do you have any advice on how to quickly deal with a major relationship disappointment?

[Guest]

....I very unwisely put all my eggs into one basket and it just went terribly wrong. damn, it feels like I revolved all my life around that one person. now they did something I cannot really forgive, so.... I feel such an emptiness.

no idea what I should do with those fucking feelings now.

[fistnayeon]

Quit ur job or school. Stay away from people. Stay inside all day and watch movies or play video games. Don't get friends or lovers.

[gojo]

i guess thats why people say not to trust or rely on someone

not really helpful

but the only time that will heal is time.

[Caiii]

That's what happens when you wrapp all of your happiness around one person, its going to be really hard. Do something that makes you feel good about yourself. A hobby, work out, go to the spa. You'll heal slowly, a day at time, but you'll get there

[Guest]

i guess thats why people say not to trust or rely on someone

not really helpful

but the only time that will heal is time.

 

That's what happens when you wrapp all of your happiness around one person, its going to be really hard. Do something that makes you feel good about yourself. A hobby, work out, go to the spa. You'll heal slowly, a day at time, but you'll get there

 

thanks for the support guys. 

[love]

i know this probably hurts a lot now but it will serve you well in the future (as difficult as it is to believe).  everyone learns from their mistakes and heartache heals with time.  hope you feel better soon xx best of luck

[cake mf]

This is a learning experience. Remember that.

[SydneyShea]

Take this opportunity to work on doing stuff you love or are interested in trying out. Make a list and do the things on that list. You will find that the feeling of accomplishing things on your list is very rewarding and will give you a sense of wholeness and accomplishment. You will eventually get over this experience, I promise! But don't let this stop you from growing and doing great things for yourself! <3