Which male idols do you think are gay?

[Kpop_fan178]

3 hours ago, solario said:

jiwoong: queer

shanbin: gay

hao: gay

taerae: possibly gay as well, we need to see more

ricky: ??? no idea tbh 

gyuvin: bisexual or straight. his predebut pictures with a girlfriend were leaked so we know he likes women. the bisexual is purely based on how much he likes doing skinship and because he can't sit in a chair the way he's supposed to lmao 

gunwook: straight, at the moment. 

yujin: he's 16. i know some people would say that at this age you already know, but at 16 i was still struggling to accept myself. let's see in the future. 

I agree with this take and it seems like all of us here do too.

The slay line is definitely SHanbin, ZHao, Jiwoong and Tarae.

At 16 I was super repressed with my sexuality and even now i question it. I feel like with some people sexuality wavers during their lifetime. Not for everybody obviously.

1 hour ago, Shaandenigma said:

Or that women don't go to gay clubs and dance with men. I've been out to plenty of gay and straight clubs and danced with women at both and it meant nothing. I know alot of these people freaking out aren't even old enough to get into a club or drink, but the ones who can need to get out more, lol.

Exactly. I have a bunch of gay friends, very stereotipically gay(jo kwon, key style) and when they go clubbing they dance with girls so provocative, touching their hips, grinding, other girls squzing their butts LoL, kissing and etc.

But I don't even think that that video is real since I haven't seen it.

[Kpop_fan178]

This just makes me wonder how many friendships did mnet hide in Boy's Planet?

It's about Jay and Seowon.

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZGJmw53NR/

Somebody told me how to embed a tiktok but i forgot.

 

[Kpop_fan178]

I want to word this so that it won't start another war on this thread, but what impressions did taehyung dating jennie leave you? I am curios since we all believed him to be gay. Did this make you change some of your assumptions about other idols or people in general?

I am also curios about what do you think about sexuality and how do you guys perceive it. Recently a friend of mine who was out as gay since i knew him came out again as bisexual and although i am happy and glad he got to understand himself more, i am also very surprised since he told me he never had any interest in the op sex before. Do you guys think sexuality is fluid? And what was you experience with sexual fluidity in your lifetime since now? For me i always knew i am attracted to both sexes, although much more to the same sex, like 80% let's say and it always stayed that way since puberty to now.  

[Kpop_fan178]

1 hour ago, Sm4-ever said:

Jennie and Taehyung is hardly a pr stunt. Bts and Blackpink are the only  S-tier.  I do think that they knew that they would be observed and possibly filmed etc but didn’t really care. Bts and Blackpink are beyond Kpop in alot of ways. I feel like they can afford to act like western celebrities unlike most k-pop groups. I personally thought Taehyung was straight  all the time.  It´s unfair to call him pretentious because he likes stuff that are retro but he sorta gives off Timothee Chalamet vibes with his interest. Taehyung likes retro stuff and Hong Kong was the coolest place in Asia in the 90´s so him being a fan of one of the biggest HK actors Leslie Cheung is not really an  indication of his sexuality. I am not dying on a hill with this one but  Taehyung is basically the only Bts members i never wondered about his sexuality for a moment. Meaning he´s never pinged for me. 

Now i'm curios what's your opinion on the other bts members or male idols in general except super obvious ones like Jo Kwon, Key, Ten, etc.

For BTS, the only one i strongly believe to be queer is JHope, because i see a lot of similarities of myself in him(interests, passions, super camp friend group, the scene which he comes from, lack of chemistry with women etc.). People don't really talk about him cause he is not one of the popular members.

It's also funny how Jennie dated all guys we though were queer: GD(still think he is bi though), Kai, V.

[Kpop_fan178]

Bambam is straigh af. Just the way he interacts with everyone and even in that scandalous interview with Pouja where he described that little girl as his type. Like he always talks about his ideal type in women, confessed to having had a crush on nayeon, had that predebut "dating" scandal with Mina, never showed any interest or support to lgbt related stuff etc. I feel like people confuse his femininity with his sexuality.

 

In the 97 line I could see Jaehyun and Yugeom as potentially queer. If i am feeling a little delulu even Mingyu.

Edited May 24 by Kpop_fan178

[Kpop_fan178]

Anyone following C-entertainment? Recently i started getting into it.

I only know about Aaron Yan who was outed by his ex boyfriend for cheating on him.

And there was another guy that i forgot his name, older, who got exposed by his wife for cheating on her not just with women but also a guy.

And for the 3rd gen fans, there's also Tao, but nothing conclusive.

What other tea do you guys have? Or celebrities you suspect.

[Kpop_fan178]

2 hours ago, yxue said:

I have tea on 2 (maybe 3) Chinese celebrities but I need a bit of time to think about what to share/how to word it. C-ent fans can be very aggressive and I think some of them used to hang out here...

Don't think too much on how to word it so that it will not take away from the juiciness. This is all speculation, i hope they are sane enough to not come for you. Anyway, I am waiting for the tea on all 3.

1 hour ago, Ichebi said:

Not wishing to start any wars of course but Wang Yibo and Gong Jun always pinged me

 

Wang Yibo gives me bisexual vibes, but not i don't have any receipt. Just vibes. Idk who Gong Jun is.

1 hour ago, sergel said:

I forgot the whole story about Aaron Yan drama, I thought he didn’t cheat and it was more a jilted ex? I do know he was outed either way though.

Honestly, idk. He might have cheated and just not admit that part. I don't have an opinnion on their relationship. What is certain is that he likes men.

[Kpop_fan178]

On 6/2/2023 at 9:00 PM, yxue said:

I have tea on 2 (maybe 3) Chinese celebrities but I need a bit of time to think about what to share/how to word it. C-ent fans can be very aggressive and I think some of them used to hang out here...

Girl, are you still alive? It's been days...

[Kpop_fan178]

Any tea on WEI or Golden Child?

[Kpop_fan178]

About the actor talk, Y'all should look at Woo Do Hwan's I live alone episode and tell me you don't get vibes. His relationship with Lee Sangyi is just like a couple's. Like he seems genuinely in love with him lol.

When i see these older men with no record of public hetero dating in close relationships with handome guys i think it's kinda natural to suspect them. Although i still think that a lot of queer people not just bi, but also gay in south korea still chose the straight lifestyle. Like they will get married and have kids regardless of orientation.

Some mm actor couples i believe to have been true at some point in time:

Woo Do Hwan and Lee Sangyi

Hoshi and Lee So Hyuk

GD and Lee So Hyuk

Sehun and the chef

DO and an actor whose name i forgot

Got7 Jinyoung and his older costar

Kyuhun and the penthouse actor

Gong Yoo and kang do won

the disgraced actor Jisoo and Nam Joo-Hyuk

Bogum and Song JoongKi

Sehun and Ahn Bo Hyun(not sure about this one)

Suho and his actor boyfriend(They have been going on for years now)

Seo In Guk and Hoya

etc. I am sure there are more

[Kpop_fan178]

28 minutes ago, AstroBaby said:

anyone have more info on these?

DO was spotted hanging around and going in trips with an older co star and his male actor friends. At that time the guy was already in his 40s and publicly single. There were some pics with them from a few years ago.

Gong Yoo and Kang Do Won used to have gay rumores in Korea and were very close. Apparently they are somehow distantly related by allience. The thing is they developed that close relationship which sparked the rumors before they found out they were "related". Not the best article but the rumor was from a long time ago:https://www.koreaboo.com/stories/gay-family-tree-history-gong-yoo-kang-dong-won-friendship/

And got7 Jinyoung and his costar: They just flirted a lot bts. Korean fans were invested in their "bromance". I am not 100% sure that they dated, i think it was more of a mutual atraction. idk.

[Kpop_fan178]

10 hours ago, LostChild said:

Why ? They seemed like regular friends signed with the same agency. Song Joongki gives me straight vibes tbh.

Sorry, but it's to much work to explain why XD. Just very on the surface: Close friends dont cry at each others weddings like it's a funeral or when one of them wins an anward. They weren't even close for that long to justify it. And since then they closed all levels of communications publicly. Search the thread for more.

 

6 hours ago, oh my dora said:

 

Ok?....
Oh, i See. So bisexuals don't exist and all gay people in korea live truthfully.

I don't know if this is what u tried to imply, but i have seen a lot of people acting like that.

Edited June 14 by Kpop_fan178

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Speaking of Boys Planet, Chen Ryu(idk how well i spelled it) had a concert in Seoul and Seunghwan went to see him. And he (Chen Ryu) also said in an interview that he loves Seunghwan or smth like this. Somebody should post this here.  I lost the source. It was on Twitter recently.(or tiktok)

[Kpop_fan178]

3 hours ago, time_less said:

i guess good for him shooting his shot or.. being friendly or whatever he was trying to do but damn did this clip give me so much secondhand embarrassment

No, because these days he always looks like he is on drugs. I'm sorry, but i feel like there is definitely something going on with him. From the outburts in a western concert about the propaganda the western media does in the detriment of mainland China, to the dramatically loss of weight and tons of new cosmetic procedures , to the "accusation" by that rapper that he raped a girl, to inviting those female fans to his house and acting with them the same he acts with this girl, who is verry pretty btw but girl run.

Even though i think he is bi he will for sure marry a woman and only date women publicly since he is the biggest Cpp suporter(and a piece of trash when it comes to human rights) and has openly talked about wanting a family.

I am sure that he is going though a hard time, but  he is still trash by a multitude of reasons and i wish people would talk less about this person. Like stop giving him exposure.  If u(generally speaking) support somone like this after the whole Ughyur situation, you are a shit show too. 

Edited June 21 by Kpop_fan178

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1 hour ago, Dont mind me said:

He is an equal opportunist, that is all that I can say on Jackson 

Yeah, I agree. This is the exact vibe i get too, kinda fboyish.

Edited June 21 by Kpop_fan178

[Kpop_fan178]

BTW, there is this gay dating variety show from Philipines. It's so fun and the guys are so cute together.Also the host is a trans woman. It's in english and the episodes are on you tube.

 

[Kpop_fan178]

BTW, there is this gay dating variety show from Philipines. It's so fun and the guys are so cute together.Also the host is a trans woman. It's in english and the episodes are on you tube.

 

[Kpop_fan178]

He is saying that there are a lot of gay celebrities in Kpop.

Also, there is a foreign stylist in the comments who felt the need to say that there are a lot of queer(not necessarily gay) celebrities he worked with in Korea. Meaning that the majority of the queers are probably people who date both sexes, so let's stop with the "one use bisexual card bullshit". People are too complex for that.

Edited June 27 by Kpop_fan178

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1 hour ago, Leonard07741959 said:

I have a theory that all the boys from exo's playboy song are either bi/pan/gay 

 

I mean... This is the gayest song in kpop history 

I think so too, but not because of the song.

My updated opinnion on exo:

Gay: Suho, Sehun, DO

Bi/Gay: Xiumin

Bi: Chanyeol(yes ik about that incident but still he did a lot of questionable stuff in the past)

Hetero: Chen, Kai, Baekhyun

About Kai, other than his mannerism i don't see anything. I saw a video of him "twerking" and that was the straighest twerk i have ever encountered in my life.

For Baekhyun I don't really see why he might be into men. I just view him more delicate i guess compared to others.

[Kpop_fan178]

6 hours ago, rotis said:

Mark: As straight as a ruler

Haechan: Master queerbater (straight, but could be bi)

Chenle: Straight

Renjun: ???

Jisung: Straight

Jaemin: Straight or Bi

Jeno: ???

The LGBT's are mainly in 127 imo

The nct members i am confident to be queer(so either bi or gay):

Nct Dream:

- Renjun

- Jeno

127:

- Johnny

- Jaehyun

- Doyoung

- Taeyong

- Yuta

- Jungwoo

WayV:

- Ten

- Xiaojun

- Winwin

[Kpop_fan178]

I don't think when an idol we generally percieve as gay is "exposed" to be dating a female it automatically means he is straight and we were wrong, he could be bi or again just gay. I lived my whole life in a crazy homophobic environment and as a bi person it was very hard(and still is). I have gay friends who once they started entering their twenties their families kept asking them about their so and started putting pressure on them to date, etc. One of them told me how his mom started aranging blind dates for him and every time they would meet she would ask if he has a girlfriend yet and when he is going to get one, even though he had other achievements or life updates to be congratulated about(She is very openly homophobic so coming out is not an option). Idk, i'm curious if someone else has been in this position how was your experience and what did you do?

[Kpop_fan178]

1 hour ago, sergel said:

I think this is certainly the case for many queer people around the world sadly, especially in countries without legal protections or marriage. 

I personally still haven't said anything to my parents, and likely won't until I'm certain I find someone I want to be with for a while. It does kind of suck though. Being closeted also makes it harder to event date or meet others, even with online dating. I know it's somewhat common for closeted people to avoid online dating even, for being worried about being found out.

Spoiler

I know how it feels like, my family is also homophobic and even though they might have an idea about me they refuse to acknowledge it and i am not going to directly come out especially since it's very hard to find a serious relationship these days. It just sucks that i am not able to discuss my private life with them, since they wouldn't understand. I definitely need to move out and this is my adviece to other queer people, if they have the means to do it. Also i'm 22 and my mom already thinks about grandkids, like wtf, I feel like i havent even started living life.

2 hours ago, sergel said:

Though, logically, if your parents are on Grindr there may be other issues afloat lol.

I'm crying :))). This is a horror scenario.

Btw, the kdrama seems well acted and the represantation is much better than what you get these days(Vicenzo, that one kdrama where the guys confess and then imedately die in a car crash LMAO), i might give it a try.

[Kpop_fan178]

4 hours ago, AstroBaby said:

Even the woman Vernon is/was rumored to be dating (Rakta) is bi which is interesting as bi people who are straight relationships are often in them with other bi people.

This is 100% true about bi people and come one now, that music taste? There is no way a straight guy listens mostly to a whole bunch of not super mainstream in my opinion gay icons.

About Eunwoo I also thinks he is straight, I just think he is not homophobic which when you really want someone to be gay might seem like a lot of evidence lol.

Any recent tea about actors?

Edited September 24 by Kpop_fan178

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14 hours ago, sooa_t said:

what are your opinions? let's see if ours match

I already talked about actors here before

I stopped consuming korean media for like a year so i don't have anything to add to the topic. What are your most recent standouts?

Also did anyone watch Street Man Fighter? I am curious about your opinnions on the dancers. Obv Eoddae are gay, but a lot of the guys seemed very close with them, even hyper masculine ones like Trix. I feel like the dancer world is definitely more open minded. Other than them, 1million Choi Youngjun, Yumeki and YGX Mood Dok who choreographed this dance: 

Even Vata gave me some vibes, but idk. It's hard to tell based on the limited content.

Prime Kings are actually very close to EODDAE. Ted and Trix are really close and there was a video where 2 eoddae members were teaching pk members to do their makeup and they were using glitter and stuff like that.

 

Edited September 25 by Kpop_fan178

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Damn Baekho... literally the hottest man in kpop... i can't....