Speaking of Wooyoung’s insensitive statement

[Kim Seolhyun]

It reminds me of what my father said a few daya after the incident. As my father watches me cry about the traged, trying to comfort me, he has the AUDACITY to tell me “He had a weakness y’know.â€

 

Well no shit! What did he want to accomplish by mentioning that! Instead of seeing him as someone who made his daughter happy for 2+ years, he decided to use his “weakness†to describe him. He has always been an insensitive piece of shit and what he said there really had me questioning this man’s sense of morality.

 

Have some TACT. Jesus Christ! He is one of those ASSHOLES that thinks being “brutally honest†is okay. You don’t know shit you pot bellied motherfucker. Have some sympathy! Don’t blame it on him what he could not conquer!

 

Honestly I HATE that man sometimes. Fucking sick bastard

 

Sorry for typos I am.... yeah.

[CareBear08]

Let me ask you this:

 

Did your father find out about Jonghyun through you or through another outlet?

[Kim Seolhyun]

Let me ask you this:

 

Did your father find out about Jonghyun through you or through another outlet?

Me. I had texted my mother about the incident. I told her if I was to act strange, it was because of the tragedy. I had then asked her if she had seen my text, she didn’t (she never checks her phone) that is when I broke down and told her about the tragedy. My father tried to seem sensitive about my grief, but then the shit he says a few days later just.... it makes my blood boil.

[fartsniffer]

Don't think he's being a jerk, he's just trying to make sense of something that he couldn't truly understand

 

Gwaenchanha

[CareBear08]

Me. I had texted my mother about the incident. I told her if I was to act strange, it was because of the tragedy. I had then asked her if she had seen my text, she didn’t (she never checks her phone) that is when I broke down and told her about the tragedy. My father tried to seem sensitive about my grief, but then the shit he says a few days later just.... it makes my blood boil.

I asked you this because I think you should never tell someone like him this because you know what kind of reaction you'll get and it's not good. From what you've said in your op it seems as though he's been insensitive to you before and that's just not good. 

 

It seems to me as though you're going through a lot. Have you ever thought about other ways of letting out your feelings so that you can get some relief and understanding? Maybe start an anonymous blog? One of the things that I've learned in this world is that you sometimes have to find your own ways of understanding because people cannot and will not try and understand.

 

I hope I make sense.

[Kim Seolhyun]

I asked you this because I think you should never tell someone like him this because you know what kind of reaction you'll get and it's not good. From what you've said in your op it seems as though he's been insensitive to you before and that's just not good. 

 

It seems to me as though you're going through a lot. Have you ever thought about other ways of letting out your feelings so that you can get some relief and understanding? Maybe start an anonymous blog? One of the things that I've learned in this world is that you sometimes have to find your own ways of understanding because people cannot and will not try and understand.

 

I hope I make sense.

When I was crying when my uncle (on my mother’s side) passed back in 2007, he told me to get over it.

 

And you’re right. I don’t want him to know I am still mourning about the loss in fear he will say something that will make me want to slit his neck. He would still pull the exact same shit he did 10 years ago. He is not open for change on his trash personality.

 

As of now on I’ll only express my grief on kpop related forums because they are the only one’s who understand what I am going through. I am done confiding in people who don’t care to give a shit about the pain that this has caused me.

 

As for anonymous blogging I don’t have time for that.

[CareBear08]

When I was crying when my uncle (on my mother’s side) passed back in 2007, he told me to get over it.

 

And you’re right. I don’t want him to know I am still mourning about the loss in fear he will say something that will make me want to slit his neck. He would still pull the exact same shit he did 10 years ago. He is not open for change on his trash personality.

 

As of now on I’ll only express my grief on kpop related forums because they are the only one’s who understand what I am going through. I am done confiding in people who don’t care to give a shit about the pain that this has caused me.

 

As for anonymous blogging I don’t have time for that.

As long as you have somewhere to go then that's good.