Which male idols do you think are gay?

[h0neanias]

What does it mean to Key to kiss Dana?

 

He was taking no prisoners that day.

 

 

JoKwon and Park Jung Min. Btw when I first got into kpop I though GD was gay>< sorry people. I was just not used in guyz with so thin bodies and so pretty characteristics and at that time he was cuter so..... Sorry GD T__T Now I see how manly you  are ^^~~

 

Poor GD. It's so magnanimous of you to have saved him from the terrible fate of being considered gay, which would surely be the death of his manliness (which must be protected at all costs, of course).

Edited September 27, 2013 by h0neanias

[h0neanias]

I don't agree. The dramatics are through the roof

 

They're always through the roof. It's like the last opportunity to get crazy before the adulthood kicks in, and boy do some of these girls revel in it.

[h0neanias]

I'm a lesbian and though I can appreciate guys' bodies and sometimes crush on them in a not-entirely-sexual way I can't imagine myself (or any of the gay girls/guys I know) liking multiple softcore porn pages for a gender we're not attracted to. Whether it's because Key wants to fit in, is trying to prove something, or genuinely likes women I don't know, but I wouldn't consider it ~normal gay guy behaviour~ to like this video for example. However, my opinion is just based on my own experiences and it might be different for other people 

 

Maybe he is testing the idea, asking himself if he could do it should he feel enough pressure.

 

 

I hope that facial expression was one not of disgust at two men kissing

 

I'd consider that very unlikely.

 

And yes, Key does have to go to the army, without which there can be no career in Korea, certainly not a public one.

[h0neanias]

LOl woollim aint going to think that it perfectly adequate clarification if 20+ fansite went on hiatus lol

 

Jonghyun got to bear the brush himself, too. What did SMEnt do for him? They forbade him to speak, and that's about it.

[h0neanias]

BUT yeah this time is different, didn't jonghyun admitted to the relationship ?

 

Actually, the whole Jonghyun thing smells fishy anyway. It may have been a stunt, and they still left him out in the cold. Then again, what can you do when fans are being cunts. Anyhow, if the official explanation is to stand, there's no point in L's saying anything more. The course is set.

Edited September 28, 2013 by h0neanias

[h0neanias]

Do you recall that Block B Thailand incident when Zico said he's got some spare change only and everyone was hating on him and then it turned out he wasn't that far from the truth? What I'm saying is that there isn't enough facts to conclude anything; it's just a matter of framing, setting the tone, i. e. one of shared belief. The matter seems to be dominated by that "general opinion" of those elusive "netizens" that they really dated, that he really used those tweets to broadcast an apology to his girlfriend -- as if he had no fucking clue what an e-mail or a text is. Shared hysteria has a history of getting it wrong.

Edited September 28, 2013 by h0neanias

[h0neanias]

a bunch of maybes lol

 

That may be the best summary of the matter I've seen so far. Then again, that's what this thread mostly is, so I guess it fits.

 

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y3YDgsSLJ8c

 

 

 

God, I've been missing this something fierce.

 

 

He just comes off as really manipulative.. and even fake to an extent. Now of course most (if not all) idols are like this.. but Myungsoo did it in a way that just seemed so..... sneaky and dirty. In public, for everyone to see and read. It's just worrisome because INFINITE is such a humble group full of sweet members.

 

If there was anything on his side (or between them at al) and if those tweets were meant for her. Honestly, even if both were true, I'd call the deed profoundly stupid, but I can see nothing particularly dirty about it.

 

 

I do too. She is just so perfect (seriously had to fan myself just thinking about her lol)

kk I will.

 

to be on topic

my fave kpop bromance

 

Am I the only one here who hates the word bromance? Not that it's an affront or anything, I just think it's dumb and unnecessary. (Again, that's nothing against you, in case someone got the wrong impression.)

 

 

 

People, how do we even know it's really EXO? Come on.

Edited September 29, 2013 by h0neanias

[h0neanias]

I'm not sure if ur being sarcastic or serious but it is Exo lol

 

How do we know it's EXO? How was it taken? Where does it come from? Most importantly, I doubt the guy on the left is D.O. at all.

[h0neanias]

Does anybody have any pre-debut pics of D.O. and Suho around? Comparing the similarities would help find an answer.

 

Personally, I'm the on fence. I can see why it might be them, but I can see why it might not.

 

For me, it doesn't look like either, and I sincerely doubt such a pic would just float around.

[h0neanias]

If Woollim didn't confirm it, I probably wouldn't have believed it's real. Could Myungsoo really be that careless? Walking with a girl arms linked in a crowded supermarket in the middle of the day? And only two back pictures? Some things just don't seem to add up. A really weird scandal.

 

Pretty much. What bothers me about the whole thing is that it requires L to behave as a complete idiot at every step. Maybe I'm too optimistic, but I don't think he'd be that stupid -- in the thing his livelihood depends on, no less.

 

 

ORLY? How did you hear this? *pulls up a chair*

 

His bandmates teased him about it on that show with the two comedians.

 

 

Related to thread but out of topic.

 

 

Someone's asking me why cant I see Suho as a man.

 

And this is the reason. Warning 18+ only..

 

 

 

 

 

 

The context here is that he is partnered with another MAN here.

 

 

 

First, that's not Suho in the slightest.

 

Second, if you "see him as a man" only when he's straight, you have no idea what the word "man" means.

Edited September 30, 2013 by h0neanias

[h0neanias]

Key's musical

 

In Korea, with Key? What was it like? How good an actor is he, kissing that woman?

Edited October 1, 2013 by h0neanias

[h0neanias]

Of course this doesn't disprove myungjong being real. But all this fakeness, I just see too much of it. Concept for a band, concept for a song, I feel like their personalities and relationships are also just conceps given by the company...

 

I see this notion sometimes. If it's true, where are all those brilliant idol actors?

[h0neanias]

*edit: i'm also pretty sure it's used fairly freely in academia. i've encountered it in a number of articles i'd read over my time in university, and one of my friends from a different university majored in "queer studies" at her university.

 

The word is used all the time in this context, meaning "not straight", which is the meaning I use it for as well.

 

 

It doesn't seem strange that they know each other. But why hang out with her if she's that kind of person? Does her father have so much influence that Myungsoo is forced to let her tag along?

And how do you know about her plastic surgery?

 

First: look at her face. That taken out of the way, I'd express it this way: let's say L was noncommittally friendly to her, or maybe real friendly. They met via her father, she clinged on to him, he went with it, humoured her. She wouldn't be the first girl to start thinking there is something between them when there is not. Who knows, maybe she's used to get what she wants, when daddy's paying for it. She's a princess, why wouldn't he fall for her? Of course he had to. Before you know it, a delusion is born. There doesn't have to be ill will, all you need is a spoiled girl and a misunderstanding.

 

 

What are your opinions about DGNA? Or what do fans in general think?

 

I thought Karam could be gay and Mika bisexual, but there is nothing tangible. I have little experience with them and don't feel much. I don't think anything, basically.

Edited October 4, 2013 by h0neanias

[h0neanias]

I think that was the case actually. At the next interview he came up with an ideal type somehow. 

 

Yeah, he was like "I'm totally into girls, she just has to be sexy, mmmm boobies, let's get down, baby".

Edited October 4, 2013 by h0neanias

[h0neanias]

Tao is the princess of course. :P  (At first I was thinking "why would xi think anything but," but then I remembered that he know wushu XD)

 

Tao is like that warrior princess who acts all coy and likes to be pampered but then POW! asses get kicked and the prince is like "...wut".

Edited October 4, 2013 by h0neanias

[h0neanias]

He said, Kris (EXO), Jaejoong, Heechul and Jonghyun (Shinee) are straight.

 

I have to respectfully disagree with this opinion.

 

[h0neanias]

Are they all koreans ur friend? But u know dont take it too seriously lol stas friend might be wrong also lol

 

It should be noted that a friend of a friend is not much of a source. It's not like their perception would be particularly better.

[h0neanias]

I didn't get what u just said lol

 

There is no difference between "I think" and "my friend thinks" as far as credibility goes. There is no idol-spying gay ring in Korea that knows who's who. They have opinions or hear a certain sum of opinions ("word is on the street..."). It's all just opinion.

Edited October 4, 2013 by h0neanias

[h0neanias]

who's rumored to be gay and a uke

 

I would like to respectfully ask that "seme" and "uke" be not used as descriptors outside yaoi, unless it's the yaoi stereotype that's being referenced.

Edited October 4, 2013 by h0neanias

[h0neanias]

Ummm, i never heard anything about these terms being offensive lol i said what i heard. Uke, seme, suke, whatever, it doesn't concern me and i don't judge gay people by their preference.  No need to be sensitive about it

 

I don't aim to tell people what to say, but those terms have nothing to do with real life. It's wish-fulfilment fantasy. Nothing wrong with that per se, but it is fantasy. It may be surprising for some, but no, gay men do not wish to enact heterosexual gender roles. It is demeaning to suggest we do.

[h0neanias]

Shouldn't even be called heterosexual gender roles tbh. 

 

Yeah, bad choice. Different-sex, simply. My mind just came back to that dumb bitch of a teacher in grade school who told us that in a gay pair, one of them always "plays the woman".

 

 

I think that these terms do exist in real life no matter what language they were. Some gay people like to top , others prefer to bottom and others prefer to do both; stereotypes are based on real trends after all.

 

"Uke" is not a bottom, uke is a bottom in yaoi. That's my beef with the term.

Edited October 4, 2013 by h0neanias

[h0neanias]

I really hate it when people say that , I'm not gay myself but I can only imagine how offensive it must be for gay men

Gay men are called gay because they love men , if a gay man wants to love a woman then he's straight or bi so there's no need for a "woman" in a gay relationship

 

Well, I'm not one to get offended all the bloody time or throw around words like privilege and erasure. I'd just personally like it to be recognized that the whole wide world doesn't live to play mummy and daddy, is all.

Edited October 4, 2013 by h0neanias

[h0neanias]

SO I LOOKED UP "GHEI SEAL" IN IMAGE SEARCH TODAY BECAUSE I WANTED TO FIND THE PIC OF THAT SEAL SHOUTING "GAAAYYY"

BUT LOOK AT WHAT CAME UP IN THE FIRST LINE OF IMAGES:

 

 

it's not even a particularly gay gif outside of sehun existing in it and yet the internet considers it "ghei seal"

 

it's kinda ridic how much kpop has saturated image search :P. you can look up basically anything and within 20 pages you will find a pic of SNSD or lee joon or someone.

 

Heh. That whole result is full of K-pop. Then again, K-pop is full of ghei seals, so yeah.

Edited October 5, 2013 by h0neanias

[h0neanias]

¿Porqúe no entiendes? Necisitas dar credito a nia...

 

No es necesario. He searched for ghei seals first, I just made the flip.

[h0neanias]

Why do you think kikwang is gay??

the one who pings for me is dongwoon tbh, i really like kiwoon so I would like to know your opinion on it please.

 

Kik has "masculine charm" combined with something so sweet and alluring that it just makes me want to cuddle with him. Plus his lovestruck behaviour around Dongwoon, which I think is reciprocated (maybe not to that extent, but yeah, I think there is something between those two).

Edited October 5, 2013 by h0neanias