zediby 355 Posted January 7, 2018 Share Posted January 7, 2018 I get it that sm giving out coal briquettes might be triggering but aren't we being too self centered? these people can't afford heaters so sm handed them out. that's a good deed, we shouldn't twist things like that. if jonghyun's friends and colleagues read comments hating because of that, think about how that will hit them. let's think about others. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
katsu curry chips 7,808 Posted January 7, 2018 Share Posted January 7, 2018 brb gotta catch this mess edit: people just don't get it. are they trying to twist this into how *the coal* killed him, not him making a conscious, tragic choice using - like many people with him sadly - a common household method? that's what's really disrespectful about this, not doing a perfectly good deed for the less fortunate. the poor who receive this gift will surely be grateful, so focus on making that phone call to your lonely grandparent or reach out to that friend you haven't spoken to in ages if you want to make a difference in his honor. talk to someone who's going through a hard time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RenM 2,204 Posted January 7, 2018 Share Posted January 7, 2018 Sean family been doing that for years, nothing special tbh. But it's good to spread the awareness. oh if it's about jonghyun, people need to stop relate everything at that direction. like i said, it's a common charity that celebs/companies doing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Faces 5,832 Posted January 7, 2018 Share Posted January 7, 2018 people need to understand this isn't about jonghyun, this is about charity and helping the poor survive the winter. the world will not stop because of a tragedy, it keeps going and people keep suffering. they should be praising sm idols for taking time to do these things, as if they aren't busy enough already. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
move-d 242 Posted January 7, 2018 Share Posted January 7, 2018 · Hidden by Bazz, January 7, 2018 - requested by user Hidden by Bazz, January 7, 2018 - requested by user I don't think Jonghyun's friends don't understand the double meaning of this, so there is no need to keep quiet about our pain. They DID do a good thing, but the timing is just not right. And honestly, the pain that comes from being reminded of this immense. Not one day passes where I DON'T feel incredibly sad because of what happened and this didn't make it better. Sorry for being selfish but it freaking hurts. Link to comment
zediby 355 Posted January 7, 2018 Author Share Posted January 7, 2018 people need to understand this isn't about jonghyun, this is about charity and helping the poor survive the winter. the world will not stop because of a tragedy, it keeps going and people keep suffering. they should be praising sm idols for taking time to do these things, as if they aren't busy enough already. this!!!! also, I'm worried these days. Everyone is still sensitive, but we must accept it... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kami 9,209 Posted January 7, 2018 Share Posted January 7, 2018 They could of done the coal briquettes charity without any publicity like other companies but SM are releasing pics and videos which are in poor taste imo. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pfirsich 0 Posted January 7, 2018 Share Posted January 7, 2018 I'm sure most do understand that this is about helping low-income families and those who need the heating, but even I immediately thought of him when I read about it. And though SM's been doing this for a while now, the timing is really bad so I don't blame them at all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Faces 5,832 Posted January 7, 2018 Share Posted January 7, 2018 I'm sure most do understand that this is about helping low-income families and those who need the heating, but even I immediately thought of him when I read about it. And though SM's been doing this for a while now, the timing is really bad so I don't blame them at all. what do you expect them to do? hand them out in the summer? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zediby 355 Posted January 7, 2018 Author Share Posted January 7, 2018 They could of done the coal briquettes charity without any publicity like other companies but SM are releasing pics and videos which are in poor taste imo. why shouldn't they? don't they have the right to? they did something and decided to spread it. maybe it will inspire other people to do the same. aren't they setting a good example? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anki_tao 11,208 Posted January 7, 2018 Share Posted January 7, 2018 what happened Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
youtrieditduh 4,575 Posted January 7, 2018 Share Posted January 7, 2018 smh people saying the timing is wrong, I mean its winter and its really cold in korea, they need to help those low income families, and I dont think this is first sm is doing this.I know people are sensitive to this situation, but I hope they're understanding that those people really need help Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
�halley� 1,438 Posted January 7, 2018 Share Posted January 7, 2018 Coal donation is a basic and common donation method. Like flour and rice so people shouldn't over analyze it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zediby 355 Posted January 7, 2018 Author Share Posted January 7, 2018 what happened sm donated coal briquettes to low income families and people associated that with jonghyun's parting and started hating.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ddeona Oneul Bame 61,625 Posted January 7, 2018 Share Posted January 7, 2018 I mean, sorry to say it like this but if Jonghyun had used any other method to kill himself, would handing out coal briquettes still be an issue? We're all still hurting, but this action has nothing to do with Jonghyun, they're trying to do a good thing for other people~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Winter Bear 9,460 Posted January 7, 2018 Share Posted January 7, 2018 I mean, sorry to say it like this but if Jonghyun had used any other method to kill himself, would handing out coal briquettes still be an issue? We're all still hurting, but this action has nothing to do with Jonghyun, they're trying to do a good thing for other people~ ^^ ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Pls stop negging, this is a sensitive topic for a lot of people. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blue7kaoru 17,423 Posted January 7, 2018 Share Posted January 7, 2018 Wow i didn't know ppl had an issue with this.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anki_tao 11,208 Posted January 7, 2018 Share Posted January 7, 2018 sm donated coal briquettes to low income families and people associated that with jonghyun's parting and started hating.. ???? what this is such an over reach what does jong have to do with this Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zediby 355 Posted January 7, 2018 Author Share Posted January 7, 2018 ???? what this is such an over reach what does jong have to do with this I agree Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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