ernie8 28 Posted February 4, 2018 Share Posted February 4, 2018 ok im soon to be 28 yo woman. im a bubbly, talkative and lead topic in group conversation. even i met friends in first time. my colleagues just said that i need to be more mysterious if i want to have a bf ... opinion is appriciated Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jhope is your hope 1,707 Posted February 4, 2018 Share Posted February 4, 2018 nope Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ernie8 28 Posted February 4, 2018 Author Share Posted February 4, 2018 do i need to change ? nope Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jhope is your hope 1,707 Posted February 4, 2018 Share Posted February 4, 2018 do i need to change ? hell no be you you don't need to be mysterious at all I love bubbly people youre gonna find a man that loves your bubbly ass Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sungjins 676 Posted February 4, 2018 Share Posted February 4, 2018 no lol everyone likes different things. and if you pretend to be mysterious it won't be genuine. Being bubbly is also great Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CrayCray 2,636 Posted February 4, 2018 Share Posted February 4, 2018 No. Be YOU, dawling. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Casperjeff 5,249 Posted February 4, 2018 Share Posted February 4, 2018 just be yourself <3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ernie8 28 Posted February 4, 2018 Author Share Posted February 4, 2018 thanks guys... especially you jhope is your hope... hope i can find someone who love my bubbly ass too😉😉 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Deea 6,754 Posted February 4, 2018 Share Posted February 4, 2018 Yeah but dont reveal everything on your first dates tho.. Sent from my X2_Soul_PRO using Tapatalk Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bebela 541 Posted February 4, 2018 Share Posted February 4, 2018 nop i would never change myself for a man Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alibaby 7 Posted February 5, 2018 Share Posted February 5, 2018 it's your personality, if you don't want to be mysterious, why someone should care about it? You can be communicative and funny, but keep your personal life in secret, I think it's also kind of "mystery" of a woman. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suzy Quatro 1,441 Posted February 5, 2018 Share Posted February 5, 2018 As a male I don't think it's a bad trait, in fact it makes easier for people to approach you if you're talkative and social although the dynamics might have to be different if you're in a one on one. You seem like the friendly type and there are so many variables but the way you describe yourself shouldn't be a problem. The only advice I would to anyone when having conversations would be to also learn to listen but I don't think that's your problem either, so don't worry about it I think your fine like you are. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
!~Aishak~! 1,813 Posted February 5, 2018 Share Posted February 5, 2018 noo, you need to be you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mystic 6,901 Posted February 5, 2018 Share Posted February 5, 2018 Everytime someone says women should be mysterious, I imagine a conversation like this: Guy: "where did you grow up?" Mysterious Woman: "wouldn't you like to know? " Clearly I'm not a ,mysterious woman lol. And you don't need to be either. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChungJoJo 31 Posted February 5, 2018 Share Posted February 5, 2018 As a guy i want a girl like that, bubbly, fun, and more inviting to talk to, and get to know better. SOOOOOOOO much better then the "mysterious woman". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SydneyShea 23 Posted February 5, 2018 Share Posted February 5, 2018 I think you should do you! As long as your "you" doesn't hurt anyone, I don't think you should be changing yourself or holding any genuine part of you back just to get a guy! I myself am pretty quirky (?) for lack of a better word lmao! Maybe you're more out there than I am, I wouldn't know, but I personally think that me being my authentic, genuine self is a positive thing as I like it when others are genuine and silly and don't worry so much about what other people think! So if I find that quality attractive in others, then naturally I want to keep it a part of me as well <3 But it also depends on what type of person you are trying to attract. If you're "too" mysterious, that is to say, you're masking too much of your wonderful, energetic self, then you're not showing the person you could potentially date how you really are. Obviously, the problem with that is, they aren't getting to know the "real you"! So, I say, do whatever makes you happy! Be you! And as long as you're not the type to say stuff without a filter and unintentionally offend others haha, I don't think there is any harm in not being "mysterious" - whatever that means xD Good luck! ^^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pleasure 2,956 Posted February 6, 2018 Share Posted February 6, 2018 just be yourself <3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
edelgard 4,845 Posted February 6, 2018 Share Posted February 6, 2018 no you do you boo! purposely trying to act mysterious is tryhard Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MasterOfCider 692 Posted February 6, 2018 Share Posted February 6, 2018 Nah. Cliché as it sounds be yourself and you'll find the right guy for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CERT 6 Posted February 18, 2018 Share Posted February 18, 2018 No. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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