respect 1,151 Posted December 27, 2017 Share Posted December 27, 2017 there's a debate going on right now on social media where woman should pay first because men will end up paying for second or third date. they say women are very petty when it comes to splitting the bills what do u guys think? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TickleMePink 17,072 Posted December 27, 2017 Share Posted December 27, 2017 Or both sides could pay for their own shit Edit: But whoever asks the person out should be the one to pay is what I usually say Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jeong jaehyuns boyfriend 10,627 Posted December 27, 2017 Share Posted December 27, 2017 why do people care so much tho it really depends on the person, some girls want the guy to pay for them, some want to pay for their own meal, some dont mind being a boss bitch and paying for both Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reckoner 6,692 Posted December 27, 2017 Share Posted December 27, 2017 i sure as hell will. i don't like people paying things for me (unless it's my parents) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blackBandit 313 Posted December 27, 2017 Share Posted December 27, 2017 whichever has been agreed during the planning of the said date boom problem solved. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Missguided 1 Posted December 27, 2017 Share Posted December 27, 2017 Or both sides could pay for their own shit Edit: But whoever asks the person out should be the one to pay Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sevendays 842 Posted December 27, 2017 Share Posted December 27, 2017 Or both sides could pay for their own shit Edit: But whoever asks the person out should be the one to pay is what I usually say this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BeTaS 3,372 Posted December 27, 2017 Share Posted December 27, 2017 yeah just split the bill. That's what venmo is for man, or better yet just bring cash. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Umji's butt minder 796 Posted December 27, 2017 Share Posted December 27, 2017 If the woman initiated the date she pays. The man does, he pays. If they make some agreement then going dutch is alright. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lil Ayy Big Gay 8,172 Posted December 27, 2017 Share Posted December 27, 2017 Boy better pay for every date Chivalry lives on! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Regality 955 Posted December 27, 2017 Share Posted December 27, 2017 First date both should just pay for their own shit. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Glissando 616 Posted December 27, 2017 Share Posted December 27, 2017 there's a debate going on right now on social media where woman should pay first because men will end up paying for second or third date. they say women are very petty when it comes to splitting the bills what do u guys think? That's a weird debate :/ Why would guys pay for the next dates if they don't pay for the first? What if there is no second or third date? What do they mean by "petty" when splitting the bills? I'd prefer each pay their own tab unless it was made specific before the date that one side was treating. That way neither side feels financial pressure on the first date. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Qüintéssèntiæl Bitçh 1,375 Posted December 27, 2017 Share Posted December 27, 2017 The one who ask the one will pays that's it. Daniel: I think, I Yearned for You. Jihoon: I want to raise Niel-hyung. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nutella91 8 Posted December 27, 2017 Share Posted December 27, 2017 Depends on country. Here in Russia a man should pay, better bring flowers etc. Like if he does not even pay for a meal, he will be greedy when a woman is taking care of their child. But a woman should better suggest to share bill on first dates. If they share a bill it's more like they don't really like each other. But we don't have feminism. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IceSmile 895 Posted December 27, 2017 Share Posted December 27, 2017 Split. You barely know each other. If a gentleman offers to pay fully, those are plus points. But I'll still insist on paying. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zenist 490 Posted December 27, 2017 Share Posted December 27, 2017 If she is a feminist, yeah. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gj gf jfdhsvsb 1,245 Posted December 27, 2017 Share Posted December 27, 2017 What if it’s two women on a date or two men lol y’all are so weird Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Repeat 1,397 Posted December 27, 2017 Share Posted December 27, 2017 I've never understood this nonsense. Pay for what you eat, it's as simple as that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ego ista 1,344 Posted December 27, 2017 Share Posted December 27, 2017 its whatever they agree on Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hallah 8,441 Posted December 27, 2017 Share Posted December 27, 2017 i always pay for myself no matter what, and actually get annoyed when guys insist on paying for my food and don't respect my choice. i just find the whole concept bizarre; we're complete strangers, so why would you pay for my food? are you my dad? are you my caretaker? it's just insulting. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kish 2,929 Posted December 27, 2017 Share Posted December 27, 2017 Just split it. Done Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Serenee 3,730 Posted December 27, 2017 Share Posted December 27, 2017 I think it's the guy who should pay for the first date, of course, if it was him who invited me. Then everybody pays for what they eat, I wouldn't like to be a burden to him and I want both of us to enjoy ourselves. If a guy made me pay for him on the first date then I would dump him. I had this male friend who is like that and that's why I don't like hanging out with him anymore. Most of the time he has money but he doesn't want to spend them over stuff (probably keeping them all for going to clubs or something) and he is like 'Borrow me a travel with the metro!' Or 'Give me some of your food! *eats almost everything*. This attitude is so annoying. I can't respect a person who is like that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-masayume- 3,749 Posted December 27, 2017 Share Posted December 27, 2017 I personally prefer to pay for my own part, if my date happens to pay everything then I keep thinking how I need to pay for both the next time and it just becomes stressful. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vanille 1,800 Posted December 27, 2017 Share Posted December 27, 2017 I don't date men, obviously a woman is gonna pay lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blond jenissi 676 Posted December 27, 2017 Share Posted December 27, 2017 I'd rather split it, otherwise if I dont like him I feel bad but in general I dont like it when people pay for me unless we're really close Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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