spicey babe 3,133 Posted January 15, 2018 Share Posted January 15, 2018 I know all of you worry about kpop idol with all your heart but please, let's not act as if an idol putting a sad quote, having marks on their wrists, listening to sad songs mean they are depressed, self-harming themselves: not because you shouldn't or because it's not important, but because you will overcheck every single thing they do when your thoughts were wrong. Depression can exist in infinite ways, self-harm will not be in a place where people can see. Not everything will be shown even if you use a magnifying glass. Yes, I do know you would want to talk about it, and having people going in a different path that the one you build wasn't your idea, but remember, a lot of people had loved ones being in the place you are talking about, some people lost these beloved ones, some of us had scream about how we felt but people don't listen because we don't show it, some people do show it but it's apparently not enough. Most of these people want help, but others? they don't want to be part of your theories. For years I saw lists, threads, theories about idols being depressed, and you know something? I never saw Jonghyun, the person everyone is using to over-analyze, in these lists when he did talk about it, he had songs about it but apparently, for these people it wasn't enough because he wasn't showing it enough on his pictures, on his attitude. He never had threads made about him and while I find amazing what you guys do about your faves, I find it funny at the same time because you would throw a fit when . don't agree with you. Being sad and being depressed it's not the same. I don't really know if I explained myself but the point it's: don't over-analyze everything, because most of the things you are seeing aren't actually that telling. My facebook wall it's full of these kind of things but half of them are posted in my good days, because my personality it's pretty melancholic but you will not guess how my bad days are because of it. If you want to help your idols, tell them how much they mean to you, how they have helped but don't put this kind of pression for you. Sorry for the bad english, or if the post triggered you or affected you, here's a cute to make it better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pink + White 1,593 Posted January 15, 2018 Share Posted January 15, 2018 An important post. Thank you for taking the time to write it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CookieMaster97 7,456 Posted January 15, 2018 Share Posted January 15, 2018 thankyou so much for this it needs to be said Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kittdie 1,708 Posted January 15, 2018 Share Posted January 15, 2018 yes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessica's G-string 3,589 Posted January 15, 2018 Share Posted January 15, 2018 thank Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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