Ash-Pikachu 51,270 Posted December 10, 2017 Share Posted December 10, 2017 Pann: When reality hits you while fangirling ... 1. [+203, -2] When I look around me at their concert and see thousands of people cheering for my bias and I realize that I'm so small in the scheme of things. And my bias has already achieved their dream and is singing and dancing for their fans on stage and working so hard towards their passion in life while I realize I haven't done anything with my life because I've been so preoccupied with my bias. Even though I don't want to blame my bias, it's hard not to. I'm really happy because of my bias but sometimes reality hits me like that...2. [+176, -5] For fan signings and concerts, I'll buy new clothes and put on a full face of make up and then I realize that no matter how much I doll myself up, my bias is used to seeing pretty idols like Irene or IU and I realize I'm nothing ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹3. [+158, -1] I also feel a bit empty after fan signings. I realize that I spent all my saved money to buy albums to see my bias and spent the previous night up because I was so excited and couldn't sleep ã… and then I spent all that time dolling up on the day of only to realize that I was probably just another stop on his schedule... really makes you feel empty.4. [+65, -0] This is why you shouldn't do more than like their music or let them inspire you in a positive way. It's okay to like them as people but you shouldn't enjoy them for more than their music. It makes you vulnerable to feelings like the above.5. [+63, -0] When you realize that your connection to each other is something that can disappear if you let go6. [+58, -0] When I felt so excited to go to their fan signing and ask them who their ideal type is and they answer "you" and that was enough to make my heart flutter for days only to realize when my friend tells me that he probably said that to hundreds of other fans that day too and yeah, I really felt reality hit me hard then.7. [+56, -0] When I see super rich fans give them tons of support and buy them bags and shoes worth thousands and I realize that I don't have that kind of money but they'll always have fans that can do so much more than me so I'm not a needed person8. [+55, -1] I remember reading an article and a disappointed fan wrote, "You were my oasis but I guess I was just another schedule stop for you" and that hit me hard9. [+37, -0] When I see male/female idol collabs... I can't help but think how many hours they spent practicing together and all the conversations they must've had during..10. [+35, -0] When I realize that they've already achieved their dreams and yet the rest of us are falling further and further away from our dreams11. [+32, -0] When I see them doing aegyo and stuff on TV and realize that it's probably for their girlfriend.... please be careful with your relationship ã… ã… 12. [+31, -0] When I realize I spent so much time voting, streaming, and supporting my bias to help them win an award and yet I see them smiling at female idols at the ceremony... makes me realize that I should just focus on my life13. [+27, -0] When I see their eyes change when they see me versus when they see another prettier person14. [+23, -0] When I realize I'm just a speck of dust in the grand scheme of their life15. [+22, -0] When I read that they bought a building recently... makes me so jealous Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kissxkiss_baby 5,756 Posted December 10, 2017 Share Posted December 10, 2017 IT GETS HARD WHEN EXO STILL HASNT COME TO TORONTO LIKE BITCH Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IKKY 6,735 Posted December 10, 2017 Share Posted December 10, 2017 When you take stanning to deep. Never let your bias be at the center of your life. That's just tragic. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sdm 13,010 Posted December 10, 2017 Share Posted December 10, 2017 This is why you shouldn't do more than like their music or let them inspire you in a positive way. It's okay to like them as people but you shouldn't enjoy them for more than their music. It makes you vulnerable to feelings like the above. ^^ exactly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doki-doki 21,660 Posted December 10, 2017 Share Posted December 10, 2017 Some of these comments make it seem like these people basically live for their bias, you can be a fan and still have a life & job, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RUNCH RANDA 1,508 Posted December 10, 2017 Share Posted December 10, 2017 wow ash not like you to forget original links or proper credits you're losing your touch Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
isluffy 886 Posted December 10, 2017 Share Posted December 10, 2017 2. [+176, -5] For fan signings and concerts, I'll buy new clothes and put on a full face of make up and then I realize that no matter how much I doll myself up, my bias is used to seeing pretty idols like Irene or IU and I realize I'm nothing ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ã…‹ there are still fangirls who are hoping to date oppa Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TAE ZONE 10,428 Posted December 10, 2017 Share Posted December 10, 2017 these comments are sad :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gore 8,169 Posted December 10, 2017 Share Posted December 10, 2017 When I have to stay up until 4am to stream a show they’re on or a concert they’re doing Lmao @ the ones about female idols, please stop stanning if ur that shallow and jealous Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ash-Pikachu 51,270 Posted December 10, 2017 Author Share Posted December 10, 2017 wow ash not like you to forget original links or proper credits you're losing your touch I didn't forget, y'know. Was still editing my OP. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MyBabyShawn 753 Posted December 10, 2017 Share Posted December 10, 2017 those comments KPOP fans are trash tbh. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soft 4,381 Posted December 10, 2017 Share Posted December 10, 2017 this post rly hit me hard, more because i realised how much i spent on albums.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RUNCH RANDA 1,508 Posted December 10, 2017 Share Posted December 10, 2017 I didn't forget, y'know. Was still editing my OP. all this to get first post? why not post everything together instead of editing it all in after? if you did this with an mv thread you'd be locked rn Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
done. 371 Posted December 10, 2017 Share Posted December 10, 2017 When you take stanning to deep. Never let your bias be at the center of your life. That's just tragic. right... reading these comments is actually sad? stanning is fun and all but don't let it preoccupy you from living your life Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
150819 444 Posted December 10, 2017 Share Posted December 10, 2017 this is heckin weird it's like they are not supporting an artist but see them as potential boyfriend(/partner) this is so lmfao this industry is just so weird to me, the comments just hit me hard bc this is literal proof that these people don't even see idols as musicians or even humans, just someone to obsess over and fulfill romantic fantasies and it's just... wow y'all are creepy get a life tbh if supporting your singers doesn't bring you joy/motivation/inspiration to fulfill your own personal goals and gets you stressed bc 'they see prettier people on the daily' you are doing everything wrong and some major changes should be made in your perception of the world, of yourself and other humans Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newton'sApples 4,303 Posted December 10, 2017 Share Posted December 10, 2017 Some of these comments make it seem like these people basically live for their bias, you can be a fan and still have a life & job, Some fans are all this stanning to seriously! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cupteabooks 601 Posted December 10, 2017 Share Posted December 10, 2017 IT GETS HARD WHEN EXO STILL HASNT COME TO TORONTO LIKE BITCH Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Deviandrepepe 6,559 Posted December 10, 2017 Share Posted December 10, 2017 Those are all pathetic Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PeachyHearts 8,358 Posted December 10, 2017 Share Posted December 10, 2017 Here's my thing, if you love and support your idol, that's cool! But if you start sending death threats or start unstanning them just cuz they're dating or telling you that they're not your bf/gf then you're just a shallow and a person with no heart. It just shows that you didn't love them as a person to the point where you would be fine with whatever they're doing, but you love them as a person you would fantasize and that's just pathetic. And it's okay to ship the members together, but don't get mad when you a get a reality check that they're dating or marrying someone who isn't part of your ship, you're at that point just a sad human being. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RUNCH RANDA 1,508 Posted December 10, 2017 Share Posted December 10, 2017 If you've faves release high quality music that you'll listen to often then you shouldnt feel guilty about buying it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mischo 7,462 Posted December 10, 2017 Share Posted December 10, 2017 The first comment really did hit home when I was an obssesed fangirl Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pururin 14,348 Posted December 10, 2017 Share Posted December 10, 2017 when i woke up at 5am on a sunday to stream the audio of a concert fdskfdslg i fell asleep after a while but still the effort..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Serendipity 11,102 Posted December 10, 2017 Share Posted December 10, 2017 Love yourselves, ladies. Anyway I feel the post above ^. I slept for like 4 hours and woke up at 3AM to watch BTS' Wings Tour Finale. Good music, fun times, don't regret it, but man, I'm feeling the lack of sleep now, Mr. Krabs. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eriy.m 2,900 Posted December 10, 2017 Share Posted December 10, 2017 5. [+63, -0] When you realize that your connection to each other is something that can disappear if you let go Damn. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Humming_bird 299 Posted December 10, 2017 Share Posted December 10, 2017 To all those who are harshly criticising commenters, need to know that perhaps most of the commenters are teenagers. It's easy for teenagers to fall for idols and have feelings. After all, they are called 'idols' for a reason. It means they sell idealism to you or anyone else besides their music. Now, I am not saying that thinking about idols in such a way is a right to thing to do. It's just..neither party is innocent in this deal. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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