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jonghyun delivered his will to nine few days ago


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He delivered his will to her? Can someone tell me if that's a normal thing to do, or doesn't it raise huge warning bells? Wish he could've been somehow checked on more those few days...

 

yes. she said after this she contacted his family and they started paying closer attention to him.

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yes. she said after this she contacted his family and they started paying closer attention on him.

 

I think that dumb of me to even ask tbh... hell... he delivered his â€‹will to her.

 

 

I'm not blaming anyone and I appreciate they did try to get in contact more... but I wish that they actually physically kept with him? Especially since no one knew he checked into a residence and so it took too long to find him? 

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I don’t want to pile on her, how does that not raise red flags?

 

when someone is determined to end their life, there's not much you can do to stop them short of handcuffing them to furniture and not letting them leave. i don't know if south korea has something like the baker act, but unless someone explicitly tells you they're going to kill themselves, your hands are sadly tied.

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when someone is determined to end their life, there's not much you can do to stop them short of handcuffing them to furniture and not letting them leave. i don't know if south korea has something like the baker act, but unless someone explicitly tells you they're going to kill themselves, your hands are sadly tied.

Sadly, yes - I understand this.

 

But I don’t know how someone would live with the guilt.

 

I guess I don’t understand all of it.

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when someone is determined to end their life, there's not much you can do to stop them short of handcuffing them to furniture and not letting them leave. i don't know if south korea has something like the baker act, but unless someone explicitly tells you they're going to kill themselves, your hands are sadly tied.

Where do you live

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I don’t know why thinking he had done this spontaneously made me feel better but now with the detailed suicide letter and the fact that he had planned his will and sent it out makes it obvious that he decided on this a while ago and had planned it out. I can only imagine the state of mind he was in while publicly preparing for a comeback but knowing he will probably not get to it. It just makes it so much worse

I don’t know why people are being suspicious of the girl. She clearly did what was within her power to do. Both she and his family shouldn’t blame themselves

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I hope no one points fingers at her or his family at this point. She reached out to his family and the translation says they were trying to keep a close eye on him afterwards. I don't know if there are any laws that could have allowed them to intervene from a legal perspective. But like someone said, if someone is determined to end their lives, they'll try there hardest unless you can physically restrain them or something. 

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Guys, leave his sister alone - she just lost her brother. I'm sure she's already blaming herself as it is and wondering what she could have done differently, the last thing she needs is people dog-piling on her. No one's perfect, and we don't always notice the signs, even when they're right in front of us. Even when we do, we can't always be there 24/7 to watch out for the ones we love and make sure they don't hurt themselves; if someone's determined to inflict self harm, they usually find an opportunity when others aren't around to stop them. And then there's the fact that we know nothing about her life or whether she's been going through problems of her own. Circumstance notwithstanding, I understand that you're all hurting, but be mindful of the fact that she's very likely going through a much harder time than we are.

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