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The spoiler isnt completely related but please read it.

 

 

I know what some of you guys may say. This is ironic for me to talk about considering stuff I've said in the past and that I don't exactly have the cleanest track record with being nice all the time but for what it is worth, I'm honestly sorry for the kinds of stuff I used to say. I was really selfish because I always thought "what does it matter if strangers on a forum dislike me" but basically I was thinking that I didnt care if I hurt people's feelings because I don't know them, and that's not right. So I'm sorry for the way I was. Lately I have been doing my best to be much nicer

 

 

I noticed this a lot with Yeri in particular, people can say something mean about her and get all these upvotes, but... Why? Why do people think that they are justified to be genuinely mean about an idol just because they don't like them?

 

I mean its the internet and you can say anything you want with immunity for the most part, but just... I saw this too with people saying truly disgusting things when a couple users said they love Jihyo's body.

 

I think we have this mindset that the idols won't read our comments but just because we speak English doesn't mean its suddenly okay to be assholes. I know a lot of idols read comments about them online and some of them are very insecure because of it. Some idols can speak English and anyways and like, mean comments are hurtful to fans too.

 

Unless an idol hurt you personally or did something truly wrong I don't think you should hate on them publicly because your hatred is unreasonable. Truly we can't help if we have negative thoughts because its only human nature but maybe instead of being so salty openly for no reason people should just complain to a friend. I know everybody has ugliness but if you can't get over it don't make other people feel bad about it.

 

I was pro-BT just a week ago but now I get why people hate it so much.

 

Anyways I'm really sorry, especially since I used to be mean about Jimin. I don't even know much about him and I could have made his fans feel bad but it wasnt my intention. I was really acting like an ass, I dont know whats wrong with me.

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Posted · Hidden by SINphony, January 2, 2018 - No reason given
Hidden by SINphony, January 2, 2018 - No reason given

I did nothing to you but you chose to invalidate my stance personal conflicts with someone who hurt me deeply because you felt the need to go out of your way to be like “no 1 currsâ€

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I did nothing to you but you chose to invalidate my stance personal conflicts because you felt the need to go out of your way to be like “no 1 currsâ€

Honestly? I dont like you because you are the kind of person who says mean stuff about idols for no reason. So that's why I said that to you.

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r u redue ?

 

ur aesthetics looks "not that good " now no offense unnir sama :rlytearpls: red aesthetics outsold but anyway

 

 

w that said :ninja: they prolly had the same mindset as u when u used to be messy

"what does it matter if strangers on a forum dislike me" but basically I was thinking that I didnt care if I hurt people's feelings because I don't know them"

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Honestly? I dont like you because you are the kind of person who says mean stuff about idols for no reason. So that's why I said that to you.

And you did the same about Jimin but you have the audacity to hold a grudge? Coming out of nowhere talking shit because your mad about what I said about an idol ages ago? Fucking clown!
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i agree with you. i see people do it with twice when they're some of the sweetest, unproblematic girls out there and have yet to do anything wrong. sure, constructive criticism or expressing your opinion is fine, but hating on them just because probably stems from some type of jealousy or insecurity. some people just choose to be nasty because they can and it's easy to say mean things when they're hiding behind a computer screen. 

 

we've all said mean things, i'm sure but if people could just realize the effect of their words as you do, we'd all benefit from it tbh.

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For Yeri:

- jealousy/annoyance from her bubbly personality

- seen as useless to the group (but thats never a reason on its own for people to hate. Usually just backing ammo for the real reason: jealousy, or some superiority complex)

- easy picking from her group

- and for idols in general: ppl feel as though they have to upkeep certain standards a s celebrities bc they owe it to the general public. So harsh criticisms

 

 

And also there are those who spread hate without actually truly hating the idol in question: out of boredom, lack of empathy, dark sense of humour, as an outlet, and as a means of projection

 

I saw this too with people saying truly disgusting things when a couple users said they love Jihyo's body.

 

link me.

id love to have a nice chat

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human nature is just... full of hate. i mean, take something as trivial as the badge rant/appreciation threads, there are so many more pages in the badge rant thread than there are in the appreciation one. (< i know it's not related to the idols themselves lol but still, my point stands)

 

honestly it's their choice to hate and be negative—if that's how they want to live life, hating on people who don't know they exist, then that's fine by me. 

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r u redue ?

 

ur aesthetics looks "not that good " now no offense unnir sama :rlytearpls: red aesthetics outsold but anyway

 

w that said :ninja: they prolly had the same mindset as u when u used to be messy

"what does it matter if strangers on a forum dislike me" but basically I was thinking that I didnt care if I hurt people's feelings because I don't know them"

Omg this shade @ my aesthetic :rlytearpls:

 

And yes I am redue HOW ARE PEOPLE GETTING CONFUSED OVER A ONE LETTER DIFFERENCE

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And you did the same about Jimin but you have the audacity to hold a grudge? Coming out of nowhere talking shit because your mad about what I said about an idol ages ago? Fucking clown!

Dude, this is such a positive thread and so much character development from redue, stop derailing it unsure.png

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The problem is we can change our outlook but we can't expect others to do the same. This is a time where we have to learn to be confident in who and what we like and acknowledged that people say terrible things about people they don't know and will never try to know them so they can keep saying terrible things. Only what you think matters in the end. Hate is so detrimental to the mind, never understood it.

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idk but i've personally never really hated an idol or a group before coming onto this forum. 

I've been so hurt by what people say that it doesn't really hurt me anymore tbh. And in turn, i start throwing shade around as well. 

I still don't have an particular group/idol i hate, i maybe dislike them, i might shade them once or twice thats it?. Heck, I shade my bias group allll the time compared to groups i don't dislike tho 

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idk but i've personally never really hated an idol or a group before coming onto this forum. 

I've been so hurt by what people say that it doesn't really hurt me anymore tbh. And in turn, i start throwing shade around as well. 

I still don't have an particular group/idol i hate, i maybe dislike them, i might shade them once or twice thats it?. Heck, I shade my bias group allll the time compared to groups i don't dislike tho

 

I used to think it wasn't really a big deal but later I felt so bad because of what people said about Yeri. I know we think its no big deal and I guess if its just lightly shady its not that hurtful but people would really say stuff like Yeri can't do anything right and everyone hates her and she's not pretty etc... I really feel bad when people say that about her. I know she won't read the comments on OH but how would she feel if she saw people calling her useless and bitchy getting so many up votes?

 

We think idols don't care and they have so much money anyways so what does it matter but then something like Jonghyun's suicide happens and its too late. People were hateful and dismissive and when we finally realize that its already so hard to be a celebrity without hate comments, we can't take it back

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I've noticed you've been quite pleasant recently OP. Glad to see this character development. I agree with you, and while I have my own opinions on idols, I think it's really rude to try and make others feel bad for supporting their biases by constantly putting them down. It's not that everyone has to like everything, or there can't be discussions and criticisms, but those people who have to attack an idol in every instance and try to project their negative feelings onto everyone, including said idol's fans are really exhausting people. We all have different opinions here and that's fine.

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