jhope is your hope 1,707 Posted January 25, 2018 Share Posted January 25, 2018 so my friend ( lets call her krystal ) has been dating her teacher ( lets call him Mr. F ) for almost a year now. Krystal had a crush on Mr. F since she was in grade 10, and now shes in grade 12. She began to filrt with him in grade 11, and he would flirt with her back. Krystal needed a tutor for Physics so she asked Mr. F if he could help her. Krystal would go over to his house every weekend for help, and thats when they started to get closer and express their love for each other. Mr. F is quite young, and dont get me wrong, hes pretty hot. I honeslty dont like fact that theyre dating, i find it to way to risky. but you can tell that they really love each other i kniw . i know i shouldve ratted them out, but krystsal is one of my best friends, and Mr.Fs career is just started. idek, i just wanted to rant because i cant tell anyone else.. what do you guys think about teacher student relarionships edit : she started the flirting, it took him like 5 months to start flirting with her EDIT X 2 : im going to send my principal an anonomyus not about the relationship. i’m jut really worried about krystal.. but thank you everyone who has replied Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Deâ„“phina 14,904 Posted January 25, 2018 Share Posted January 25, 2018 In HS? Statutory rape. Report that shit. Mr F isn't cool, he's a predator, and as for his career, well 1) ain't your business, 2) someone who can't wait till the girl/boy is out of high school to dip their cookie is a piss-poor role model and doesn't show the maturity for a teaching job. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grape Soda 12,004 Posted January 25, 2018 Share Posted January 25, 2018 In university that's fine but in high school they are fucking dumb cuz she could be expelled and he could be fired. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SJJD 1,975 Posted January 25, 2018 Share Posted January 25, 2018 eek Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EXOKingJongdae 573 Posted January 25, 2018 Share Posted January 25, 2018 OP is this you? keke I'm kidding. I'm not going to judge but please tell your friend that their future careers are at risk if they get caught, the safest bet I think is for them to break up until after she graduates/comes of age (when she becomes legal). And if they really love each other, they can WAIT. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shino 6,921 Posted January 25, 2018 Share Posted January 25, 2018 lets get to the meat and potatoes......are they fucking? Anyway Op she's a senior right?.....I would just let them be tbh....she got 4 months left once she goes to college theres gonna be a whole sea of dicks (or pussy cause its college) for her to explore Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Acer 396 Posted January 25, 2018 Share Posted January 25, 2018 eek Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pace 1,459 Posted January 25, 2018 Share Posted January 25, 2018 Please report that teacher. That is against his job and duty as a teacher, and he is taking advantage of a minor. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jhope is your hope 1,707 Posted January 25, 2018 Author Share Posted January 25, 2018 In HS? Statutory rape. that’s why i want to tell someone, but krystal is one of my best friend Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Acer 396 Posted January 25, 2018 Share Posted January 25, 2018 Teach can't be dating student, they should be fired.. There are rules right.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jhope is your hope 1,707 Posted January 25, 2018 Author Share Posted January 25, 2018 lets get to the meat and potatoes......are they fucking? idk, she won’t tell me, but i’m oretty sure they’ve done more than kiss Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jstarfully 798 Posted January 25, 2018 Share Posted January 25, 2018 That's a serious crime you just described. Anyway I had a 'some' relationship with a teacher who was only a student teacher when he taught me. The next year he became a real teacher but he no longer taught my classes. We used to have piano and music dates where he taught me better piano and I sang while he played. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
typo. 2,276 Posted January 25, 2018 Share Posted January 25, 2018 are you talking about high school? that's disgusting. I don't give a shit how young the teacher is, be professional. they are there to teach not fuck students. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
A Song For Ayumi 42 Posted January 25, 2018 Share Posted January 25, 2018 that’s why i want to tell someone, but krystal is one of my best friend Will she know it was you who reported them??? I think he's taking advantage of her. Teenage years are when a girl is most vulnerable. It's very inappropriate of him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doki-doki 21,660 Posted January 25, 2018 Share Posted January 25, 2018 In HS? Statutory rape. Report that shit. Mr F isn't cool, he's a predator, and as for his career, well 1) ain't your business, 2) someone who can't wait till the girl/boy is out of high school to dip their cookie is a piss-poor role model and doesn't show the maturity for a teaching job. All of this ^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
redheart 7,440 Posted January 25, 2018 Share Posted January 25, 2018 what's grade 12 again? is it middle school or highschool? anyway I don't care as long as both parties are consenting adults, and they manage to keep on the down low and it doesn't get on the way of anyone's future, however if the student is way too young like under 18 I'm against it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MILJYU 1,529 Posted January 25, 2018 Share Posted January 25, 2018 he's taking advantage of her, there is no way their power dynamics could be anywhere near equal. even disregarding the fact that she's in high school, he's still an authorative figure over her and 9/10 chances are he is going to use this power imbalance against her when he feels like it. talk some sense into your friend, if she doesn't listen, tell a school counselor or something. student/teacher relationships often leave obvious trails so they can deal with the situation without it being directly linked to you. but this is not something that has chances of ending well for your friend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
A Song For Ayumi 42 Posted January 25, 2018 Share Posted January 25, 2018 are you talking about high school? that's disgusting. I don't give a shit how young the teacher is, be professional. they are there to teach not fuck students. Mte. A teacher is one of the most important jobs, as it provides the road for later success of future generations. Doing shit like this is honestly trampling all over the profession. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Deℓphina 14,904 Posted January 25, 2018 Share Posted January 25, 2018 that’s why i want to tell someone, but krystal is one of my best friend Let her parents know discreetly if they are cool people who won't punish her to Hell and back for it. You're not doing your BFF a favour, you're letting her be (sexually) abused. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
onieyez 425 Posted January 25, 2018 Share Posted January 25, 2018 i bet there's a biology teacher who is Mr.D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jhope is your hope 1,707 Posted January 25, 2018 Author Share Posted January 25, 2018 are you talking about high school? that's disgusting. I don't give a shit how young the teacher is, be professional. they are there to teach not fuck students. Teach can't be dating student, they should be fired.. There are rules right.. Please report that teacher. That is against his job and duty as a teacher, and he is taking advantage of a minor. like i’ve written anonymous letters, but i’ve always chicken out and never sent them because i’m scared for krystal, i could care less for Mr. F Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Königin 386 Posted January 25, 2018 Share Posted January 25, 2018 if she is in the 12th grade that means she is turning 18 soon. I would tell her to wait until she graduates. She could seriously hurt herself and him. I believe 17 years olds are smart enough to make their decisions own and she's not 10. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
typo. 2,276 Posted January 25, 2018 Share Posted January 25, 2018 idk, she won’t tell me, but i’m oretty sure they’ve done more than kiss I am sure they're doing more than a kiss... the fact that a 'teacher' would date a teenager blow the whistle. your friend is dumb. the teacher is a predator. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jhope is your hope 1,707 Posted January 25, 2018 Author Share Posted January 25, 2018 Let her parents know discreetly if they are cool people who won't punish her to Hell and back for it. You're not doing your BFF a favour, you're letting her be (sexually) abused. i’m pretty sure her parents would kill her Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jhope is your hope 1,707 Posted January 25, 2018 Author Share Posted January 25, 2018 if she is in the 12th grade that means she is turning 18 soon. I would tell her to wait until she graduates. She could seriously hurt herself and him. I believe 17 years olds are smart enough to make their decisions and she's not 10. ya she’s turning 18, that’s why i feel like it’s too late to tell Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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