 Posted February 7, 2018 Share Posted February 7, 2018 tell him u are saving yourself for marriage Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skstarlight 705 Posted February 7, 2018 Share Posted February 7, 2018 he seems nice but my friends have been on tinder with the NICEST guys (pays on dates, talks on phone 24/7 for weeks, super gentleman, etc) and then once they have sex, the guy ghosts out. its honestly crazy. you'll never know imo you just gotta decide if you want to take the chance. Tinder is really just a game of chance Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stars&Stripes 543 Posted February 7, 2018 Share Posted February 7, 2018 since you cannot wait any longer and wanna have sex with him, I guess prepare for uncertainty, his decision for dump or not will come afterwards. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JihyoStoleMyHeartAYAYAY 22,189 Posted February 7, 2018 Share Posted February 7, 2018 Idk about this. I've been dump 4 times by girls so I can't relate Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sully 4,318 Posted February 7, 2018 Share Posted February 7, 2018 He could be, but it's Tinder so higher percentage on probably not. Since you don't want to wait until you get to know him more to see if he's genuine, you're just going to have to roll that dice if you sleep with him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grape Soda 12,004 Posted February 7, 2018 Share Posted February 7, 2018 I mean pump and dumps can happen weeks or even months in. It's just chance. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cake mf 1,737 Posted February 7, 2018 Share Posted February 7, 2018 Ask him upfront. His reaction will show u. But for the most part, dudes who flatter you too much are fuckbois. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
adina kim 484 Posted February 7, 2018 Share Posted February 7, 2018 u meet him on tinder...what do u expect? say no if u want to save it for marriage ... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TrueColors 582 Posted February 7, 2018 Author Share Posted February 7, 2018 u meet him on tinder...what do u expect? say no if u want to save it for marriage ... My friend met her bf on tinder she recommended that I try it lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eodumi Jiteulsulog Joa 675 Posted February 7, 2018 Share Posted February 7, 2018 So this weekend this guy that I met on tinder i read till there, and my answer is yes what people are saying in comments is true tho, i had a friend that liked a guy and he's been flirting with her some time. I never saw him,but my friend that saw him once told me he screamed "fuckboy". Anyways, he disappeared after he had sex, so.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frenchkiss 1,888 Posted February 7, 2018 Share Posted February 7, 2018 he seems nice but my friends have been on tinder with the NICEST guys (pays on dates, talks on phone 24/7 for weeks, super gentleman, etc) and then once they have sex, the guy ghosts out. its honestly crazy. you'll never know imo you just gotta decide if you want to take the chance. Tinder is really just a game of chance If a guy ghost out after sex is your friends fault not his. A man never ghost out after sex unless your like a dead fish Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloupipoo 1,619 Posted February 8, 2018 Share Posted February 8, 2018 He gon' ghost girl, it's tinder. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TrueColors 582 Posted February 8, 2018 Author Share Posted February 8, 2018 Y'all right. I ain't gonna f**k him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Arietta 789 Posted February 8, 2018 Share Posted February 8, 2018 I mean not everyone on Tinder is looking to fuck, but I'm sure the majority of guys on there are. I met a guy online who actually admitted he only wanted to meet me so we could have sex during our second date. When I said this wasn't going to work out, he was like but I really like you now and I want to see where things go... he became super desperate wouldn't stop texting me for months Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LisaIsGod 128 Posted February 8, 2018 Share Posted February 8, 2018 Advice from my guy friends who come off really nice “I’ll talk to a girl for days and make her feel special but honestly once I fuck them I stop talking to them†be careful Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suzy Quatro 1,441 Posted February 8, 2018 Share Posted February 8, 2018 Yes, only because he's very nice doesn't mean he isn't interested in sex so don't discard that. Some guys don't act like assholes and would take things slower but the interest in getting laid is still there but ultimately it all depends on what you want. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Deea 6,754 Posted February 11, 2018 Share Posted February 11, 2018 I met my boyfriend on tinder and we have almost two years together Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
babyemma 1 Posted February 13, 2018 Share Posted February 13, 2018 lmao... I think tinder is not for getting married, what did you expected? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FactMan 2,366 Posted February 13, 2018 Share Posted February 13, 2018 I don't think it's worth taking the risk. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TrueColors 582 Posted February 13, 2018 Author Share Posted February 13, 2018 I don't think it's worth taking the risk. I already dumped him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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