Which male idols do you think are gay?

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6 hours ago, pinkmatter said:

lucas is back at it again with his big ass hands

 

 

It looks like Mark was anxious about something that Lucas was doing that to calm him down or show him comfort. 

As Haechan and Johnny once said, Mark pretends he doesn't like skinship in front of cameras but actually craves it and is the once to usually initiate it behind the scenes. Lucas probably knows it's a way to comfort him. 

How did someone get this video. Did they happen to also be in the airport at the same time or are they stalking them?

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1 hour ago, Chika Chika said:

 This made my heart hurt. He's trying so much and being so nice. He really seemed to like Joohyuk. It does look like Joohyuk is a tsundre. Jisoo got close to Hyungshik while filming "Strong Woman Do Bong Soon". I watched that K-drama. 

That drama has the gay character tag on my drama list. Is that accurate?

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2 hours ago, Gerimolda said:

Okay I saw yesterday on Twitter a video of Ten with a limp wrist and Lucas laughing at it. Today all the videos of that moment have been unavailable for several hours and I was already thinking that the video had been taken down for causing controversy. And I was regretting not having downloaded it like we always have to do with this kind of stuff. So the thing is that people have been calling Lucas a homophobe for laughing at Ten's mannerism. Some say that when he impersonated Jungwoo once he mimed a limp wrist too.

 

 

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So what do you think?

I don't think he's homophobic at all. I mean, his best friends were Ten and Jungwoo. In the Jungwoo video, Jungwoo WAS ALSO impersonating him and went over the top with the manliness. They were impersonating each other. And in the Ten video I'm 90% sure he was actually laughing at what Ten said and happened to also be looking down. 

When him and Jungwoo were in U together they were clearly like best friends. Lucas often called him pretty. Jungwoo himself said that he prefers to be called pretty and cute over handsome. I don't get why it's offensive to impersonate someone if that's legit how they are and they were impersonating each other. 

If anything Lucas is hetero normative in a lot of his talk but to say he's homophobic is a stretch.

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1 hour ago, one-hoe wonho said:

kinda off topic but is the point at pointing out their "limp wrists"? do people imply that limp wrist = gay? 

Yeah. I'm so confused by all these random post that the only thing it shows is a picture someone with a limp wrist. That is...not relevant. 

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4 hours ago, canis lupus said:

"confused"...

come on guys, as bad as it may sound, let's not pretend that stereotypes never existed for a reason

But if that's the only thing, it's not relevant. Every basketball player has a 'limp wrist' when shooting a shot. In context of something else it could be relevant but just a bunch of pictures of different idols with a caption saying limp wrist just...not it imho.

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8 hours ago, skelten said:

don’t come for me but i feel like namjoon is lowkey a homophobe

Or he just doesn't like people touching him. I hate anyone trying to touch me or hug me when I'm sleeping. I just actually cannot stand it. Even when I love someone deeply I'm not a cuddle person. 

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4 hours ago, Koko22 said:

I always had the feeling that he's gay

Taemin to me is the hardest to figure out.

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3 hours ago, singularstigma said:

For me I think Taemin is gay, but Kai is a lot more confusing and has had me trying to guess for a long long time.

I didn't really pay that much attention to Kai until SuperM, but man. He really is confusing. But he's also so earnest but at the same time guarded. I feel like he's really hard in himself in a lot of ways. 

I'm not sure exactly what his and Taemin's relationship has been or is, but it's very clear they mean the world to each other. I do find it interesting though that even people close to Taemin--including his manager, thought/think him and Kai are/were dating. 

Edited December 27, 2019 by seashells

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24 minutes ago, Koko22 said:

The real question here is... is haechan gay or european?

I feel about haechan the same way I feel about taemin. Super hard to read. ESP because a lot of haechans actions are because he lives to annoy others--especially mark. He's also super confident in everything he does and doesn't seem to get embarassed at all. 

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14 minutes ago, sooa_t said:

Suho is really confusing too...

I feel like Suho is probably not straight. Bi/pan/queer or what have you. In Exo, I put Sehun in the I think it's safe to say he's gsy category and Suho in the most likely not straight category. 

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3 minutes ago, sooa_t said:

yeah I have my doubts about him, he makes me confused just like jackson

On two different shows he's been asked if this is his 'coming out'. The episode of Hello Counselor that he was on with Sehun and also the drama cool episode where he was there with Baekhyun, Chen, and Xuimin and Suho interpreted the video as being a love story between two men. I feel like...it's come up often enough genuinely that there's some foundation or known facts about Suho too. Sehun is a given. 

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5 hours ago, Talmort said:

[Talking about which EXO member they wouldn't date if they were a girl] Chen: "This is not disliking Sehun. It is when we are the opposite sex. Because it's opposite gender so my 2nd is Sehun." Then he starts laughing and Ryeowook says "Okay because of privacy we'll skip the reason". I mean...he basically just outed him

 

 

At 22:30

 

 

Also on EXO's second appearance on Knowing Bros, Baekhyun basically outs him again by saying that 'Swhun has no interest in women. He tells us all the time he has no interest." 

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51 minutes ago, sooa_t said:

also I don't take in consideration those who be like he's obsessed with red velvet and irene....people try to see too much into this ''ship'' thing like lisa and bambam

He's obsessed with Red Velvet in what seems to be the same way a lot of gay men Stan female divas if anything. 

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1 hour ago, Koko22 said:

Sehun's and Suho's relationship confuses me. Sometimes I get the feeling they're gay best friends and sometimes it feels like they're banging.. haha

I really do think they are more like gay best friends and lucky that they ended up as roommates. If both of them are gay I wonder who knew first.

Talking about the video that someone else posted, I know in the interview Sehun and Suho had on NCT night night, Sehún mentions that Suho's habit is that he always wants to sleep in Sehun's bed. 

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1 hour ago, Koko22 said:

What about Baekhyun tho? 

I put Baekhyun in the same category as Haechan. Süper hard to read because they are both so confident in everything they do and are essentially 'class clowns' that will do anything to make the people around them laugh. This often makes it hard to tell what's genuine and what's just being extra for the sake of being extra. 

Isn't Baekhyun's ex rumored to be a Lesbian? To note, Baekhyun actually stayed silent when Suho suggested the story could be about two men in love while Chen was calling the theory outrageous and Xuimin was doubled over in laughter.

If nothing else he's supportive. But again, hard to read. 

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6 hours ago, JENKAI said:

they're confusing me too.. sometimes i definitely think they're not just best friends.. they're so touchy and ONLY to each other.

There was one time, i think it was a vlive interview, 7 members except junmyeon was there (he had a schedule). They were watching a video of Junmyeon singing and Baekhyun teased Sehun so hard it was so random and out of nowhere.

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Also a couple of times in the concert they tried to kiss e/o on the lips.

 

I never really count stuff they do in concerts but man, I had never seen the Vlive and Baekhyun giving Sehun such a hard time. Now that is something I'll have to file in the bank.

I guess part of fhe reason I never assumed they were together is because they both have/had outside people that definitely seem like a boyfriend. That's why I always assumed they were extremely close gay bffs.

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27 minutes ago, baekhyunee said:

i think most people think he is straight but people started question after this thing with lucas 

i think he’s straight tho

People started to question Mark long before the thing with Lucas. I think the first thing was how he reacted to Kang Daniel on that reality show he was on. I think the other things were how much he actually initiates and loves skinship but pretends he doesn't in front of cameras. Maybe also how clingy he is when drunk. I know there's something else but I honestly cannot remember. He's always the first to actually catch on to gay stuff too. 

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22 minutes ago, Koko22 said:

Catch on to gay stuff? And what reaction to Kang Daniel?

 This isn't even all of it because the episode is like over an hour but he's seriously enamored with the guy. I would recommend watching the whole episode. He like hugs his pillow while he watches him unpack his bags and it's like okay. I'm just linking this as a quick overview.

I also forgot there was another show where Mark gets flowers from a guy and says it feels like a date and at first he's so flustered and embarrassed but also is like really grateful.

And when I say gay stuff, I mean he's always the first to have nervous laughter when something clearly has double meaning. When Jaemin asked him about if he had tried hot dogs and the way they were talking, it was obvious they were talking about dicks. They both cracked up too. I know it was during Go Promotions. 

I would have to find it all but I'll look. 

Edited December 30, 2019 by seashells

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Mark being flustered and saying it feels too much like a date. 

Jaemin and Mark and their hot dogs. 

I keep remembering things in spurts. I think another reason is that Mark was asked who he's most similar too in NCT and he said Ten. He also said something about how on the surface it doesn't seem like they would be, but that Ten is like his soul brother and they are apparently so similar that they are referred to as twins. 

 

Edited December 30, 2019 by seashells

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7 minutes ago, sooa_t said:

I remember the nct members saying that mark likes hugging or something like that but in front of cameras he doesn't want it

Yeah. There was one video I remember that Haechan calls him out and says he pretends like he hates it on camera but behind the scenes he loves it and and usually initiates. 

There was some stalker footage kind of like the Lucas and Mark one that showed Mark going to hug Haechan. 

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6 hours ago, Koko22 said:

I must be crazy, but I still don't see the gayness :c I think he's just a very awkward and shy guy haha. I guess that Mark Straight Lee is engraved too deep into my mind? Idk

I don't know about Mark either way. You just asked why and I'm slowly starting to remember the reasons people assume. 

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3 hours ago, RMPA said:

What about your opinion in all Wayv members?

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Ten is the only one I would bet hard earned money on being gay. 

There's Hendery and Xiaojun but a lot of their stuff seems to be actual like worship and looking up to Ten. So I can't tell if it's like an idol you want to be crush or a crush crush. Ten mentions in a BTS video that Xiaojun had pics and videos of him saved on his phone and Xiaojun says it's because Ten was someone he looked up to and was and fan of and would always watch his videos. Hendery also just seems to have some hero worship. 

WinWin silent and hard to read. Kun has a lot of what some people categorize as 'girly' interest but I honestly don't know. His relationship with Ten is honestly kind of fascinating. 

Yangyang I think is most likely straight. Lucas is Lucas. He comes across as the most over the top hetero but at the same time he tends to hang out with the assumed to be gay line the most so...there's that. Apparently before debut he would always go to Ten for advice and Jungwoo was his best friend.

So basically I think Ten is gay. I think Xiaojun is supportive if nothing else based on his Dads career. I also think Xiaojun pings way more than Hendery.

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15 hours ago, burntgucci said:

Here's the NCT masterpost. 

I most likely won't be updating it as the only boy group I really care about nowadays is EXO, but afaik no NCT member has suddenly started saying a lot of gay things since I posted it lol, so it should give you a general idea of who to look out for. Although Hendery has been pinging me more often recently.

Do you have an EXO master post

Edited January 1, 2020 by seashells

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How are all the most suspect members from their respective groups--except Lucas maybe--now in one group.

I'll say it again but I do think two things are important to note. That Taeyong said that bring in SuperM around his seniors really helped him with his identity and mental health. And that Ten said he never felt more...I think it was open or calm than when he was in America with SuperM and I think it relates to how many openly gay artist Capitol Records has signed to them. 

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I don't think it's bearding. I think Heechul is getting older and has had to suffer quite a bit. As someone who also had to grieve profusely, it wouldn't surprise me if this started up after Sulli. 

Edited January 1, 2020 by seashells