cake mf 1,737 Posted December 17, 2017 Share Posted December 17, 2017 When you’ve known someone for so long, and you’ve always been able to rely on them to help you out or stand up for you, but then they just decide to...stop? Even when you do the same for them when they need you, they don’t let you anymore? :/ This has happened to me too many times. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
starfruit 4,746 Posted December 17, 2017 Share Posted December 17, 2017 i can relate sometimes i would like for the codependency to return again but then i guess my friends and i drifted away for a reason Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SlaYall 40 Posted December 17, 2017 Share Posted December 17, 2017 I feel you. It's a painful feeling. I always ask myself "what did I do wrong to these people?" even though I know I did nothing wrong. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cake mf 1,737 Posted December 17, 2017 Author Share Posted December 17, 2017 i can relate sometimes i would like for the codependency to return again but then i guess my friends and i drifted away for a reason In my case we weren’t even codependent, I mean we weren’t that close c’mon...but I respected him and he can’t just boss me around. It doesn’t matter what others say about me, I’m still the same person he stood up for before. But I get what you say about people drifting away for a reason, sometimes it’s fate. I feel you. It's a painful feeling. I always ask myself "what did I do wrong to these people?" even though I know I did nothing wrong. Same! Some ppl do a complete 180 for no reason. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Umji's butt minder 796 Posted December 17, 2017 Share Posted December 17, 2017 It happens. Sometimes in really random ways. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elscian 5,139 Posted December 17, 2017 Share Posted December 17, 2017 Yep. Sometimes I feel like it's bc they simply got bored. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cake mf 1,737 Posted December 17, 2017 Author Share Posted December 17, 2017 It happens. Sometimes in really random ways. Yep. Sometimes I feel like it's bc they simply got bored. Exactly! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cherrimotion 822 Posted December 17, 2017 Share Posted December 17, 2017 It happens, and I always try to understand why, I even come to think I did something wrong Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tickle Star 1,460 Posted December 17, 2017 Share Posted December 17, 2017 Yes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cake mf 1,737 Posted December 17, 2017 Author Share Posted December 17, 2017 It happens, and I always try to understand why, I even come to think I did something wrong Right? It’s like what did I even do to you jfc. Yes I feel u Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Okaypop 822 Posted December 18, 2017 Share Posted December 18, 2017 It's such a weird feeling. It makes you think you've done something to them or start doubting yourself. This obviously makes it much harder to make friends in future. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloupipoo 1,619 Posted December 18, 2017 Share Posted December 18, 2017 nah usually I am the other person and it gets tiring always having to carry other people's emotional weight I cut off others drastically in the past for the sake of my own mental health Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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