Which male idols do you think are gay?

[slutty slut]

i'm gonna sound like such a k-netizen but my cousin's friend who's studying abroad in korea saw a member (i ain't about to say who, i don't want backlash) from the group m.pire ~fooling around~ with guys at a club

 

you didn't hear this from me tho

 

[slutty slut]

Why the fuck do people say shit like this? The entire point of being attracted to males is that they don't have vaginas, and most gay guys (that I've seen at least) agree that it's really gross when people feel the need to feminize men's bodies. I mean we don't masculinize women's bodies, even lesbians. Why do it to guys? It's just another way of saying "he's a man but he's not really a man though"

'boy pussy' is gay slang for a dude's ass. i think it's funny how offended you got by such a harmless post, you're acting as if it's degrading to associate men with female characteristics/femininity.

[slutty slut]

It is degrading. Not because there's anything wrong with being female or feminine, but because intentionally misgendering somebody is a direct attack on the legitimacy of that person's identity. The idea that gay men are "kinda men but kinda women" and that it's appropriate to treat them as such is so pervasive that the idea has even infiltrated the gay community, and it's why most gay men refuse to associate with the community at all. No self respecting person of either sex would put up with that, and it shouldn't be tolerated in a thread like this.

 

Seriously, can you imagine somebody saying "hey girl lemme lick your girl-dick" or "I wanna fuck you in your front-ass"? Most women would not put up with something like that.

oh ok. i never thought of it like that tbh 

[slutty slut]

Sorry, I meant to exclude relations and behavior upon the sex whom you're attracted to. It does play a huge part in that. But I meant your general everyday personality. For example, many homophobes or ignorant people think gay males are extremely happy-go-lucky, jazzy, or feminine. Which are traits that anyone can have, and just because you are a gay male, you don't have to obtain those traits. But based on how you act with people you find attractive or relationships, this reflects your sexuality. But you can't assume someone is gay because they like broadway or they are compassionate. But you can assume if they act a certain way with the sex they are attracted to. Sorry, for the confusion, I hope you understand where I'm coming from now. ^^

i agree that not all gay guys are feminine, but if a guy IS feminine he's more likely to be gay tbh. i think it's kind of iffy to base accusations on stereotypes but i mean, how common is it for straight guys to be feminine or exhibit more feminine behaviors compared to gay men? i personally don't fall under stereotypes but most of my gay friends do 

 

maybe it's because men in general are socialized to be masculine/aggressive in a world where gay men are already labeled as being not "real" men so we're not as uptight about dumb gender roles and are able to showcase ourselves more freely? idk maybe if our society wasn't so femmephobic more straight men would be more feminine : ))))