KaniPi 2,626 Posted January 22, 2018 Share Posted January 22, 2018 I was going to an appointment and I saw these two guys pass these young women. This shouldn’t matter but one of them was wearing really really tight jeans to the point you could see the outline of her butt. They started shouting at her calling her sexy and whatever and they seemed to enjoy the attention. They didn’t seem upset or ignored them as they were smiling. Anyway, this happened in front of me as a Muslim, I was tempted to tell them to not say that because it doesn’t matter what a woman wears you don’t shout at them like they’re a piece of meat. I just avoided eye contact. Men from all backgrounds I notice stare at me as well sometimes in the same way when I’m covered (again doesn’t make much difference) which makes me angry. I don’t think anyone wants to be leered at like that. Even more confusing is when non Muslim do it since I can’t be with them...it means nothing. I just feel like some men view women like they look at cars. Btw I’m not making this men vs women because I have seen women do it to other women as well for different reasons. Sorry going off topic but if you saw something you seemed wrong due to moral or religious reasons would you say something or just ignore it? It’s just conflicting to me because I want to say something but the other person might not care. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IBetrayedHanbinForSewoon 4,294 Posted January 22, 2018 Share Posted January 22, 2018 Most of the time no because I’m a coward Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NINI 16,268 Posted January 22, 2018 Share Posted January 22, 2018 Well, it depends on the situation... If it's something I can't ignore and bothers me a lot I'd speak up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KaniPi 2,626 Posted January 22, 2018 Author Share Posted January 22, 2018 Most of the time no because I’m a coward I usually judge them in my mind instead of saying something, I don't really want to have any type of conversation with them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fistnayeon 99 Posted January 22, 2018 Share Posted January 22, 2018 Women are the same when it comes to men. Women objectify men all the time. Many men feel pressured to have abs and big dick. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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