YEOJU 4,405 Posted December 14, 2017 Share Posted December 14, 2017 ok so. i'll try to make this short. during my first year of college i met this guy who had a class with me. he was nice at first and funny, and we even ended up in the same group together working on our final project. he was always kinda flirty but i brushed it off, didn't really care. after our class together ended he started getting real weird. he was always sitting near me and watching me, he kept texting me constantly and kept pestering me when i didn't answer, told me he liked me via text.. i had to tell him i had a boyfriend (lie) and that didn't stop his ass!!! he kept trying to win me over or some shit (when i told him i had a boyfriend he literally said, and i quote, "oh that's fine, 90% of college relationships don't work out anyway. wtf???). this semester i'm literally running away from him. he keeps inviting me out and i keep kindly declining. sometimes i'm with my friends and he'll randomly interrupt my conversations to say hi, and it's really annoying. literally two days ago i was talking with a group of friends and he was sitting nearby, staring... later on i get a text from him saying my ass looked great in my jeans and that i looked like a snack. even tho my reply was obviously showing how uncomfortable i felt, he kept going. then he proceeded to invite me out on a date AGAIN, tf... i thought the boyfriend lie would get him away from me but that didn't work. i don't want to be mean and be like "literally never talk to me ever again" but i might. what do yall think i should do??? help a sister out Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lighterxx 12,204 Posted December 14, 2017 Share Posted December 14, 2017 i get a text from him saying my ass looked great in my jeans and that i looked like a snack. beat his loser ass up Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pink + White 1,593 Posted December 14, 2017 Share Posted December 14, 2017 i'd threaten to report him Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
delfinos 4,224 Posted December 14, 2017 Share Posted December 14, 2017 report him to your campus. he sounds creepy af. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coconut water 2,135 Posted December 14, 2017 Share Posted December 14, 2017 Tell him straight up you don't like him and block him. At this point kindness can no longer be used. If you politely decline his advances and he keeps pursuing then you're going to need to get mean and tell him off. Or have a guy friend pretend to be your bf and have him tell him to leave you alone, that works sometimes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kaibibi 2,286 Posted December 14, 2017 Share Posted December 14, 2017 avoid him at all costs Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
How Nice 1,661 Posted December 14, 2017 Share Posted December 14, 2017 avoid him at all costs Honestly, you might have to involve the police if this continues on further- the guy is really starting to sound like a legit stalker. Be careful op Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted December 14, 2017 Share Posted December 14, 2017 i'd threaten to report him Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TIAAERI 1,324 Posted December 14, 2017 Share Posted December 14, 2017 Fuck that. That dude is a creep. He is like borderline stalking you. Be as mean as you need to Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JENNIE'S OPPA 3,082 Posted December 14, 2017 Share Posted December 14, 2017 I don’t mean to scare you, but be careful girl. Some people can be crazy af. I had some girl literally stalk me for half semester even after I told her I was gay and I had no interest in her. She saw it as some sort of game to “make me straight†or some bullshit. At the time, I was living with my parents and she found out where I lived and everything. I was so stressed and my anxiety was through the roof because of her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
junmyeonsnoodle 1,074 Posted December 14, 2017 Share Posted December 14, 2017 block his number, that you joined a cult that doesn't allow you to have sex, start making loud grunting noises anytime he approaches Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YEOJU 4,405 Posted December 14, 2017 Author Share Posted December 14, 2017 thank you all for your advice!! beat his loser ass up considering I don’t mean to scare you, but be careful girl. Some people can be crazy af. I had some girl literally stalk me for half semester even after I told her I was gay and I had no interest in her. She saw it as some sort of game to “make me straight†or some bullshit. At the time, I was living with my parents and she found out where I lived and everything. I was so stressed and my anxiety was through the roof because of her. wtf omg!! how did you get rid of her? block his number, that you joined a cult that doesn't allow you to have sex, start making loud grunting noises anytime he approaches will do Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beluga 554 Posted December 14, 2017 Share Posted December 14, 2017 I came here thinking this was going to be a cute story but ended up being creepy af. Be mean and say `literally never talk to me ever again` and if he persists report him to your campus. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JENNIE'S OPPA 3,082 Posted December 14, 2017 Share Posted December 14, 2017 thank you all for your advice!! considering wtf omg!! how did you get rid of her? will do The last time I saw her I sort of made a scene by yelling at her to leave me alone and to stop harassing me in front of a lot of people. I guess that startled her a bit. I don’t have FB anymore because of her, I changed my number due to my contract being over, and I tried staying busy so I wasn’t home all day long. This lasted for awhile, and eventually she just vanished. I avoided her at costs. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
veda 443 Posted December 14, 2017 Share Posted December 14, 2017 Screenshots all the disgusting texts he send you (evidence) and report him to your campus security or police if you don't trust CS to do anything (some uni are notoriously bad at sweeping things like this under the rug). This is important so you have official records of his harassment if things get out of hand later. Also block his number (and all your SNS accounts if you have him added), and tell all your friends about this creep so they can keep an eye on him. Especially don't go anywhere alone if you're aware he's stalking you. You can get a restraining order if everything else fails. And this is where your reports will come in handy. So, make sure you lodge those reports, don't be ashamed of lodging multiple reports. It's to protect yourself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suzy Quatro 1,441 Posted December 22, 2017 Share Posted December 22, 2017 later on i get a text from him saying my ass looked great in my jeans and that i looked like a snack. omfg xD Don't know how you didn't block him after that, lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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