Messages to Your Self

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It will be the best decision, only if you trust it to be so.

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Block and move on.

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As long as you understand that you're not purposefully ignoring your true feelings about how you feel about certain things. You understand the importance of time; that you can't slow down or afford to become sad while it happens. Things will pass. You know best whether any words or actions directed to yourself should carry any meaning to them.

Difficult experiences are hard to swallow but necessary if you want to keep moving. You're fortunate and blessed to do what you want. Please realise that. Don't completely write off your efforts when the actions of a minority are visible. Just recognise them and understand they are probably people who you might never want to go out of your way to have to meet. Things will get better or worse, with or without them.

Progress is cumulative. Learn to become patient, confident and trusting in your decisions. Your objective shouldn't necessarily be to only do well but to work at your best. That's really all you can do. Please don't pressure yourself to meet standards you can't manage. Don't be discouraged and internalise results when they do not meet your expectations.

Edited March 28, 2021 by Lee

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Easter is already over. Stop putting many eggs into your basket.

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Let's not second-guess, they were careful to not hurt you.

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You're making good progress. Don't look back. I know you're still feeling hurt. But understand you're no longer where you used to be. So, take this as your best chance to move forward.

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Don't feel bad over what you can't do. It's not worth the stress.

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Let go of them.

Edited September 23, 2021 by Lee

[Lee]

They do not want you to be part of their life.

If they truly cared, they would have never treated you in this way anyway. At least not consistently and for all to see.

You will meet someone who will treat you better. Let's move forward and not think about them anymore.

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Until the moment you realize that making a world with the few you will love forever
is more important than being loved by everyone.

 

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No, sweetie, I'm sure that's a snake in the grass. Move away, unless you want to get bitten.

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If you can't find a solution, create one. Tackle the problem and break it into a series of smaller problems.

And if you "fail" at doing it, just remember that you're only human.

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They're not your friends — never were, never have been, and most probably never will be.

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Think about it: Could it really be that important? 'Cause it's probably not.

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Don't worry about others, take care of your needs first.

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Don't let them steal your joy

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You're actually doing so well … I just wish you'd tell that to yourself more often.