Which male idols do you think are gay?

[frozentear]

Bullying or not, the fact that he said because the person is gay they won't succeed in life...that's pretty homophobic in itself. Idk if he is like this now or have that same mindset about gay people but yeah.

Edited October 12, 2019 by frozentear

[frozentear]

2 hours ago, Melany said:

That what i think too, why doing PR for baekhyun, kai when people like Jo kwon, key exist. who are a lot more flamboyants. Korean doesn't care who is gay in idols group exept if they coming out ofc. it would be a big scandal but even less big than the burning sun. 

About chanyeol, i have noticed it too, i wonder if he is kind of involved in the scandal also, his japanese "bf" is friend with them too. 

You bring up a good point...how come the idols who actually have a lot of gay rumors (and are pretty obvious) never really get in a dating scandal? Even ones from big agencies.

[frozentear]

On 11/5/2019 at 11:46 AM, jjongjjong said:

if anything, it's rather suspicious that he's had two dating scandals with two popular female idols from the big3. i'm sure he's not the only exo member who's dating, so why have they "caught" him twice? it is suspicious. i'm not saying it was necessarily PR to cover up his sexuality, maybe the companies had to cover up other kinds of scandals

I find his relationship with Taemin sus too, keep in mind that Taemin was sent to We got Married  (that show exists solely to push a het image on idols). BTW i do think both of them like women, but they could be bi.

LMAO trust me, there's been PR for Key. Key had to take part in We Got Married as well, the only purpose of that was forcing a het image on him. 

With dispatch on his hide for years, not surprising he got caught 3 times by them. Personally, I don't think the relationship themselves are sus. Plus for Jennie and Kai...YG and SM weren't exactly on the same page for some things. For the other members, I think the ones that are dating are either dating non-celebs (Chen's case) or have boyfriends (like possibly in Sehun and Suho's case...maybe Chanyeol too though I'm on the fence about him?) or dating nugus.

Edited November 6, 2019 by frozentear

[frozentear]

56 minutes ago, YooJeong said:

Momo and Heechul are in a special situation, though. K-ELFs have a different attitude towards Heechul than a lot of the members, and Momo is popular but more in the middle popularity of Twice. Plus, the public reacted very well to their news and even to their dating rumors, so in this case, I don't think they will lose any money or popularity at all. I think if this WAS. a "beard" couple, it would be one of the most tactical and strategic, beneficial ones.

That being said, I do believe they might be dating, but not for long - this screams new relationship. I don't know what this means for Heechul but I still do believe he likes men and women. I don't think he prefers women, I think he just likes who he likes.

This is what I always thought of Heechul. I think gender isn't something he really cares about.

Edited January 2, 2020 by frozentear

[frozentear]

 

3 hours ago, taeyong's panicked scream said:

i agree with you,

even though i can't dismiss the fact that he's been selectively doing fanservice even before the dating news, it does seems like lately he exaggerates fanservice - homoerotic or not - for the sake of promotion. at this rate everything has been exposed so i don't get why SM or kai himself would be trying any harder to hide anything by queerbaiting. just pay dispatch not to reveal stuff as you always do lol.

back in the day, kaisoo was a thing among korean fangirls and was hated by kyungsoo's fanboys SO MUCH, yet jongin never crossed the line with kyungsoo in any kind of way even with SM pushing them and hunhan to the frontline to attract fans. their relationship on their part never came across as anything other than friendship because, skinship and sexually ambiguous comments were never a thing between them as they were not there for SM's shit.

i have no clue why he would be resorting to stuff like that now that he's one of the top artists of the industry, but my optimistic guess is that he's actually doing these things for fun and just naturally letting it come out with no ulterior motives.

Wait, what happened? 

 

[frozentear]

16 minutes ago, Gerimolda said:

Is that user trying to imply that queerbaiting and pretending to be gay is something that can be done with the purpose of trying to hide multiple relationships with women/ being a womanizer?

Omg there's people out there who believe that this is something that actually happens. Truly amazing.

Well it does happen quite frequently in the Asian idol world. Fangirls eat it up (and girlfriends ruin the idol fantasy and everything that comes with it).

I'm just trying to figure out is there something happened that I'm not aware of...

Edited March 14, 2020 by frozentear

[frozentear]

16 minutes ago, Gerimolda said:

Really? Can you give an example? I'm curious.

Many idols queer bait and play up shipping all of the time, while doing the whole "I don't have a gf" thing. Though many either do have someone or are sleeping around.

Edited March 14, 2020 by frozentear

[frozentear]

14 hours ago, Hikari005 said:

does the search function within this thread work again?

any updates on chanyeol and his alleged japanese bf?

His "alleged boyfriend" got caught on a date with some chick and got some blacklash for it (because of the Covid-19 situation). It was a bit dumb to do.

https://onehallyu.com/topic/815179-mackenyu-in-scandal-for-vacationing-and-dating-in-okinawa-in-coronatime/

Edited June 5, 2020 by frozentear

[frozentear]

8 hours ago, Talmort said:

This video 

Sehun knows what he's doing. From the same sex emojis he used on instagram to the gay pride filter. 

I don't see how anyone thinks he's straight...like even his own members are giving hints about him. They have several times.

Edited June 16, 2020 by frozentear

[frozentear]

Just now, nctnctnctnctnctnct said:

same sex icons?

Yep. A few times he used couple emojis that were of the two guys. Kind of like this 

[frozentear]

17 hours ago, RMPA said:

On instagram? posts?

Yeah, I recall him using them a few times, like on his posts with Tao (I think those are deleted tho).

[frozentear]

On 10/28/2020 at 5:30 PM, Kpop_fan178 said:

OMG, another guy i taught was gay got involved in a dating scandal which apparently involved 11 women? LOL.

Heechul, Ryeowook and now PCY. Even though i wasn't so sure about him as much as i was of Ryeowook. I-...am so confused. Any thoughs?

  Reveal hidden contents

Seriously expecting to see Key in a dating scandal.

EDIT: His alleged ex girlfriend just outed Sehun.

I am cryinggg. This is such a mess.

I never thought Chanyeol was gay...never thought he was dating Mackenyu either. I personally think he's straight (not saying bi is not a possibility but it's what I think). The only EXO member who I'm convinced is LGBT is Sehun (Suho is sus tho), because of himself and what his members say about him.

I always thought Heechul was bi/pan so I'm not surprised if he ends up with a female or male. Ryeowook is a bit surprising because I thought he was ace and just wasn't interested in relationships period.

[frozentear]

2 hours ago, MiyaV said:

Here is Gackt's response to brighten your day: 

 

Love to see it! Also, isn't Gackt biromantic?

[frozentear]

4 hours ago, Otterly said:

Chanyeol being in favor of revealing the identities of Nth room scandal does not prove a moral character. He is an idol that relies on having a good image. Idols always try to look good for their fans and the general public. He always had plenty of red flags. The biggest red flag to me was him being friends with an accused rapist, Cha Joo Hyuk. His other close friends include Lee Jonghyun and Zico. I have even heard he was friends with JJY as well. I think it's not worth it discussing if he might be bi. Are we going to find any statisfaction in finding out he cheated on his girlfriend with a guy as well? I'd still be grossed out by him.

Also Korean is a gender neutral language. Even most Western pop songs are gender neutral. 

This. And even if his rumors were "debunked" (not really) then who he hangs out with alone is side eye worthy.

[frozentear]

On 9/26/2021 at 9:18 AM, Your local dumbass said:

Is there an idol that is generally tought to be lgbt by fans that you personally think is NOT lgbt? Kinda like an an unpopular opinion thing. 

Baekhyun: I used to think he could be bi, but in the last few years I think he's straight and just flirty

Kai: Not really an unpopular opinion. So far, in all the years of being an EXO-L nothing has convinced me that he's on the spectrum.

Heechul: Might possibly still be bi/pan, but the more I find out about him the more he seems like a straight guy with an...acquired taste. 

TOP: Not unpopular anymore, but a few years ago people were "so sure" that he was gay lol. I never thought he was gay or bi.

All of BTS except V: Scrolling through all of the BTS stuff, the only one who I find to be very sus is V. Well, maaaaybe Suga too. Maybe.

Taemin: More than unpopular it seems more like people are just split about him. I personally don't think he's gay/bi.  I also think he's at a point where he now is comfortable with his himself and his almost androgynous looks and embraces it. About him being private and not showing attraction, there's quite a bit of Asian celebs that do this and then the next thing you know they're getting married and/or having kids with someone or that they're a player or something like that. 

 

Bring on the clowns and skulls I guess.

 

[frozentear]

Man, some BTS fans have no chill in this thread. They clown/skull people when someone think a member is straight and they clown/skull when someone thinks a member is lgbt. Like you literally can't win, no matter what your opinion is of them. 

Edited September 28, 2021 by frozentear

[frozentear]

4 hours ago, bb8__ said:

I looked back out of curiosity, and i don't think anyone really suspected him as LGBT...

Actually there were quite a few people who thought he was on the spectrum or at least sus back in the day. Not as much as say Wooyoung, but yeah...

 

[frozentear]

On 1/9/2022 at 11:27 AM, solario said:

I've been an EXO-L for almost 7 years now and the funny thing is none of EXO members really ping me, probably because their persona is very well crafted. Based on things that EXO members said, and his relationship with some men he's definitely not straight but I don't think he's gay either, probably bisexual. I remember at least 2 rumors over the years about him having a girlfriend, and they seemed legit 

Been an EXO-L since 2013, and it's the same for me. Most of the EXO members don't ping me overall. It's really only been Sehun who does consistently due to himself and the fact that EXO members single him out for gay jokes. And I'm not talking about the Chen and Baekhyun incidents, but Kai and Chanyeol did so too. I used to think Baek was bi too, but not so much anymore.

 

1 hour ago, Kpop_fan178 said:

But no one who posts here thinks his opinion is 10000% a fact. We all just speculate. Let us speculate without reminding us all the time. Some people here need to remind themself that this thread is pure speculation about who we think is GAY not who we think likes women and it's supposed to feel entertaining. It's no police investigation. For example i have never ever ever since i followed sehun seen that men attracted to women. Now people are here declaring how Sehun might actually like women too but with no receipt whatsoever just because he reminds them of Heechul. Wtf?

Sorry, but this is simply not true. I usually lurk here every now and then and have seen quite a few people treat their opinion as fact. That's why people always have to remind some people in this thread that at the end of the day we don't know these people. 

Edited January 10, 2022 by frozentear

[frozentear]

2 hours ago, Mist said:

 

@frozentearDo you have the source for Chanyeol and Kai? Because I only knew about Chen and Baekhyun.

I'm honestly too lazy to look them up, but Chanyeol did in an interview a long time ago and Kai's was when they were on an older show or something.

[frozentear]

44 minutes ago, lgbtxt said:

specifying that he'd be into trans women as if they're separate from the category of "women" is so transphobic pleaseee

Let's be real, most men who are into trans women are gay/bi/pan. The majority of the time it turns out this way. Because trans women aren't cis women/biological women...(and I don't mean this in a bad or rude way)

 

Edit: Skull and clown me all you want, but the proof is in the pudding. 

Edited February 22, 2022 by frozentear

[frozentear]

4 hours ago, lgbtxt said:

Think for a second about why it may be that fellow queer minorities could be more open to dating trans women than straight men. Then think about how incredibly rude it is in fact to say that gay men would be attracted to any woman just because that woman is trans. Then think about how shitty it feels to be treated like a third gender for someone who only wants to be seen as the woman they are. This is an issue of transphobia, not sexuality.

Trans women are women. Being into women includes trans women by default. Doesn't mean everyone will be attracted to every trans woman, or any at all, but trans women fall under the same woman umbrella as cis women. Same as thin women, short women, tall women, redheads, etc. Transness is a trait alike any other and everyone has their own preferences and/or biases. Attraction to trans women has no bearing on one's sexuality and you can not and should not assume that someone is automatically more likely to be queer because of it. 

And btw, with all the love in the world, do not say "biological women". Cis is correct, you got it the first time. 

Ok genuine question, if a man identifies as gay and they date trans women, would that mean that they aren't gay? Also another thing, why is it that when gay men are dating women, a lot of the time it's trans women? (and I'm not talking about guys who use cis women as cover ups). I'm genuinely curious.

Edit: Also Idk why so many people got clowned, like this thread needs to chill.

Edited February 23, 2022 by frozentear

[frozentear]

6 hours ago, dododododododo said:

Once again in the name of transparency one of those skulls is mine
 

Very curious how you could possibly not mean this in a bad or rude way though
 

Didn't see this earlier, but eh, good for you I guess?

To answer your question, what I mean is that since they aren't cis gendered women (again I don't mean anything bad by this) it's more likely that the males dating them are somewhere on the spectrum because that's what it mostly turns out to be.

Like if say, a popular male idol came out dating a trans woman, people definitely would use it as a "receipt". Instead of being like "oh, another straight dude, next".

Also looking back at my first post, I can see now that my wording isn't the best. It's just how I speak (esp in a rush). Hopefully this is more clear.

3 hours ago, lgbtxt said:

Yeah, they wouldn't be gay. That's kinda the point i'm making. Gay men date men, and trans women are ... women. Duh. And i literally have no idea what you're talking about with gay men dating trans women, i've never ever heard of that happening outside of beard relationships tbh. Maybe older school gays but i've never seen it 

Ok, thanks for your input and @themistootoo. I personally see trans women as women, but I've seen gay men who date trans women and consider themselves gay. And a number of them are not older either...but who knows, maybe they're just figuring themselves out. And honestly the whole thing surrounding trans people and sexuality was a bit confusing, because everyone has their pov on what is what and who is what, etc. even some trans people have polarizing views on it.

I try to take LGBTQ+ people's views into account and there's lots of different views.

Edited February 23, 2022 by frozentear

[frozentear]

I'm just going to say, the reason why some people don't think Heechul is gay is not just based on the Momo/Heechul dating alone. Around the time it was announced, Suju and ex-Suju fans pulled out some receipts on Heechul that honestly is kind of hard to ignore, even if you wanted him to be gay. I think he's definitely attracted to the opposite sex. Not saying he can't be bi or pan, but yeah.

[frozentear]

16 hours ago, Morgan said:

honestly I don't think anyone in EXO is gay other than Sehun. they're all super straight imo. maybe Baekhyun is bisexual. MAYBE. like a big maybe.

I think Sehun is the only gay member too (please don't come for me Regina). The members who I don't have a concrete opinion on are Suho and Xiumin. I don't think they are gay though. The rest are straight imo.

My opinion is susceptible to change of course.

Edited May 16, 2022 by frozentear

[frozentear]

20 minutes ago, Taecoholic said:

Jennie really has a type. Kai (rumored to be gay/bi for ages), GD (rumored to be gay/bi for ages) and now V (rumored to be gay/bi for ages) lol

Kai has never had gay/bi rumors, especially in Korea lol

Anyway, I don't think that pic is edited, but it's hard to tell for me if it's actually Jennie and V. We'll see.

Edited May 23, 2022 by frozentear